I am currently actively dating and seeking everything from potential play partners, to possible romantic connections. I am in a long-distance relationship with my primary partner, who is my Dominant as well as my Daddy. With his full consent, and encouragement, I am also seeking another Dominant, or Master, to play a bigger and more involved role in my life, in addition to my Sir. I am polyamorous, have a lot of experience with many different polyamorous relationship structures, and am open to most, but not all. In a perfect world, kitchen table at the very LEAST. Ask if you need clarification.
Outside of serious romantic entanglements, I am also looking for new play partners. Spanking is my ultimate fetish, so if you enjoy impact, we might get along. BUT…. Fair warning below:
Do know, however, that I am VERY picky when it comes to partnerships. I have standards, and I refuse to compromise on those standards going forward. I have, in the past, violated my own core boundaries and needs, in order to be with a partner. I will NOT be making that mistake again.
Another very important note is that I am a little. If you don't know what that means and aren't willing to learn and be open to it... move on to the next profile, because you're wasting my time. My little is a very big and very special part of me. Oftentimes, it almost seems like my little is more active than my adult side. My little's name is Alyssa, and answers to Ally, and she varies in age based on her emotions and what's going on. Around new people, she's sometimes shy, sometimes very outgoing. If she's shy or scared, she reverts to about 2 or 3. When she's outgoing and playful, she's about 5 years old. She loves taking baths, coloring, and is obsessed with bubbles. She's had a tendency to pop out while I'm driving... and start blowing bubbles out the window... yeah not kidding lol. Ally is very sensitive.
I've been involved in the lifestyle actively since I was about 17, and part of the kink community since roughly 2007. I'm growing in the lifestyle. I used to be a baby maso, now I'm not satisfied if I'm not at LEAST bruised really well by the end of a scene. My fetishes and turn-ons tend to revolve around some sort of spanking, and incorporating spanking into any scene. I understand the need to be loved, cherished, protected, and not judged when, suddenly, out of the blue, you want to grab a pacifier, and get to work on a coloring book, or get ridiculously excited when you see bubbles.
Outside of BDSM, I love to read, swim, travel (when I can), spend time with friends and enjoy my youth. And I'm learning so much every day from my community, as well as re-educating myself through books, blogs, podcasts, anything I can get my hands on to be honest, as well as those that are kind enough to show me something new, or offer me perspective that I didn't have before. I am fiercely dedicated to regular introspection, and I am devoted to always doing my best to improve myself. Self-work is a staple for me. I also consider self-work to be an important thing that I firmly believe everyone should prioritize. If you do not prioritize self-work and self-improvement, we probably will not get along.
I'm in a very serious new stage in my life right now. I'm rediscovering who I am. I AM always learning and I WILL make mistakes. But I promise always to admit when I've screwed up, fix the problem, learn from these mistakes and better myself with every opportunity. I take great pride in doing consistent self-analysis to identify problems, work on issues as they crop up, and do the self-work to fix toxic behaviors as I discover them. Sorry if that's a bit repetitive.
As stated before, my current partner lives in another state. He and I are in a relationship, in a much diminished capacity. However, he IS my Sir, and Ally's Daddy. Please do respect that. It is with his blessing and his urging that I seek out a second Dominant in my life.