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I’m a confident, easy-going single lady who loves to enjoy life whether that’s exploring new places, sharing a good laugh, or having deep, meaningful conversations. I’m playful, warm, and open-minded, and I appreciate people who bring positive energy and authenticity.
Female (32) Wichita, Kansas
5’1” little lady looking for some fun in a new town
Female (33) Wichita, Kansas
I am not interested in random hookups. I also require public vetting before agreeing to anything outside of messaging. I like to think of myself as a very sensually sassy specimen with a scrumptious appetite for sexual delight. A voluptuous goddess with curves that desire to be explored. A blank canvas in which to create master pieces. I lust for knowledge and intellectual temptations. I am forever changing and evolving as I continue my kink journey, Learning and pushing my boundaries brings me an inconceivable amount of pleasure. Currently looking for a possible D/s relationship with the right fit. Always open for new scene partners as well. I am vetted at the various local dungeons and enjoy being a part of the community and going to events.
Female (38) Wichita, Kansas
I'm from the UK and work as an economist. I was raised in a traditional and religious the UK family, and I consider myself to be a real, humble, and down-to-earth woman. I value honesty, loyalty, and respect in relationships. I'm looking for something serious and would love to find my partner to share life with. I'm ready to leave the UK for the right man. In my spare time, I enjoy staying fit and being active is a big part of my life. I change my location so i can meet new people outside my preference..
Female (44) Wichita, Kansas
Very open person, down for more easy going and real , i mean my words and i am like a open book, i am looking forward for something nice and new
Female (43) Wichita, Kansas
I'm a kind-hearted and cheerful woman who always tries to see the bright side of life. My friends often describe me as someone warm, fun, and sincere and I believe they're right. I have a soft spot for spending time outdoors. Whether it's a picnic, a forest walk, or just breathing in fresh air, nature helps me recharge and feel grounded. My everyday life might seem simple mostly work and home but I fill it with smiles, energy, and meaning. I value emotional warmth and try to bring light into the lives of people around me.
Female (72) Wichita, Kansas
I prefer to foster harmony and understanding rather than engage in confrontations or disputes. I truly hope that my future partner will cherish and value each moment we share, finding joy in the little things that make our days special.
Female (42) Wichita, Kansas
Kink for me isn’t just sensation—it’s storytelling. Each scene should say something: about who we are, what we need, and how we connect. If you can give me depth with your dominance, I’ll give you submission that leaves marks on your soul.
Female (20) Wichita, Kansas
420 friendly very open minded open relationship look for MMF FFM I’m a princess brat
Female (31) Wichita, Kansas
I am married. Husband isn't for me playing as much as I want to be. He is more comfortable with me playing with a soft, wet lady. He is not into any outside playing at this time. I'm definitely into more, but not sure how much I can do.
Female (42) Wichita, Kansas
I like to feel secure and empowered when I am comfortable enough to submit to someone. Praise is huge for me. I like to feel like a pretty porcelain doll just adored and appreciated :) not a little- there’s a difference. ;) respectfully I love to feel cared for and worshipped. some of yall need therapy more than a lover.
Female (24) Wichita, Kansas
I just finished a short two-year divorce for a long 25-year marriage. None of that was fun, so now I'm looking for some dang fun in my life! Does anyone want to help me out with that? I'm really a simple person. I don't like drama or lies, and I do like to talk... a lot, if I'm being honest. I'm looking for mental stimulation. Show me someone who knows how to talk to me (in all scenarios), and I'll show you a happy girl. I'm mostly looking for dominant friends to play with, and hopefully, I'll find myself a nice Rigger buddy. 😈
Female (45) Wichita, Kansas
I’m open to many things. Single for a couple years. I enjoy rough men, open to women and couples. Interested in casual or long term, depending on the person. Huge metal head, gamer, tattoo enthusiast, horror movie/show lover, gun enthusiast, book enthusiast, political, traveler, *** lover.
