Find kinky women in Wichita

I am not interested in random hookups. I also require public vetting before agreeing to anything outside of messaging. I like to think of myself as a very sensually sassy specimen with a scrumptious appetite for sexual delight. A voluptuous goddess with curves that desire to be explored. A blank canvas in which to create master pieces. I lust for knowledge and intellectual temptations. I am forever changing and evolving as I continue my kink journey, Learning and pushing my boundaries brings me an inconceivable amount of pleasure. Currently looking for a possible D/s relationship with the right fit. Always open for new scene partners as well. I am vetted at the various local dungeons and enjoy being a part of the community and going to events.
Female (38) Wichita, Kansas
Very open person, down for more easy going and real , i mean my words and i am like a open book, i am looking forward for something nice and new
Female (43) Wichita, Kansas
5’1” little lady looking for some fun in a new town
Female (34) Wichita, Kansas
I'm a kind-hearted and cheerful woman who always tries to see the bright side of life. My friends often describe me as someone warm, fun, and sincere and I believe they're right. I have a soft spot for spending time outdoors. Whether it's a picnic, a forest walk, or just breathing in fresh air, nature helps me recharge and feel grounded. My everyday life might seem simple mostly work and home but I fill it with smiles, energy, and meaning. I value emotional warmth and try to bring light into the lives of people around me.
Female (73) Wichita, Kansas
Kink for me isn’t just sensation—it’s storytelling. Each scene should say something: about who we are, what we need, and how we connect. If you can give me depth with your dominance, I’ll give you submission that leaves marks on your soul.
Female (20) Wichita, Kansas
I can be shy, but once I get going, I'm okay, unless I am treading unfamiliar waters. I kind of like to tell a guy what to do, but i am not good at it. I prefer being told. its fucking hot. But I can't let ALL control go. be gentle with me. OR DON'T 😈 I vote for don't also, im going through a divorce
Female (47) Wichita, Kansas
—I like to feel secure and empowered when I am comfortable enough to submit to someone. Praise is huge for me. I like to feel like a pretty porcelain doll just adored and appreciated :) not a little- there’s a difference. ;) respectfully I love to feel cared for and worshipped. —very into hypnokink as well 🤭 I have a few different doll personas and love to find myself in any of them depending on what you like and how we connect! some of yall need therapy more than a lover. —looking for some wonderful people to help me indulge in my dolly self in both material and through chat. I’m still new to it all, so if you feel so inclined to ever help me acquire more supplies, pretty dresses, shoes, other outfits for my multiple doll personas, message me and I’ll always be sure to share my appreciation 🥰
Female (24) Wichita, Kansas
39 years old, Moved to Wichita for a shot at a new life with a new person but, things haven't worked out so now I'm back on the hunt. Open to friends or casual fun...Maybe more. I am clean and can prove it so you must be too. No ***/drama/diseases. I also do not just jump into bed with the first person to come along and offer a good time, If I don't have some sort of physical attraction to you it just doesn't work for me and I have respect for myself as a woman so I'm not easy, If you are looking for easy then please keep scrolling. If you can't be bothered to have a conversation with me then I can't be bothered with you in general 🤷 I am not into super vanilla people. I like men who are strong, have beards, tattoos, and aren't afraid to show me a good time and are open to exploring new things. I do have a FetLife as well, ask me about it and I might share it with you 😉 If you actually read the whole thing then tell me what your favorite color is and what makes you different from other people.
Female (39) Wichita, Kansas
Hello~ Im a very shy little hoping i find friends or even a caregiver for me one day
Female (22) Wichita, Kansas
If I had to pick a song that pretty perfectly sums up how I'm feeling about relationships rn, it would be Training Season by Dua Lipa. Please listen to it! I am not interested in casual play nor any kind of friends with benefits situation. Please only message me if you are looking to make a genuine connection. I'm a crazy cat lady, I have 2. I'm a nerd - I'm a Trekkie, I enjoy playing Dungeons & Dragons, and I greatly enjoy reading/watching fantasy and sci-fi - with lots of spicy sex in it of course 😉. I am a writer; my dream is to one day soon become a published author. I'm looking for new friends and to find a local community to join, and ideally, I'd love to find a Daddy Dom that loves: to set clear expectations and rules both in and outside of the bedroom, give lots of praise both in and out of the bedroom, give *** mainly in the form of spanking though I am very interested in trying flogging, tying me up with ropes/silks, sensory play, light *** during sex (I enjoy being called a slut/whore/cockslut/etc.), giving opportunities for me to be a cockwarmer with either my mouth or pussy, enjoys exhibitionism as I enjoy having others watch me getting fucked, and is willing to explore at least some of the things that I'm curious about to see if we both like them. The main things I'm curious about are kitten play, medical role play, MMF threesomes and group play/gangbang, age play (I am a little but I haven't had much experience with exploring that part of myself with a Daddy), watersports (I know I wouldn't want it on my face/head or in my mouth, just on my body & in my pussy), and primal play/CNC.
