BDSM Dating in Lafayette

I'm seeking a sadistic dominant boyfriend... preferably a sadist with good experience doing RACK (extra risky) play such as knives, fire, and electrical stim, thuddy flogging (especially Florentine), hot wax, to sensual foreplay..
Hedonist into primal intensity, giving multiple **d o's, marathon sx, and squirting... outside of that, hoping for:
Geek into Doctor Who, fantasy books, ARPG PC gaming, quantum theories, computer specs and building, techie news, medical advances journals, etc

Metalhead/Rocker who will accompany me to live rock and metal (local and touring) bands

Hippie into democratic socialist politics and non- religious spirituality
*or at least not going to try to change these things about me

I'm poly and looking for an additional boyfriend. I have a wonderful Daddy who is my nesting partner, and a new playpartner, both of whom know I'm seeking an additional bf