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Looking for many things. Seeking a submissive for fun times and a potential 24/7 submissive. All around just looking for some kinky fun and kinky chats that could lead to more.
Female (31) Frederick, Maryland
I'm looking for something long-term but I'm open to short term. I like coloring, playing sims, listening to music, and going on walks. I am interested in trying new things and am an open book. I'm also bad at writing bios but I tried 🤗
Female (20) Frederick, Maryland
Hi! This is my first attempt to meet friends and get some slap and tickle. Ya know, FWB. I'm a newish widow and my sex life up to now has been very vanilla. or non existent for years. I don't want a serious Dom as I'm just learning that I don't do well with that. I'm too independent and a brat to be a sub. Relationship Anarchy is my kink. Add some brat who knows what could happen. Please, no one under 40 one of my strict boundaries. I'm learning what I like and dislike. like: oral give and receive, being tossed around the bed, did I mention oral, you can try most anything once with me. twice + if I like it. this has been fun! I'm not a fan of butt play, ***, hard ***, *** and water sports. I like taking long walks and poking dead things with a stick ;) 420 friendly. I'll eat gummies if the smell is too much for you. I'm a soft Dom. No to playing Sub. No, seems a Relationship Anarchy fits me best! look it up and then look me up.
Female (63) Frederick, Maryland
Here to finally explore the suppressed side of myself. Glad to be free to be myself and with like minded people. I'm in an open marriage and we encourage each other to date separately. We practice ENM and test regularly. I have a high sex drive and love different types of foreplay. When it comes to intimacy I require aftercare, because I consider it all apart of the experience. I'm more concerned about connections rather than just the act of sex. Men with a master in the art of romance, who are emotionally intelligent and can hold a conversation have a soft spot in my heart. Playfully adventurous lover seeking a romantic sensual partner. I'm best described as a submissive sapiosexual with a high sex drive. Demisexual, heteroflexible. A little bit more about myself... college educated and I have my own. Im secure in my mind body and soul and I only entertain others that have good vibes and great energy. I have a love of reading, research, raising exotic plants, the arts, old school real music, museums, new experiences. I love to be active. If you need a companion to fish, hike, bike ride, canoe, rafting, city tours, train rides, etc. I'm your lady! D/D free, 420 friendly, test frequently, drama free and Id like it to remain so please and thank you!
Female (47) Frederick, Maryland
A little about me: I'm short (5'2), athletic built, pretty feisty, very sarcastic, a smart Alec, laid back, open minded, workout junky, can be daring and adventurous at times, adrenaline junky. I love sports, playing some video games, love going to the movies and out to eat, pet owner and love to travel more. I can be pretty shy and somewhat submissive at times but pretty blunt/forward, bratty and dominant at most other times. I am pretty open to different things but still exploring. With my previous relationship I’m into other couples and/or couple swap. Some selected males for MFM play. I am definitely interested into dabbling into some role playing, bondage, consensual non consent, kink/fetish events and parties and maybe a whole lot more.
Female (46) Frederick, Maryland
I broke up with Daddy again 🥺 I thought we’d be together forever but he didn’t accept that just bc you’re a Dom doesn’t mean you’re entitled to say and do whatever you want and your sub just has to take it. I need a Dom with patience who values my feelings and won’t shut me down or mistreat me bc he’s having a bad day. A Dom who will cherish me and not treat our relationship like it’s disposable. This time around I’m going to do a better job of vetting and make sure my future Dom can handle me and my “drama.” That said, if you decide to msg me just know that I’m not quite ready to try this again. And honestly? I may never be rdy bc so much damage has been done at this point that I may be turned off from doms altogether.
