Kinky women in Louisville

149 Kinky women in Louisville

I’m a lady with a sailor’s vocabulary, a submissive with her own mind, and a grown woman who can take care of herself but has given that privilege to my Sir.

i am a free spirit which should say it all. but if u would like more info on me just DM ms and i will freely tell you anything you would like to know.

I am a female submissive that would love to find someone to submit to. I would like to find someone that is caring but can also be strict when needed. I haven't gotten to explore much but open to most things. I like being tied up choked spanked.

I am looking to socialize and learn. I am in a committed relationship for over 13 years. Together we have explored the community and at times expand our connection through socializing. **Desires and Fantasies** Desires domination not a controlling jerkwad?

looking for man/woman fwb, casual but consistent. soft core bdsm. I’m a sub 100%. I just want someone to take control, show me who’s boss, punish me, then cuddle me after and kiss my forehead ☺️

I’m more of a Domme than I am a sub, as I usually enjoy being in control. I only sub to people I think are worthy of having me do so. I’m interested in having about four subs under me & to meet with them on their own about once or twice a month. I’m completely fine with my subs having sexual encounters outside of what we do as we won’t be able to meet much due to me being in college. I do require my subs to have monthly tests just to make sure they’re still clean, which I will also be doing. I most likely will not have penetration on my part, if i do it’s rare and very much earned. If you’re wanting more information on that, please ask me.

I am a Mistress looking for a long term sub. I do switch some but on rare occasions.

**I won’t respond if you don’t have clear pictures of your face** I’m married.My wife and I date separately, please be respectful of that. I’m looking for fun conversation and chemistry that hopefully leads to more. I’m an open book but you’ve got to be willing to put forth a little effort.

Please actually read my profile, I will read yours. It's for your benefit as much as mine. Under renovations, please excuse the dust I'm still working on tidying things up after half my bio somehow got italicized so there's likely some typos and weirdness. Check back again soon. Interested in connecting with people who are kind, generous, emotionally intelligent, self aware, empathetic, and feel that growth and learning should be on-going. I value honesty, transparency, open and direct communication, authenticity is vital. Say what you mean, mean what you say and match your behavior and actions to your words. Demisexual/Noetisexual Polysexual/pansexual Least likely to be sexually attracted to cis women so far. If you don't know what any of those terms mean, Google them. I will discuss specifics. Neurodivergent - AuDHD Not nice but kind Relationship anarchist, non monogamist, kitchen table poly friendly Forever curious and growing as an individual. I'm about people first, who they are as an individual, their character, personality, sense of humor, how they think, and relate to the rest of the world. See again... noetisexual, I don't have a list of kinky criteria I'm trying to find a match to, yes I have a somewhat priorized grouping of wants, needs and interests but ultimately if there's potential for anything beyond friendship I prefer things to develop somewhat organically. This means the energy and style of dynamic with me will vary from person to person. What feels right with one person might be totally different than what feels right with the next. I don't do cookie cutter dynamics and don't like boxes. Don't assume that just because of "x" that I would or wouldn't be into "y." I'm into a lot and open to even more if it feels right. I separate Dominance and submission from topping and bottoming. D/s is about the overall energy of a relationship, dynamic or between individuals, actions and activities are *neutral.* Top/bottom indicates giver and reciever. I generally identify as a versatile (vers) Dominant. What this means to is I'm most often the one with authority, power and control in a relationship or dynamic *if* there is D/s. Sexually and with topping/bottoming, I'm pretty versatile and like variety. I can and do enjoy play where the individuals involved are equals, without any D/s or anyone having authority. Remember after all, I'm about person first, kink & BDSM second. (Though I do really like being the one with power and authority) Possibly an unpopular opinion, especially here it seems, many "bedroom/scene only" kinksters who label themselves as Dominant or submissive are, in actuality, more likely to be Tops and bottoms and that's ok. There's nothing wrong with simply being a Top or bottom, it's totally acceptable to participate in kink and bdsm without any sort of D/s, It's not any more or less legitimate. In fact, I like service tops and other sadomasochists quite a lot. For right now, I'm mostly looking for light and fun. Friends who also do the sexy, kinky, BDSM things with one another. I'm also interested in exploring platonic D/s, kink, and BDSM. A level of genuine friendship is a necessity. Especially interested in friendships with other D type, Switch, Top, vers women, and non-men. Though friendship and networking with all genders and roles is welcome. If you choose to message me please be interesting, respectful, kind, genuine and have somewhat decent conversation skills. It's really frustrating to recieve messages only to end up feeling like I'm the one working to keep a conversation going. If you're shy or feel awkward, fine, be shy and awkward. I'm very often awkward af myself, but talk for cripes sake. I kinda hate small talk, so feel free to skip a lot of it after polite intros. YES, it's possible to be direct yet still polite and respectful. I'm often slow to check and respond to messages and will occasionally dip mid chat to do a thing that needs doing so if you struggle with patience you'll likely be frustrated. If it's been less than 24 hrs since I've last messaged, be patient. If 48 hrs or more, it might be the ADHD, check-ins are fine, especially if we've been chatting for quite some time. I don't get weird about response times, life happens, we all have various things going on from time to time, I appreciate the same consideration in return. I also don't subscribe to the silly bs "social rules" surrounding things like "double texting," waiting some arbitrary amount of time before responding to messages, who sent the last message, that there's some type of meaning or subtext to being "left on read" or that someone being online but not interacting currently means anything. All of that just seems so immature, passive aggressive and a symptom of insecurity to me. We're adults. I don't do passive-aggressive or play games. I almost always mean exactly what I say, so don't frustrate, upset yourself or hurt your own feelings by trying to read subtext where there is none. Take what I say at face value, especially if it has something to do with how I communicate or think. Being neurodivergent, I very likely communicate and process things differently than what you're used to. I'm pretty good at giving the "cheat codes" on how to interact with me, if you're unsure about something, use your words and ASK. I'd much prefer clarifying something rather than someone guessing or assuming and ending up with a misunderstanding or miscommunication. I will not seek you out on another platform to initiate interaction. I prefer to keep conversations here or on FetLife for a while first. I will occasionally send a first message but not often. IF I decide to move conversation elsewhere I only use Telegram. If you message me, SPEAK TO ME AS A REGULAR PERSON, JUST AS YOU WOULD IN ANY PUBLIC VANILLA SOCIAL SITUATION. DO NOT USE HONORIFICS, PET NAMES OR TERMS OF ENDEARMENT. I AM NOT _YOUR_ DOMME, NOR AM I YOUR BABE, SUGAR, HUN, DARLIN OR ANYTHING ELSE LIKE THAT. Miss or Ma'am are acceptable if you insist on something for protocol sake, though I find overuse to be irritating. Any of the canned messages this site offers as "ice breakers" or anything that sounds like a canned, copy/paste intro message will be ignored. So don't use them. Do not send a request for access to my hidden gallery, it will be ignored. Use your grown up words and ask but know that I don't share it without building a certain level of rapport first, exchanging only a couple messages does not count as building a rapport. If I wanted them available to every random request, they wouldn't be hidden. Friend requests without discussion beforehand will also be ignored/denied. Don't get all in your feelings about how long I take to respond, even if you see that I've read your message and have logged on and haven't yet responded. It doesn't always mean that I'm not going to. I don't play the stupid games of making people wait just to toy with them. It's usually a time or mental energy thing or I've logged on to catch up with the forums or friends or something like that. Yes I realize I'm repeating myself some here but some people seem to need to have things repeated. No... this isn't Fetlife, the Fet app is part of fetish .com and a lot of people end up here when they went looking for "fet" or fetlife when they heard about it somewhere else. They're totally different sites, fetlife is a dot com not an app. (I hope this was helpful)