Female (33) Wichita, Kansas
“Bantersexual”…especially attracted to smart, witty men/women. Laughter and play are top-level sexy! Active, kinky, always curious…I’m exploring. Here for connections I can feel safe exploring with. I’m independent with a definite brat streak. Dom might feel more natural for me than submissive but I’ve just started to explore so who knows? 😈 Let’s both be surprised, lol. I’m not here just to find D or P, I’m selective. You gotta be the whole bag ‘o tricks. 🎁 Must love water sports. 💦
Female (53) Wichita, Kansas
23yo white female I have never had a proper Dom and am a brat with a punishment kink. A black and blue bottom is not enough for me. I’m hoping to meet someone that meet my pace, not to say I don’t appreciate a hint of vanilla every now and then. I’m hoping to get out more explore this side of fun
Female (23) Wichita, Kansas
🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫 I DO NOT PLAN/SCHEDULE MEETUPS WITH MEN. If you are a guy you can contact blueJ89 if you would like to meet up. Couples and female identifying ***ps are welcome to contact either of us. My partner has final say in all non-playobic meets. 🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫 I DO NOT PLAY ONLINE, TELL DESCRIPTIVE FANTASIES, OR MAKE BUSINESS PLANS ON THIS APP. If you would like any of these we can move to one of my many business apps. If you can't have a non-sexual conversation I will treat you as a potential customer. 🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫 💚💚💚💚💚 Now the good stuff! Me and blueJ89 (my partner/Dom) would love to make some kinky friends, platonic and sexual. We want to meet people who enjoy the lifestyle as much as we do. While friendships do not need to be sexual, we would like to find some regular people to play with. 💚💚💚💚💚 🪢🪢🪢🪢🪢 KINKS: *Light BDSM *Feminization *Praise *Rimming *Object insertion *Ropes *Toys *Recording/watched *Orgasm Control *Free use FETISHES: *Feet/toes/fingers *Cum 🪢🪢🪢🪢🪢
Female (38) Wichita, Kansas
in a happy and satisfying long-time marriage but we love to spice it up occasionally by adding in a third. *** love to find the right girl that we can hang out with and have some sexy fun with here and there. I like to share with the right person
Female (51) Wichita, Kansas
Hello~ Im a very shy little hoping i find friends or even a caregiver for me one day
Female (22) Wichita, Kansas
I am a single mom of 4 looking for some kinky no strings attached fun. I just had a full hysterectomy at the beginning of the year. I love being outside, playing pool, crafts, and many other things.
Female (26) Wichita, Kansas
Married but exploring ENM/Poly relationships. New to this lifestyle and always learning. Communication is important and I prefer to have a real emotional connection, not just looking for ONS or a FWB situation. Dinner, drinks, movie/coffee dates or catching a concert are some of my favorite ways to spend time. Show me your nerd side and we will probably get along. Fandoms include music, Stephen King, Supernatural, Marvel and DC. I’m not good at taking the lead as a submissive so dominate men always catch my attention.
Female (52) Wichita, Kansas
You need my attention and I need yours. My beauty is more valuable than anything else in this world. My feet are the sweetest thing you will ever put your eyes or mouth on 😘. I will have you in lust. Kinksters who love feet more than oxygen are welcome to join me for conversation and more in my DM....my rack is even better than my savory ebony toes.
Female (34) Wichita, Kansas
If I had to pick a song that pretty perfectly sums up how I'm feeling about relationships rn, it would be Training Season by Dua Lipa. Please listen to it! I am not interested in casual play nor any kind of friends with benefits situation. Please only message me if you are looking to make a genuine connection. I'm a crazy cat lady, I have 2. I'm a nerd - I'm a Trekkie, I enjoy playing Dungeons & Dragons, and I greatly enjoy reading/watching fantasy and sci-fi - with lots of spicy sex in it of course 😉. I am a writer; my dream is to one day soon become a published author. I'm looking for new friends and to find a local community to join, and ideally, I'd love to find a Daddy Dom that loves: to set clear expectations and rules both in and outside of the bedroom, give lots of praise both in and out of the bedroom, give *** mainly in the form of spanking though I am very interested in trying flogging, tying me up with ropes/silks, *** play, light *** during sex (I enjoy being called a slut/whore/cockslut/etc.), giving opportunities for me to be a cockwarmer with either my mouth or pussy, enjoys exhibitionism as I enjoy having others watch me getting fucked, and is willing to explore at least some of the things that I'm curious about to see if we both like them. The main things I'm curious about are kitten play, medical role play, MMF threesomes and group play/gangbang, age play (I am a little but I haven't had much experience with exploring that part of myself with a Daddy), watersports (I know I wouldn't want it on my face/head or in my mouth, just on my body & in my pussy), and primal play/CNC.