Female (46) Frederick, Maryland
hi hi I wanted to clarify I’m pansexual im truly into everyone I could care less what you have under your clothes as long as you dominate me 🥰
Female (23) Frederick, Maryland
Subby service top looking for a dom woman to worship I like to read, listen to music, and talk about kinks and sex. Get me talking about pet play and a mommy kink and I’ll go for hours
Female (20) Frederick, Maryland
Building The Echochamber one stream at a time. Looking for genuine connections and people who enjoy good conversation. If you like rabbit holes and cozy chaos, you'll fit right in. wednesday livestreams: bigo Thursday livestreams: yubo Friday livestreams: loyal fans Discord server: in the works
Female (24) Frederick, Maryland
I’m interested in being a submissive to a dominant partner, but also new to the lifestyle. I like clear boundaries and want to explore my sexuality. TLDR I’m not looking for a hookup. I’m looking for my person.
Female (30) Frederick, Maryland
Kinda new to the scene. I enjoy restraints, praise, and exhibitionist lite. Need to foster trust/friendship before we play.
Female (29) Frederick, Maryland
i’m a short, chubby, submissive girl looking for a long-term partner who i hope will eventually be my first (i’ve done everything except penetrative sex). i enjoy pet play—especially being treated like a puppy—and i also have a little side. bondage is a huge turn-on for me, too.
Female (22) Frederick, Maryland
Hi there! 🥰 I suck at writing about myself, but I'll give it a try... I'm pansexual, demisexual, and polyamorous. Currently, I have 2 partners. One is my loving husband, whom i have been married to for 10 years. The second is my fiance and nesting partner, whom I have been with for 3.5 years. I love them dearly, and I'm not looking to change my relationship with them. I love reading and crocheting. One of my favorite places to go around town would have to be going to the movies, though I don't get to go very often. I am very much a homebody and love to spend a weekend couch rotting. My favorite food in the world is sushi 🍣 I will not support any kind of political talk. The world is already a scary place and political talk gives me horrible anxiety. This is a place for me to set my anxieties to the side. Also, don't even hit that heart button if some of your first words have anything to do with hooking up.
Female (33) Frederick, Maryland
I've been described as the following most often. Hippy Educated with a touch of Gangster I ❤️nature and various ethnic foods and exploring life and places. I'm full of fire, but have learned to channel it appropriately to fuel my passions. I ❤️ a heart centered, grounded, Dominant leaning man who isn't afraid to be with all aspects of me and who is familiar with and/or exploring all aspects of themselves. I thrive being with a man with a plan, but who can go with the flow as needed as well. A man with mindful intentions. A man with a solid ability to regulate their own emotions without tantrums. We are all on our own individual journeys and while I'm not judging anyone and where they are in their process, I'm also aware that it's vital to my emotional well-being and growth to be with a partner of a similar if not more expansive emotional intelligence. I see relationships as opportunities to learn more about ourselves and our partners and support one another's expansion. While it's not always easy, dealing with conflict within the relationship in a productive manner allows a couple to deepen their intimacy. We don't always have to agree or even resolve a disagreement, but if we listen to one another with open minds while keeping in mind that our goal is to BE a team, things tend to work out better. While I desire a LTR, I am clear on how I want to operate within that relationship and I won't settle for anything less than a transparent, communicative and authentic connection. I ❤️ to feel so soft and free, in my feminine essence, but most especially when within the context of an intimate relationship. To know someone has my back and I can feel so safe to just be me is a wonderful experience. While I will thrive on our emotional intimacy, I will always have friends, family and therapist/coaches to be a part of my support network as well. I believe we can be great partners, but relying solely on one individual for emotional support is not practical or even responsible for that matter. If I am YOURS, there is full devotion. I've played around with Polyamory, but my strong preference is for Monogamy mainly due to the practicality of time constraints. I am a solo Mom w 2 ***agers and my life is open enough for one LTR at this time. I do believe Polyamory is a beautiful lifestyle done quite well by many. For me, it sounds beautiful and natural, yet just not for me. I'll continue to admire, observe and learn from others around this topic because it does intrigue me. HSV+antibodies 25+ yrs, asymptomatic
Female (54) Frederick, Maryland
I’m naturally bossy in my everyday life… with an attitude to match. I prefer being submissive in the bedroom but recently decided to explore being a soft Domme here and there… when the mood strikes me.
