BDSM Dating in Paducah

Looking for someone to join in on some fun. Key word was join. We arent looking for a "bull" or someone that thinks they are going to come in and dominant. Looking for someone laid back and chill and a nice package.
Looking for someone local or in driving distance. Please dont message if you are hundreds of miles away, its just not practical.
We cant see likes or spanks just fyi.