Female (33) Wichita, Kansas
~Hi!~ We are looking for friends currently that could possibly turn into something more. We love having a good time and would love to be able to take y’all out! Feel free to reach out to me. We are dipping our toe into this space as a couple. A little about myself ~ I am very shy but become outgoing after talking for awhile. I love having a good time and being annoying any chance I get. A little about him ~ He’s into jujitsu and anything cars. He loves legos and doing anything he can with his hands. He recently has started getting into rope but is fairly new.
Female (22) Wichita, Kansas
I'm in an open marriage looking for a long-term dom/daddy dom that could potentially turn into a relationship. My spouse is submissive, so our dynamic doesn't work. He is aware of all my d/s relationships. I'm not looking for bed notches. Trust and communication are key and must be established. I'm a submissive with middle tendencies. My kink is a tpe when the moments require it, I do not want control or options, I want my decisions made for me based on how my dom is reading me. I don't want to role-play r8pe or ***ing scenarios or anything like that. That's not what it's about. I'm open-minded and yearn to please, but I do have a bratty side. I'm extremely sarcastic, which gets me in trouble a lot. I'm a dedicated mom and love to laugh, read, cook, and create. I am naturally shy but will open up to the right person.
Female (41) Wichita, Kansas

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I’m a confident, easy-going single lady who loves to enjoy life whether that’s exploring new places, sharing a good laugh, or having deep, meaningful conversations. I’m playful, warm, and open-minded, and I appreciate people who bring positive energy and authenticity.
Female (32) Wichita, Kansas
Very open person, down for more easy going and real , i mean my words and i am like a open book, i am looking forward for something nice and new
Female (43) Wichita, Kansas
Kink for me isn’t just sensation—it’s storytelling. Each scene should say something: about who we are, what we need, and how we connect. If you can give me depth with your dominance, I’ll give you submission that leaves marks on your soul.
Female (20) Wichita, Kansas
I'm a kind-hearted and cheerful woman who always tries to see the bright side of life. My friends often describe me as someone warm, fun, and sincere and I believe they're right. I have a soft spot for spending time outdoors. Whether it's a picnic, a forest walk, or just breathing in fresh air, nature helps me recharge and feel grounded. My everyday life might seem simple mostly work and home but I fill it with smiles, energy, and meaning. I value emotional warmth and try to bring light into the lives of people around me.
Female (72) Wichita, Kansas
5’1” little lady looking for some fun in a new town
Female (33) Wichita, Kansas
I prefer to foster harmony and understanding rather than engage in confrontations or disputes. I truly hope that my future partner will cherish and value each moment we share, finding joy in the little things that make our days special.
Female (42) Wichita, Kansas
I'm from the UK and work as an economist. I was raised in a traditional and religious the UK family, and I consider myself to be a real, humble, and down-to-earth woman. I value honesty, loyalty, and respect in relationships. I'm looking for something serious and would love to find my partner to share life with. I'm ready to leave the UK for the right man. In my spare time, I enjoy staying fit and being active is a big part of my life. I change my location so i can meet new people outside my preference..
Female (44) Wichita, Kansas
I am not interested in random hookups. I also require public vetting before agreeing to anything outside of messaging. I like to think of myself as a very sensually sassy specimen with a scrumptious appetite for sexual delight. A voluptuous goddess with curves that desire to be explored. A blank canvas in which to create master pieces. I lust for knowledge and intellectual temptations. I am forever changing and evolving as I continue my kink journey, Learning and pushing my boundaries brings me an inconceivable amount of pleasure. Currently looking for a possible D/s relationship with the right fit. Always open for new scene partners as well. I am vetted at the various local dungeons and enjoy being a part of the community and going to events.
Female (38) Wichita, Kansas
420 friendly very open minded open relationship look for MMF FFM I’m a princess brat
Female (31) Wichita, Kansas
I’m open to many things. Single for a couple years. I enjoy rough men, open to women and couples. Interested in casual or long term, depending on the person. Huge metal head, gamer, tattoo enthusiast, horror movie/show lover, gun enthusiast, book enthusiast, political, traveler, *** lover.