Female (36) Frederick, Maryland
I’m shy. Let’s get that out of the way. I am not new to the kink lifestyle, but newly single. I want to experience my fantasies and have fun. I don’t want anything serious right now. I don’t want anything online. I hate small chit chatting over text. I might not be on the app every week or month even. As you can tell I’m blunt and direct. I have a busy life, so if you are expecting everyday communication and meet ups I’m not it. Let’s not waste each others time. Now the fun stuff. I especially want to meet people who enjoy CNC and Primal Play.
Female (30) Frederick, Maryland
I’ve always been curious and want to explore/test my limits. I’m looking for a partner to show me the ropes 😉 I’m a complete newbie. wanna chat? limits: ***, *** not sure what else
Female (31) Frederick, Maryland
New to lifestyle. Very little experience. Little girl looking for experienced DD. No further than 50 miles. Attractive SINGLE white men who take care of themselves. Must be financially secure & willing to spoil me. Must be able to hold an intelligent conversation. Must be a gentlemen and know the proper way to treat a lady. Not necessarily looking for a LTR but not DTF. No couples, no marrieds, no bi, no women, no trans. No men who are interested in trans.
Female (55) Frederick, Maryland
Confident, curious, and still discovering how deep my submissive side goes. I’m drawn to psychological dominance—the anticipation, control, rules, language, trust, and focused attention that make surrender feel earned rather than assumed. I enjoy intensity, consensual ***, service, experimentation, and the freedom to explore without shame. But submission never means weakness or the absence of boundaries. What I give is given willingly, and trust, communication, consent, discretion, and aftercare matter enormously to me. Outside the dynamic, I value intelligence, creativity, humor, emotional awareness, and people who are comfortable enough with themselves to be honest about what they want. I’m here to explore, learn, and connect—not to rush into anything or collect empty messages.
Female (45) Frederick, Maryland

New members in Frederick

Looking for many things. Seeking a submissive for fun times and a potential 24/7 submissive. All around just looking for some kinky fun and kinky chats that could lead to more.
Female (31) Frederick, Maryland
New to lifestyle. Very little experience. Little girl looking for experienced DD. No further than 50 miles. Attractive SINGLE white men who take care of themselves. Must be financially secure & willing to spoil me. Must be able to hold an intelligent conversation. Must be a gentlemen and know the proper way to treat a lady. Not necessarily looking for a LTR but not DTF. No couples, no marrieds, no bi, no women, no trans. No men who are interested in trans.
Female (55) Frederick, Maryland
I’m shy. Let’s get that out of the way. I am not new to the kink lifestyle, but newly single. I want to experience my fantasies and have fun. I don’t want anything serious right now. I don’t want anything online. I hate small chit chatting over text. I might not be on the app every week or month even. As you can tell I’m blunt and direct. I have a busy life, so if you are expecting everyday communication and meet ups I’m not it. Let’s not waste each others time. Now the fun stuff. I especially want to meet people who enjoy CNC and Primal Play.
Female (30) Frederick, Maryland
Confident, curious, and still discovering how deep my submissive side goes. I’m drawn to psychological dominance—the anticipation, control, rules, language, trust, and focused attention that make surrender feel earned rather than assumed. I enjoy intensity, consensual ***, service, experimentation, and the freedom to explore without shame. But submission never means weakness or the absence of boundaries. What I give is given willingly, and trust, communication, consent, discretion, and aftercare matter enormously to me. Outside the dynamic, I value intelligence, creativity, humor, emotional awareness, and people who are comfortable enough with themselves to be honest about what they want. I’m here to explore, learn, and connect—not to rush into anything or collect empty messages.
Female (45) Frederick, Maryland
i’m a short, chubby, submissive girl looking for a long-term partner who i hope will eventually be my first (i’ve done everything except penetrative sex). i enjoy pet play—especially being treated like a puppy—and i also have a little side. bondage is a huge turn-on for me, too.
