Hello! I’m a 31 year old female. I’m Bi, Poly, & a sub. I’ve been in and out of the lifestyle for several years and have been in few different dynamics in the past. I am a sub, will always be a sub, and I am in NO way, shape, or form interested in EVER dominating anyone. I will NEVER be a switch.
I am a very relaxed person and enjoy a good conversation. So please feel free to message me! I’m always open to making new friends and having a good chat. If you do message me, please understand that if you can’t hold a decent conversation with me I will probably not continue to respond. Intelligent conversation is very much appreciated and a turn on for me.
Just fare warning…. I am very open, honest, and blunt. I’m not afraid to offend someone and i am far from politically correct. I do however give everyone the same amount of respect I would want to be given. I treat everyone with respect, kindness, dignity, and understanding. I can be sarcastic and a bit bratty at times…. Well actually quite a bit. Lol I’m very strong willed and opinionated.
I do enjoy being a sub, and have since I got into this lifestyle. Between being a single mom, my career etc… I have to maintain quite a bit of control over my life. Because of that I thoroughly enjoy when I am able to hand over control to someone else. One thing about me though… I’m of the mindset that submission is earned. You have to earn my trust and my submission. I’m not going to just give it to you. If you haven’t earned it…. I don’t submit. Submission requires significant trust because you are giving someone the power to utterly destroy you and trusting them not to. So don’t think that just because you are “Dom” that I will just come running and bow to your every whim. That’s not how this works! You gotta work for it and earn it ?
I’m an open book. So please, don’t hesitate to message me, start a conversation, and get to know me.
I will be 100% honest, I’m not looking to rush into anything. I do NOT want a relationship, so if that’s what you’re looking for you’ve got the wrong girl. I do prefer to talk first and take things from there. I do have a busy life, so if I don’t respond right away then please don’t be offended.
I’m pretty polite and will usually respond to just about anyone, however please don’t be offended if I’m not interested.
Also, NO means NO! Please remember that consent is EXTREMELY important in this lifestyle. If you don’t understand what consent means…. Well then shame on you and kindly FUCK OFF. If I tell you NO I will NOT play with you then that doesn’t mean continue to beg or to ask “why”. I do NOT owe you any sort of explanation. Just take NO for an answer and go about your merry way.
Do NOT send me messages wanting to be my “sugar daddy” or saying that you want to financially support me. I’m a big girl and can take care of myself. I don’t need you to give me money in exchange for photos or sexual favors (I’m not into prostitution). I will never ask for gifts or monetary favors. If you send me a message wanting me to be your “sugar baby” or for you to be my “sugar daddy” you will be reported to Fet as a potential scam ?
Do NOT ever ask me to address you by an honorific. I will not do so unless I am in an established dynamic with you or we plan it as part of a scene. I understand that some s-types have no issue addressing others outside of their established dynamic/relationship by an honorific, however, I am not one of those.
On that note… the discussion of honorifics brings me to the subject of pet names. I do have to ask that you do NOT address me as babygirl, kitten, princess, or any other sort of pet name. I am NOT your baby girl, kitten, princess etc…or call me Slut, Ok me in anyway unless it’s an established scene or we are in an established dynamic.
MY HARD LIMITS: Scat, water sports, blood, permanent marks, nothing illegal, no drugs, bondage is going to be a temporary limit due to having surgery on wrist/hand recently, Anyone with an STD/STI is a hard NO
If you can’t respect my limits…. Well… kindly fuck off.