Female (33) Wichita, Kansas
in a happy and satisfying long-time marriage but we love to spice it up occasionally by adding in a third. *** love to find the right girl that we can hang out with and have some sexy fun with here and there. I like to share with the right person
Female (51) Wichita, Kansas
interested in being a third (not sure) dom 😈 to females sub 😇 to males wanting a fun time, and open to more if it goes there. 🥵🤪🖤 I'm a brat for sure 🤪 I'm aslo interested in trying new things (I'm mostly new to the BDSM world)
Female (24) Wichita, Kansas
I'm in an open marriage looking for a long-term dom/daddy dom that could potentially turn into a relationship. My spouse is submissive, so our dynamic doesn't work. He is aware of all my d/s relationships. I'm not looking for bed notches. Trust and communication are key and must be established. I'm a submissive with middle tendencies. My kink is a tpe when the moments require it, I do not want control or options, I want my decisions made for me based on how my dom is reading me. I don't want to role-play r8pe or ***ing scenarios or anything like that. That's not what it's about. I'm open-minded and yearn to please, but I do have a bratty side. I'm extremely sarcastic, which gets me in trouble a lot. I'm a dedicated mom and love to laugh, read, cook, and create. I am naturally shy but will open up to the right person.
Female (41) Wichita, Kansas
I am married. Husband isn't for me playing as much as I want to be. He is more comfortable with me playing with a soft, wet lady. He is not into any outside playing at this time. I'm definitely into more, but not sure how much I can do.
Female (42) Wichita, Kansas
I’m here because I love connecting with people. I’m curious, open, and learning what feels good for me. I’m not in a rush to jump into anything heavy—*** rather take my time, get to know people, and see what flows naturally. Long-term I dream of a relationship with a deep D/S connection, but I know that takes time. Until then, I’m here to explore, learn, and meet others who share a love of kink, play, and good conversation. Full disclosure - I am a BBW and working on myself, but you have to be cool with me as is.
Female (30) Wichita, Kansas
“Bantersexual”…especially attracted to smart, witty men/women. Laughter and play are top-level sexy! Active, kinky, always curious…I’m exploring. Here for connections I can feel safe exploring with. I’m independent with a definite brat streak. Dom might feel more natural for me than submissive but I’ve just started to explore so who knows? 😈 Let’s both be surprised, lol. I’m not here just to find D or P, I’m selective. You gotta be the whole bag ‘o tricks. 🎁 Must love water sports. 💦
Female (53) Wichita, Kansas
23yo white female I have never had a proper Dom and am a brat with a punishment kink. A black and blue bottom is not enough for me. I’m hoping to meet someone that meet my pace, not to say I don’t appreciate a hint of vanilla every now and then. I’m hoping to get out more explore this side of fun
Female (23) Wichita, Kansas
You need my attention and I need yours. My beauty is more valuable than anything else in this world. My feet are the sweetest thing you will ever put your eyes or mouth on 😘. I will have you in lust. Kinksters who love feet more than oxygen are welcome to join me for conversation and more in my DM....my rack is even better than my savory ebony toes.
Female (34) Wichita, Kansas
I just finished a short two-year divorce for a long 25-year marriage. None of that was fun, so now I'm looking for some dang fun in my life! Does anyone want to help me out with that? I'm really a simple person. I don't like drama or lies, and I do like to talk... a lot, if I'm being honest. I'm looking for mental stimulation. Show me someone who knows how to talk to me (in all scenarios), and I'll show you a happy girl. I'm mostly looking for dominant friends to play with, and hopefully, I'll find myself a nice Rigger buddy. 😈
Female (45) Wichita, Kansas
Open to: female thirds female or male caregivers who are familiar with sfw age regression kink oriented friends Not open to: Male solo partners Sending/Exchanging/Linking up Random sexualizing
Female (22) Wichita, Kansas
into *** and mainly woman but I also like pegging men. love to be a dom humiliate people sexually. you must be into car sex or public sex too. I love anal , I’ll finger or strap anyone’s ass
Female (24) Wichita, Kansas
looking for a face to ride and cock to slide. I'm not into *** but love a lollipop 😜 I might be into double trouble in the men department. I want try something new. if ur a couple im a pillow princess only
Female (50) Wichita, Kansas
Married but exploring ENM/Poly relationships. New to this lifestyle and always learning. Communication is important and I prefer to have a real emotional connection, not just looking for ONS or a FWB situation. Dinner, drinks, movie/coffee dates or catching a concert are some of my favorite ways to spend time. Show me your nerd side and we will probably get along. Fandoms include music, Stephen King, Supernatural, Marvel and DC. I’m not good at taking the lead as a submissive so dominate men always catch my attention.
Female (52) Wichita, Kansas
im a bratty sub who doesn't like being told what to do! I'm 45 soon to be 46. and I will push every button and boundary you have ..if your still reading this I like for you to make the first move ..I'm shy at first.
Female (46) Wichita, Kansas

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