*Not interested in sex"
Never pain always pleasure
never suffering always serving
never humiliation always humility
never control always surrender
never taking always giving
never punishment always discipline
never hate always love
never sorrow always joy
About Me:
Just because my profile name is MasoXtreme does not mean I play hard all the time.
I do enjoy a nice flogging,rope play or just a simple zipper.
I am a MASO sub who deeply desires EXTREME power exchange. My masochism is a certain kind. My needs are more emotional than physical, but I want to experience it all. Total Power, Exchange? Yes of course, but I prefer different words, Total Emotional and Physical Exchange. I find meaning in suffering, sometimes deeper intimacy, and always greater joy.
Whatever it is that turns me on, it’s not a formulary. I require no certain standards, no special words. It’s all about the chemistry, the totality of the experience, my surrender, and your control. I am here to find the one who will tame, control, respect, collar me, care for me, push me beyond my limits.
== My BDSM Test from Fetish.com ==
100% Submissive
13% Dominant
== My roles ==
100% Slave
100% Degradee
100% Masochist
68% Rope Bunny
68% Brat
55% Prey
30% Pet
13% Brat Tamer
8% Little
5% Rigger
0% Master/Mistress
0% Degrader
0% Sadist
0% Caregiver
0% Hunter
0% Pet Owner
https://www.fetish.com/result/jp6X96ik
She doesn’t reveal her full self to the world, she makes you earn her trust.
She doesn’t demand attention, she gives her attention, always looking for someone to nurture.
She doesn’t seek the spotlight, SHE IS the freakin light, shining it on those around her.
Im not looking for one night stands. I care about my safety. Public meet is required at a munch or local event. I do have limits, and potential triggers. They are things we will have to discuss.
I am NOT a very sexual person in the way most people are. I do not like conventional sex. I am someone who would rather have unconventional sexual relations. Sure, there are times when I am really into kinky play. And NO you cant turn my libido on like a wall switch, so there are times I just have no desire for any kind of physical contact. To me the best sexual organ in the body is the mind. Its something I value as part of me I have no intention of changing that.
If your desires to communicate on here are nothing but sexual, know now I will not respond to your messages. If you desire to message me to tell me I am not a slave andor am doing it wrong, I will not message you back. I know who I am. I have been in this lifestyle a long time and my kink may not be your kink.
I'm a Slave type Submissive. I enjoy giving up total control. I've been a Sub for my whole adult life. Some of the Kinks I have are: Bondage, sensory deprivation, spanking, pet play, rough sex, and more
I work hard to remain active, hiking, jogging, walking, etc. Are goals I practice and indulge in.
What also is peaceful is my love of music. I am almost always listening to music or some sort of noise, it helps me understand my own feelings and find ways to communicate to myself what I am thinking.
*When messaging me (especially as a means of introduction) please keep your random fantasies and fetish stories to yourself. Unless we've already played together this is just going to piss me off and cause you to earn the ban button.
**What my next Master gets:
He gets a true slave, undying loyalty, unyielding respect, unwavering obedience, he gets my life. All given freely. That freely given level of submission is in itself rare. I am a rare thing that should not be wasted or irreparably broken. I am a thing that deserves the respect to be disrespected, I am a thing that deserves a leash held tight, I am a thing that deserves to be ruled and ruled well. I am special in my depravity. I am special in my ability to be molded. I am special in my depth of acceptance of my rightful place. Worthy in my worthlessness. Only where it counts, and the only place that counts is at my Master’s feet.
Respect is earned not just given to everyone and anyone. I will not submit to you just because you call yourself a Dom or master.
I am a true submissive and I am seeking a real experienced dom.
I am not here to do your housework or just tend to your needs.
I am here to find the one who will tame me control me respect me collar me care for me push me beyond my limits.**
To Persons/Institutions/Entities using this site or its associated sites for projects (commercial or non-commercial) - You do not have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have done so or are currently doing so, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action.
*Could possibly be interested in being a part time slave depending on the right Dominant
I wished people in the lifestyle would realize those of us who have been emotionally abused by someone, we thought truly cared for us, can be in a worthwhile relationship if given the chance. Unfortunately, most do not understand why we act the way we act and write us off as either "players/fakes" or "into head games". That isn't true. We have just been told for so long how worthless and unloveable we are, that when someone gives us a compliment or tries to get to know us, we keep our distance, waiting for them to hurt us just like everyone else does. For us, actions speak louder than words, so when after a few days, you get frustrated, we balk, afraid you are only out to abuse us as well. Trust takes a long time for us, and once broken, even over something small, will never come back.
These are a few of the things we often do that seems to confuse those if we are genuine or not:
We keep our distance longer than most.
Even if we think we’re really into you, we’re going to keep our distance. We’ll keep you at arm’s length, might not text you back immediately, and definitely won’t want to spend too much time with you. We just don’t want to get too close.
We play it close to the chest.
After you’ve been emotionally abused, being able to open up freely is painful. We don’t want to put ourselves in a vulnerable situation again and when you open up about yourself, that’s exactly what you’re doing. You’re exposing the bits and pieces of you that all of a sudden make you a target. For us, it’s safer if we just keep some things to ourselves.
We take it slow.
I don’t mean just physically slow, but emotionally and mentally slow. Like a wounded puppy, it’s hard not to proceed with caution. It’s just an instinctual way of protecting ourselves from further harm.
We’re overly suspicious.
When you’ve been with someone who’s put you down over and over — saying you’re no good and are worthless — you just can’t help but wonder why anyone would want to be into you ever again. If you tell us you love us and we look at you weird, it’s not that the feeling isn’t mutual; rather, we’re still a bit unclear as to what about us might be appealing or lovable to someone else.
We’re hesitant about getting to know the people in your life.
When you start to get to know the friends and family of the person you’re in a relationship with, it means things are getting serious. It also means that your lives are becoming more and more intertwined. It can feel a bit scary, so we proceed with caution.
We’re affectionate, but on our own terms.
When I first met my husband, he was baffled by how little affection I gave him. Even at the height of our love, I had to be affectionate on my own terms. If he cuddled up to me, sometimes I’d pull away. It wasn’t that I didn’t want to be close to him, but after the relationship before where affection was so minimal, it took me a long time to learn how to cuddle again and to enjoy it. But he eventually left because he thought I really didn't want to be affectionate with him, so he went looking else where for it.
We assume the worst (but hope for the best).
When you’ve been mistreated by someone you love, you automatically build up a wall around your heart. You become guarded, protective, and you hand out your love in pieces, bit by bit. Because this is the case, we naturally assume that things won’t last or that we’ll be hurt again.
Of course, we hope it won’t be reminiscent of the past, but we do assume the worst longer than most. It’s simply a coping mechanism, and one that works for many of us.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Exhibitionist
100% Pet
100% Submissive
100% Brat
100% Slave
100% Masochist
100% Primal (Prey)
100% Degradee
100% Voyeur
100% Rope bunny
100% Experimentalist
63% Boy/Girl
48% Non-monogamist
43% Vanilla
0% Ageplayer
0% Switch
I’m looking to meet someone who shares my desires and who I can connect with on a “deeper “ level. I believe in mutual fulfillment. I’m open to exploring and sharing experiences that bring us both satisfying pleasure.
