I am relatively new to the BDSM scene, but I know what I like and what I want. I’m newly single and would like to find a regular play partner. I am not interested in couples as I do not like to share nor am I interested in being someone’s “side” piece. I enjoy lots of different kinds of play and have a number of kinks. Big strong hands and broad shoulders are a weakness. If you aren’t interested in a plus size Sub then I’m not what you are looking for.

I love actual conversation. If that's not your bag, don't bother. I also love to read. If you want to discuss books, I'm here for it. I'm looking for someone with a sense of humor. If you don't have one, or if you can't converse on the inherent absurdity of day to day life, then keep on moving. Writing is my passion. Kindness is sexy. Intelligence and self-awareness, the ability to self-reflect, really gets me going. You have these qualities? I'm all in. I'm also looking for a Daddy willing to spank me when I mouth off. But your rules need to be coherent, not merely arbitrary. If you can check these boxes, I'm yours. Somewhat.

I am relatively new to the BDSM scene, but I know what I like and what I want. I’m newly single and would like to find a regular play partner. I am not interested in couples as I do not like to share nor am I interested in being someone’s “side” piece. I enjoy lots of different kinds of play and have a number of kinks. Big strong hands and broad shoulders are a weakness. If you aren’t interested in a plus size Sub then I’m not what you are looking for.

I love actual conversation. If that's not your bag, don't bother. I also love to read. If you want to discuss books, I'm here for it. I'm looking for someone with a sense of humor. If you don't have one, or if you can't converse on the inherent absurdity of day to day life, then keep on moving. Writing is my passion. Kindness is sexy. Intelligence and self-awareness, the ability to self-reflect, really gets me going. You have these qualities? I'm all in. I'm also looking for a Daddy willing to spank me when I mouth off. But your rules need to be coherent, not merely arbitrary. If you can check these boxes, I'm yours. Somewhat.