BDSM Dating in California

I haven't had sex in over 3 years, almost 4 now... I would say I miss sex but most sex I had was disappointing and I rarely got to finish, along with it always being pretty vanilla. I want to end my years of sexual celibacy...but insecurities about my weight (despite that I've been losing) and my anxiety have made it so hard to do so... plus my life situation is pretty complicated too... but I miss physical affection, and I love my couple toys but obviously it's not the same... especially cause I feel silly when I'm choking myself when getting off...
I really wanna start having sex again but I just hate hookup culture and I'm just worried I'll end up with people who are like my previous experiences: vanilla, no foreplay or aftercare, won't eat me out, and won't bother making sure I get off too...I dunno how to end this but I hope/ think my point is clear lol.

I'm looking for a Dom ok with some water sports. Rough sex is a plus. Local only.

Are you young successful and elegant ? If so you have found a gentleman Master. I'm seeking one who knows her worth and her submission is one of classy elegance to one Master.

I’m looking for a person who is mtf trans or female presenting nonbinary or AFAB, to hang out with NSA. Cincinnati / tristate area and open to a relationship if it feels right ❤️ 💘

Looking for new friends activity partners. Maybe more down the road.

Just want to experiment and see what’s out there

Message us.

Open to adding new friend/ couples

Looking for a couple interested in swapping snaps/ possibly meet if comfortable

Haiii, looking for dominant feminine people!! I have a bunch of information on my profile so just dm me if you’re interested!!

Haiii! I’m looking for someone that’s dominant and feminine to either do things online or IRL! I will want to talk a bit before we do anything lewd so that I can get to know you better and make a connection first!

Ik chill 6ft message me for something I'm down for whatever

really anything

Looking to get into abdl preferably with someone experienced and willing to teach

Let’s have some fun

Hello I know I’m not privy to serve but I would like the opportunity if given

Serving you would mean offering my time, my body, and my will to someone who knows how to mold it — for her pleasure, her power, and her amusement. That’s what I want: to be used, shaped, and owned by a Mistress worthy of devotion.

im craving dick🥰

Hit me up for these soft soles and dirty socks I want to make a boy submit.

Hit me up if you’re in the greater tristate area! And like the look of these dri fits

I literally have no idea what I’m doing I just want some decent company it’s been too long after getting out of a LTR 😭😭

Looking for a DOM. Strong confident, and knows how to strap on a 5lbs cock and bury ever centimeter of it into my tiny little hole….you push so hard it rearranges my guts and bulges my stomach out

Wanan make someone dreams come true an be your fetish 🥰

Am looking for a hookup tonight or tommorow. Anyone feel free to message can't host but I can drive anywhere.