Female (34) Wichita, Kansas
STRAIGHT MEN/TOPS ONLY will see no play time unless you contact blueJ89 and entice him with something creative (that means spit roasts, dp, bjs, and cucking won't work). If you contact me, I will assume you wanna be friends or do some business networking (TG/SC/DC). I DO NOT play online or do pic exchanges freely. You're welcome to request my private gallery, but do not ask for more. I am a boudoir photographer, spicy creator, and a sexual deviant. I am hoping to find friends who do not mind these parts of my life. Outside of that I love art, photography, cooking, eating, coffee, mimosas, hiking, natural conservation, frogs, and learning about everything I come across. blueJ89 and I enjoy a little variety in the bedroom, however I can be a bit picky on who. We enjoy people that don't mind sharing in EVERY direction. Our goal is that everyone has some fun and gets what they want. We don't mind most kinks, so feel free to let us know what you're into. The worst we can say is no thank you, or let's give it some time. We don't mind gender, we just ask that you understand no one is going to be left out just watching.... Unless that's just what you're into, I don't mind if you wanna look and not touch. I do not do *** or uncoverable marking. Early Meet Appropriate Kinks: *Light BDSM *Feminization *Praise *Object insertion *Ropes *Toys *Recording/watched *Orgasm Control FETISHES: *Feet/toes/fingers *Cum
Female (38) Wichita, Kansas
Lvl 25 ~ my boyfriend and me are both a switch but I’m Domme leaning and he’s more sub and a huge cuck, want to make his fantasy come true ~ Gamer ~ Metalhead ~ we are both bisexual but I heavily lean towards men ✨ I’m into older guys and DILFS 😍
Female (25) Wichita, Kansas
I'm a open book just message me. I'm not any good at describing my self.
Female (37) Wichita, Kansas
I'm a fun BBW, extremely left leaning. I am polyamorous and have a long distance bf. I'm not interested in pick up, one off play. Be nice, maybe take me out, spank my ass and call me a pretty little pillow princess.
Female (45) Wichita, Kansas
23yo white female I have never had a proper Dom and am a brat with a punishment kink. A black and blue bottom is not enough for me. I’m hoping to meet someone that meet my pace, not to say I don’t appreciate a hint of vanilla every now and then. I’m hoping to get out more explore this side of fun
Female (23) Wichita, Kansas
420 friendly very open minded open relationship look for MMF FFM I’m a princess brat
Female (31) Wichita, Kansas
interested in being a third (not sure) dom 😈 to females sub 😇 to males wanting a fun time, and open to more if it goes there. 🥵🤪🖤 I'm a brat for sure 🤪 I'm aslo interested in trying new things (I'm mostly new to the BDSM world)
Female (24) Wichita, Kansas
I just finished a short two-year divorce for a long 25-year marriage. None of that was fun, so now I'm looking for some dang fun in my life! Does anyone want to help me out with that? I'm really a simple person. I don't like drama or lies, and I do like to talk... a lot, if I'm being honest. I'm looking for mental stimulation. Show me someone who knows how to talk to me (in all scenarios), and I'll show you a happy girl. I'm mostly looking for dominant friends to play with, and hopefully, I'll find myself a nice Rigger buddy. 😈
Female (46) Wichita, Kansas
I am a single mom of 4 looking for some kinky no strings attached fun. I just had a full hysterectomy at the beginning of the year. I love being outside, playing pool, crafts, and many other things.
Female (26) Wichita, Kansas
~Hi!~ We are looking for friends currently that could possibly turn into something more. We love having a good time and would love to be able to take y’all out! Feel free to reach out to me. We are dipping our toe into this space as a couple. A little about myself ~ I am very shy but become outgoing after talking for awhile. I love having a good time and being annoying any chance I get. A little about him ~ He’s into jujitsu and anything cars. He loves legos and doing anything he can with his hands. He recently has started getting into rope but is fairly new.