Mature woman relatively new to Louisville looking for fun and adventure. I’m looking for mature, adventurous, man with no strings. Must like dogs. Not your average GenX. Be prepared for anything.

I’m a short blonde woman. I like dogs and murder stuff. if you don’t have a picture, fuck off. come play with me. ?

I am sexually submissive. New to kink (some experience). Loking to make new friends in the lifestyle. Maybe eventually seeing how things go from there.

NOT CURRENTLY LOOKING, WILL BE LOGGED OUT UNTILL I START LOOKING AGAIN. ALL NEW MESSAGES WILL GO UNANSWERED. Plus sized girl trying to explore this lifestyle more. Not looking to exchange pics, more so looking for irl connections. Open to being fwb, 3rd/relationship addition, or LTR if the vibes are right. I'm an open book so ask away

I’m getting too old to be so stressed. thought maybe exploring some links here could be a great start to a better life. throw me some kinks and we can see what happens…

PSA!!! I AM PLUS SIZED! dont let these filters fool you, I have a foopa a some jelly rolls lol if that’s not your style let me save you the effort. Respectfully… be polite. I’m not interested in seeing your beans & frank as an introduction. I am also not interested in casual hookups. TIA :) I’m a complete nerd. I love to read & animals are my weakness. I love a good cuddle & a Spicey book. Not the greatest at describing me… I was introduced to this lifestyle about 8 years ago & haven’t looked back since, although I haven’t really ever had a true Dom/Master yet. Im very interested in having a mentor more than anything so if you’re reading this & have experience please shoot me a message. Below are my bdsm test results so there isn’t any confusion. I’m also happy to answer any questions you may have ☺️ == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Submissive 100% Rope bunny 87% Slave 80% Masochist 74% Experimentalist 62% Primal (Prey) 58% Brat 52% Degradee 37% Exhibitionist 22% Vanilla 22% Boy/Girl 22% Non-monogamist 18% Pet 7% Voyeur 0% Ageplayer 0% Switch

