Looking to get Spanked, Spoiled, and to try out a lot of different new kinks with a Dom man I can build trust with. Looking for local to Annapolis. The furthest I can travel is 30-40 min and that's it. I can't host so, if we got to that point, we need to get a room somewhere.
Im a 5'9, Bi, Latina (Chilean born but raised in US) BBW (300+) with brown hair and eyes. My body is a pear-shaped build with a belly (which I'm rather self conscious about), a bit of an ass and some "wiggly bits". I've been told I have "smiley eyes" and a great laugh. I understand quite a bit about kink lifestyles so I wouldn't call myself vanilla; but I'm new to physically experiencing certain things such as what I'm listing myself for.
Some things about me: I'm generally a cheerful person and I have a good sense of humor. I like animals and kayaking, and I'm the type of person that will jam out in the car and not care if other people are looking at me. ( I can't promise I'll always get the lyrics right and sometimes my harmony is off but I still enjoy it on a good day!)
Regarding me:
I enjoy giving and receiving oral, can handle and sometimes enjoy anal, can also sometimes squirt and get multiple orgasms. I have the ability to switch if needed but would want to discuss boundaries ahead of time. Im generally open minded and if we have agreed to something beforehand, I'm happy to throw your interests in the mix, but I don't like being surprised by something I was or didn't know if I'd be keen to do or have done to me.
I like getting spanked. I can be a bossy, loud, strong willed person outside of the bedroom and having to submit to a man to be chastised and disciplined really gets my gears going. I like it as foreplay but I also like the idea of finding someone who can discipline me outside of stuff with me and Daddy. It would not be sexual in those meetings, solely for discipline and learning. I bury feelings sometimes and my ADHD can get out of hand if I'm not on my meds. My hubs doesn't really get excited by nor is he as interested by being in this role. He doesn't really like the idea of hurting me and thinks that it takes a bit of effort because it can be tough for me to break into tears. In those separate sessions that is what I want to achieve because it allows for such a major release both emotionally and physically for me.
Looking for someone 28-48. Interested in MD locals, or those willing to come to me and meet somewhere, I can't host or travel. I like a guy 5'8 or taller and with some muscle because I'm a bigger chick and I like to be handled a bit. (Now that can be hot athletic gym muscle or a BIT of a beer belly farm muscle, it really depends on your manners and charm) I'm not the biggest fan of crazy bushy beards or long beards-- a couple weeks worth of growth or stubble is fine but if you can braid it or compete with it, I don't think we were meant to get together-- nothing angst bearded guys it's just a sensory thing for me.
Some things that are important to me in this search:
*Respect, Manners, and Boundaries are key for me*
*I'm not on here to play games, or get ghosted when I ask about meeting. I'm not here to solely sex chat and have you disappear. Nor am I trying to mess around with anyone else. I'm looking for a chance at chemistry. If there is some, and it works out, I promise I can be a lot of fun *
*Also going to throw this out there, if we are planning to meet, please just show up when we plan. My extra fun time is precious and I don't like taking the time to do all the things women have to do in our society to prep for funsies and then have someone be a no show. My pics are a get what you get deal. I look that way and I am the age I listed. If you show and I'm not your type, we are all adults and I'd rather someone be respectfully blunt than waste my time waiting for a person who won't show. It's so beyond rude.
*I like a good flirt and I like attention. Once I'm comfortable I'm happy to send photos. If I seem hesitant it's because I work with kids and don't want screenshots of myself "out there" on the net. *
* Im not on here to help anyone cheat. If you have a partner or more they need to know you and I are talking/meeting and they need to be ok with it.
*My marriage is ENM . We are happy and trust each other, he just currently doesn't feel like playing or meeting. He wants me to be safe.
*Daddy is the only one allowed to penetrate my lady bits, but my mouth and bum are yours to have fun with. Come on me or in my mouth, but
otherwise please be ready to put a condom on.
Regarding health stuff : I hope to meet with someone who has been vaccinated and is disease/sti free. I have had mine as well as boosters, am disease/ sti free, and have test results from last test available.
I am 420 friendly and I enjoy a drink from time to time. If you smoke cigarettes or cigars, please take precautions to clean up before spending time with me, I'm not a fan.
Please be ready to share a face and non x-rated pic when/if we chat if it's not already in your profile. I work in a job with kids so I may hold off on showing my full face pic right away until I feel comfortable, but I will if I feel we have a connection and I'm interested in getting to know you better.
I'm absolutely all about safety, respect, and communication. I can be blunt and overly eager to talk sometimes due to my ADHD. I also may not be able to chat until after 830pm most nights because we have a family with gremlins and I don't want things showing up on my phone that they could see. I ask for patience and gentle reminders to slow down if we chat and I talk too fast/ too much at once.
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I look forward to meeting you guys on here and hope y'all are having a nice day.