Female (22) Wichita, Kansas
I'm very open minded will or have tried most things at least once submissive very bratty and mouthy blunt and honest
Female (31) Wichita, Kansas
Not sure what I’m looking for on here exactly. Let’s be friends & see where it leads us ;) Also don’t forget to send me a friend request. I’ll upload previews but it cost to talk to me. 🤪 Pls dont waste my time, if we are not in the same state & we can’t meet each other don’t bother. Willing to travel to spend time. & NO I DONT HAVE SNAPCHAT.
Female (22) Wichita, Kansas
“Bantersexual”…especially attracted to smart, witty men/women. Laughter and play are top-level sexy! Active, kinky, always curious…I’m exploring. Here for connections I can feel safe exploring with. I’m independent with a definite brat streak. Dom might feel more natural for me than submissive but I’ve just started to explore so who knows? 😈 Let’s both be surprised, lol. I’m not here just to find D or P, I’m selective. You gotta be the whole bag ‘o tricks. 🎁 Must love water sports. 💦
Female (53) Wichita, Kansas
Fun, outgoing, sarcastic sense of humor, open minded just checking to see what’s around kind of bratty and need some attention
Female (46) Wichita, Kansas

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Very open person, down for more easy going and real , i mean my words and i am like a open book, i am looking forward for something nice and new
Female (43) Wichita, Kansas
Kink for me isn’t just sensation—it’s storytelling. Each scene should say something: about who we are, what we need, and how we connect. If you can give me depth with your dominance, I’ll give you submission that leaves marks on your soul.
Female (20) Wichita, Kansas
I'm a kind-hearted and cheerful woman who always tries to see the bright side of life. My friends often describe me as someone warm, fun, and sincere and I believe they're right. I have a soft spot for spending time outdoors. Whether it's a picnic, a forest walk, or just breathing in fresh air, nature helps me recharge and feel grounded. My everyday life might seem simple mostly work and home but I fill it with smiles, energy, and meaning. I value emotional warmth and try to bring light into the lives of people around me.
Female (73) Wichita, Kansas
5’1” little lady looking for some fun in a new town
Female (34) Wichita, Kansas
I am not interested in random hookups. I also require public vetting before agreeing to anything outside of messaging. I like to think of myself as a very sensually sassy specimen with a scrumptious appetite for sexual delight. A voluptuous goddess with curves that desire to be explored. A blank canvas in which to create master pieces. I lust for knowledge and intellectual temptations. I am forever changing and evolving as I continue my kink journey, Learning and pushing my boundaries brings me an inconceivable amount of pleasure. Currently looking for a possible D/s relationship with the right fit. Always open for new scene partners as well. I am vetted at the various local dungeons and enjoy being a part of the community and going to events.
Female (38) Wichita, Kansas
Lvl 25 ~ my boyfriend and me are both a switch but I’m Domme leaning and he’s more sub and a huge cuck, want to make his fantasy come true ~ Gamer ~ Metalhead ~ we are both bisexual but I heavily lean towards men ✨ I’m into older guys and DILFS 😍
Female (25) Wichita, Kansas
39 years old, Moved to Wichita for a shot at a new life with a new person but, things haven't worked out so now I'm back on the hunt. Open to friends or casual fun...Maybe more. I am clean and can prove it so you must be too. No ***/drama/diseases. I also do not just jump into bed with the first person to come along and offer a good time, If I don't have some sort of physical attraction to you it just doesn't work for me and I have respect for myself as a woman so I'm not easy, If you are looking for easy then please keep scrolling. If you can't be bothered to have a conversation with me then I can't be bothered with you in general 🤷 I am not into super vanilla people. I like men who are strong, have beards, tattoos, and aren't afraid to show me a good time and are open to exploring new things. I do have a FetLife as well, ask me about it and I might share it with you 😉 If you actually read the whole thing then tell me what your favorite color is and what makes you different from other people.
Female (39) Wichita, Kansas
I can be shy, but once I get going, I'm okay, unless I am treading unfamiliar waters. I kind of like to tell a guy what to do, but i am not good at it. I prefer being told. its fucking hot. But I can't let ALL control go. be gentle with me. OR DON'T 😈 I vote for don't also, im going through a divorce
Female (47) Wichita, Kansas
I'm very open minded will or have tried most things at least once submissive very bratty and mouthy blunt and honest
Female (31) Wichita, Kansas
I'm. 34 year old female stay at home mom looking for long term relationship I'm nerdy can be kinky and just want to find my forever prefer a female to share my time with.
Female (34) Wichita, Kansas
I'm a fun BBW, extremely left leaning. I am polyamorous and have a long distance bf. I'm not interested in pick up, one off play. Be nice, maybe take me out, spank my ass and call me a pretty little pillow princess.