I just want a girlfriend to cuddle & go on adventures with who also loves good food I do have a boyfriend, so possibly looking for someone to share our love with depending on the connection, but if that's not your thing that's ok too. I'm good with just keeping you all to myself ?

plus sized. I’m a switch. here are some other test results: == Results from bdsmtest.org == 94% Dominant 92% Voyeur 92% Exhibitionist 89% Rigger 88% Brat tamer 84% Switch 83% Brat 75% Non-monogamist 73% Submissive 70% Rope bunny 68% Sadist 68% Degrader 60% Experimentalist 59% Masochist 57% Primal (Hunter) 57% Primal (Prey) 30% Master/Mistress 22% Vanilla 22% Owner 3% Slave 0% Ageplayer 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Degradee 0% Boy/Girl 0% Pet I’m not your mommy, but I could be your mistress. When I open this app it’s because I want a cock to tease and ride until it cums inside me.

Submissive slave looking for a dominant I’m 23 looking for a dom who can handle my bratty side My kinks are: Bondage, Spanking Choking Hair pulling Degradation Controlling me Nipple play Orgasm control and denial NO MEN OVER 33 PLEASE IF I DONT ANSWER YOUR MESSAGE YOUR NOT WHAT IM LOOKING FOR SO DONT BLOW UP MY MESSAGES

Poly and ENM!!! Kitchen table style. Just moved here from Alaska this summer. I have an amazing boyfriend who isn’t going anywhere and he is married to an incredible woman who I appreciate and respect ? I’m looking for a nesting partner I can come home to as well and build a home with. I have an 8 acre farm and plan on having horses and livestock so that’s gotta be something you’re interested in to. I love being outside. I’m a sub but definitely exploring my switch side a bit more from a service position. Looking for a really special person to connect with hopefully they read this.

Festivals ? Concerts ? Camping ? Boating ? Game Nights ??? Coffee ☕️ 420 friendly ?? Full on Brat and just realized it… Teach me Daddy ?? Wanna know anything else just ask… If you message: Want to fuck odds are I won’t respond. I’m a diamond in the rough can you see it?

Hi I'm Debbie! Looking for friends to have fun with & a partner with common interests. I like to read, write, and game. I have 2 cats thst share the same braincell. I'm an open book so ask me anything.

looking for a domme to worship! probably nothing super serious or long term, but I wanna have some fun! ?

looking for friends, maybe a serious relationship. I know what i like and love in this lifestyle. im an open book.

I'm 50 looking for a fuck buddy. NO relationship, no strings, just sex. I want a man who knows a woman's body. I don't want love making, I want to fuck. I don't hook up with anyone younger than 48 so don't ask if i date younger guys, I break younger guys.

I’m more of a Domme than I am a sub, as I usually enjoy being in control. I only sub to people I think are worthy of having me do so. I’m interested in having about four subs under me & to meet with them on their own about once or twice a month. I’m completely fine with my subs having sexual encounters outside of what we do as we won’t be able to meet much due to me being in college. I do require my subs to have monthly tests just to make sure they’re still clean, which I will also be doing. I most likely will not have penetration on my part, if i do it’s rare and very much earned. If you’re wanting more information on that, please ask me.

i am a free spirit which should say it all. but if u would like more info on me just DM ms and i will freely tell you anything you would like to know.

I’m a lady with a sailor’s vocabulary, a submissive with her own mind, and a grown woman who can take care of herself but has given that privilege to my Sir.

looking for man/woman fwb, casual but consistent. soft core bdsm. I’m a sub 100%. I just want someone to take control, show me who’s boss, punish me, then cuddle me after and kiss my forehead ☺️

I am looking to socialize and learn. I am in a committed relationship for over 13 years. Together we have explored the community and at times expand our connection through socializing. **Desires and Fantasies** Desires domination not a controlling jerkwad?

I am a Mistress looking for a long term sub. I do switch some but on rare occasions.

I am a female submissive that would love to find someone to submit to. I would like to find someone that is caring but can also be strict when needed. I haven't gotten to explore much but open to most things. I like being tied up choked spanked.

Mature woman relatively new to Louisville looking for fun and adventure. I’m looking for mature, adventurous, man with no strings. Must like dogs. Not your average GenX. Be prepared for anything.

I’m getting too old to be so stressed. thought maybe exploring some links here could be a great start to a better life. throw me some kinks and we can see what happens…

looking for friends, maybe a serious relationship. I know what i like and love in this lifestyle. im an open book.

I'm a 43 yo top heavy switch. I like helping others find who they are and be comfortable with whatever kink they are pulled toward.

Bratty princess coming your way! Spicey and Loyal! Driven, workaholic, who gets paid to be in charge every day seeking a rescue. Seeking a man who will take control and do everything for me. I take pride in caring for my body in all aspects being physically, mentally, and spirituality awakened. It's all about the Dymanic Balance! Let's take a journey together and seek refuge in one another. All your secrets are safe with me!

I started a new adventure this year, hopefully to have some fun doing it. I am a 41 bi female, I am a book nerd, outdoors and sport person. I am into all types of stuff it's best to ask, cause you could be shocked.

I'm 50 looking for a fuck buddy. NO relationship, no strings, just sex. I want a man who knows a woman's body. I don't want love making, I want to fuck. I don't hook up with anyone younger than 48 so don't ask if i date younger guys, I break younger guys.

Festivals ? Concerts ? Camping ? Boating ? Game Nights ??? Coffee ☕️ 420 friendly ?? Full on Brat and just realized it… Teach me Daddy ?? Wanna know anything else just ask… If you message: Want to fuck odds are I won’t respond. I’m a diamond in the rough can you see it?

looking for a domme to worship! probably nothing super serious or long term, but I wanna have some fun! ?

PSA!!! I AM PLUS SIZED! dont let these filters fool you, I have a foopa a some jelly rolls lol if that’s not your style let me save you the effort. Respectfully… be polite. I’m not interested in seeing your beans & frank as an introduction. I am also not interested in casual hookups. TIA :) I’m a complete nerd. I love to read & animals are my weakness. I love a good cuddle & a Spicey book. Not the greatest at describing me… I was introduced to this lifestyle about 8 years ago & haven’t looked back since, although I haven’t really ever had a true Dom/Master yet. Im very interested in having a mentor more than anything so if you’re reading this & have experience please shoot me a message. Below are my bdsm test results so there isn’t any confusion. I’m also happy to answer any questions you may have ☺️ == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Submissive 100% Rope bunny 87% Slave 80% Masochist 74% Experimentalist 62% Primal (Prey) 58% Brat 52% Degradee 37% Exhibitionist 22% Vanilla 22% Boy/Girl 22% Non-monogamist 18% Pet 7% Voyeur 0% Ageplayer 0% Switch

Poly and ENM!!! Kitchen table style. Just moved here from Alaska this summer. I have an amazing boyfriend who isn’t going anywhere and he is married to an incredible woman who I appreciate and respect ? I’m looking for a nesting partner I can come home to as well and build a home with. I have an 8 acre farm and plan on having horses and livestock so that’s gotta be something you’re interested in to. I love being outside. I’m a sub but definitely exploring my switch side a bit more from a service position. Looking for a really special person to connect with hopefully they read this.

I’m a sexy redhead looking to explore my kinks in a safe environment. No I don’t want to fuck you. But if I feel safe I could be convinced.. I’d like to explore my rope bunny and masochistic side. I’m looking for a sexy dom to show me the way (male or female ?) Help this delicate sub pop her cherry.

i am a 36 year old stay at home mom with three boys Taurus/star wars baby/derby baby I am a brat looking for someone who can help my husband train me. I've been a closet brat for a decade and I'm ready to be who I am. I'm not looking for random hookups. I'm not looking for a relationship. just friends. now if I was to find a cute plaything to share with my hubby then yes that might happen. but I'm possessive over him. so only someone I can trust and shit. 420 friendly non drinker I'm a nerd I love playing world of Warcraft and I love Harry Potter. I love DND but have never played. I keep a set of DND dice on me at all times lol

Submissive slave looking for a dominant I’m 23 looking for a dom who can handle my bratty side My kinks are: Bondage, Spanking Choking Hair pulling Degradation Controlling me Nipple play Orgasm control and denial NO MEN OVER 33 PLEASE IF I DONT ANSWER YOUR MESSAGE YOUR NOT WHAT IM LOOKING FOR SO DONT BLOW UP MY MESSAGES

I am sexually submissive. New to kink (some experience). Loking to make new friends in the lifestyle. Maybe eventually seeing how things go from there.

NOT CURRENTLY LOOKING, WILL BE LOGGED OUT UNTILL I START LOOKING AGAIN. ALL NEW MESSAGES WILL GO UNANSWERED. Plus sized girl trying to explore this lifestyle more. Not looking to exchange pics, more so looking for irl connections. Open to being fwb, 3rd/relationship addition, or LTR if the vibes are right. I'm an open book so ask away

I'm looking for some very specific fetish/kink play. I'm into vore (prey), and most everything belly related. (THE BELLY SOUNDS ARE THE BEST PART). I like feeding/stuffing as well.