Female (45) Wichita, Kansas
🚫Men DNI🛑 Unless you want me to fuck your wife without you joining. looking for a long-term queer/sapphic relationship. nerdy, fun. love boardgames. snuggling and cuddling. occasionally sassing to get the Mario coins knocked out of me. I've been in the local kink scene since I was 18. 17 years of being one kinky gal! I Follow R.A.C.K. I take safety and health very seriously. I'm not talking just some impact play. I enjoy needles and being a human pin cushion. I've participated in *** play. My favorite thing I've ever done is getting a beautiful girl to lay as a table. and then we ate sushi off her body. 10/10 I've always joked about dressing someone up as a mime. and doing impact play. and they can't speak. and I beat their ass until they scream. disabled & fun Polyamorous no right wing BS. trans people are valid. big into music. Like. Really into music current favorite 🎶"Worship" - Diamond Eyes
Female (36) Wichita, Kansas
Not sure what I’m looking for on here exactly. Let’s be friends & see where it leads us ;) Also don’t forget to send me a friend request. I’ll upload previews but it cost to talk to me. 🤪 Pls dont waste my time, if we are not in the same state & we can’t meet each other don’t bother. Willing to travel to spend time. & NO I DONT HAVE SNAPCHAT.
Female (22) Wichita, Kansas
A fun, poly couple looking to add another woman to the relationship, for both of us to get to know and enjoy
Female (39) Wichita, Kansas
Fun, outgoing, sarcastic sense of humor, open minded just checking to see what’s around kind of bratty and need some attention
Female (46) Wichita, Kansas
420 friendly very open minded open relationship look for MMF FFM I’m a princess brat
Female (31) Wichita, Kansas
interested in being a third (not sure) dom 😈 to females sub 😇 to males wanting a fun time, and open to more if it goes there. 🥵🤪🖤 I'm a brat for sure 🤪 I'm aslo interested in trying new things (I'm mostly new to the BDSM world)
Female (24) Wichita, Kansas
I’m here because I love connecting with people. I’m curious, open, and learning what feels good for me. I’m not in a rush to jump into anything heavy—I’d rather take my time, get to know people, and see what flows naturally. Long-term I dream of a relationship with a deep D/S connection, but I know that takes time. Until then, I’m here to explore, learn, and meet others who share a love of kink, play, and good conversation. Full disclosure - I am a BBW and working on myself, but you have to be cool with me as is.
Female (30) Wichita, Kansas
“Bantersexual”…especially attracted to smart, witty men/women. Laughter and play are top-level sexy! Active, kinky, always curious…I’m exploring. Here for connections I can feel safe exploring with. I’m independent with a definite brat streak. Dom might feel more natural for me than submissive but I’ve just started to explore so who knows? 😈 Let’s both be surprised, lol. I’m not here just to find D or P, I’m selective. You gotta be the whole bag ‘o tricks. 🎁 Must love water sports. 💦
Female (53) Wichita, Kansas
23yo white female I have never had a proper Dom and am a brat with a punishment kink. A black and blue bottom is not enough for me. I’m hoping to meet someone that meet my pace, not to say I don’t appreciate a hint of vanilla every now and then. I’m hoping to get out more explore this side of fun
Female (23) Wichita, Kansas
You need my attention and I need yours. My beauty is more valuable than anything else in this world. My feet are the sweetest thing you will ever put your eyes or mouth on 😘. I will have you in lust. Kinksters who love feet more than oxygen are welcome to join me for conversation and more in my DM....my rack is even better than my savory ebony toes.
Female (34) Wichita, Kansas
I just finished a short two-year divorce for a long 25-year marriage. None of that was fun, so now I'm looking for some dang fun in my life! Does anyone want to help me out with that? I'm really a simple person. I don't like drama or lies, and I do like to talk... a lot, if I'm being honest. I'm looking for mental stimulation. Show me someone who knows how to talk to me (in all scenarios), and I'll show you a happy girl. I'm mostly looking for dominant friends to play with, and hopefully, I'll find myself a nice Rigger buddy. 😈
Female (46) Wichita, Kansas
Open to: female thirds female or male caregivers who are familiar with sfw age regression kink oriented friends Not open to: Male solo partners Sending/Exchanging/Linking up Random sexualizing
Female (22) Wichita, Kansas
looking for a face to ride and cock to slide. I'm not into *** but love a lollipop 😜 I might be into double trouble in the men department. I want try something new. if ur a couple im a pillow princess only
Female (50) Wichita, Kansas

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