Female (22) Frederick, Maryland
I'm looking for something long-term but I'm open to short term. I like coloring, playing sims, listening to music, and going on walks. I am interested in trying new things and am an open book. I'm also bad at writing bios but I tried 🤗
Female (20) Frederick, Maryland
Subby service top looking for a dom woman to worship I like to read, listen to music, and talk about kinks and sex. Get me talking about pet play and a mommy kink and I’ll go for hours
Female (20) Frederick, Maryland
Building The Echochamber one stream at a time. Looking for genuine connections and people who enjoy good conversation. If you like rabbit holes and cozy chaos, you'll fit right in. wednesday livestreams: bigo Thursday livestreams: yubo Friday livestreams: loyal fans Discord server: in the works
Female (24) Frederick, Maryland
I’ve always been curious and want to explore/test my limits. I’m looking for a partner to show me the ropes 😉 I’m a complete newbie. wanna chat? limits: ***, *** not sure what else
Female (31) Frederick, Maryland
Hi! This is my first attempt to meet friends and get some slap and tickle. Ya know, FWB. I'm a newish widow and my sex life up to now has been very vanilla. or non existent for years. I don't want a serious Dom as I'm just learning that I don't do well with that. I'm too independent and a brat to be a sub. Relationship Anarchy is my kink. Add some brat who knows what could happen. Please, no one under 40 one of my strict boundaries. I'm learning what I like and dislike. like: oral give and receive, being tossed around the bed, did I mention oral, you can try most anything once with me. twice + if I like it. this has been fun! I'm not a fan of butt play, ***, hard ***, *** and water sports. I like taking long walks and poking dead things with a stick ;) 420 friendly. I'll eat gummies if the smell is too much for you. I'm a soft Dom. No to playing Sub. No, seems a Relationship Anarchy fits me best! look it up and then look me up.
Female (63) Frederick, Maryland
I’m interested in being a submissive to a dominant partner, but also new to the lifestyle. I like clear boundaries and want to explore my sexuality. TLDR I’m not looking for a hookup. I’m looking for my person.
Female (30) Frederick, Maryland
A little about me: I'm short (5'2), athletic built, pretty feisty, very sarcastic, a smart Alec, laid back, open minded, workout junky, can be daring and adventurous at times, adrenaline junky. I love sports, playing some video games, love going to the movies and out to eat, pet owner and love to travel more. I can be pretty shy and somewhat submissive at times but pretty blunt/forward, bratty and dominant at most other times. I am pretty open to different things but still exploring. With my previous relationship I’m into other couples and/or couple swap. Some selected males for MFM play. I am definitely interested into dabbling into some role playing, bondage, consensual non consent, kink/fetish events and parties and maybe a whole lot more.
Female (46) Frederick, Maryland
Here to finally explore the suppressed side of myself. Glad to be free to be myself and with like minded people. I'm in an open marriage and we encourage each other to date separately. We practice ENM and test regularly. I have a high sex drive and love different types of foreplay. When it comes to intimacy I require aftercare, because I consider it all apart of the experience. I'm more concerned about connections rather than just the act of sex. Men with a master in the art of romance, who are emotionally intelligent and can hold a conversation have a soft spot in my heart. Playfully adventurous lover seeking a romantic sensual partner. I'm best described as a submissive sapiosexual with a high sex drive. Demisexual, heteroflexible. A little bit more about myself... college educated and I have my own. Im secure in my mind body and soul and I only entertain others that have good vibes and great energy. I have a love of reading, research, raising exotic plants, the arts, old school real music, museums, new experiences. I love to be active. If you need a companion to fish, hike, bike ride, canoe, rafting, city tours, train rides, etc. I'm your lady! D/D free, 420 friendly, test frequently, drama free and Id like it to remain so please and thank you!
Female (47) Frederick, Maryland
hi hi I wanted to clarify I’m pansexual im truly into everyone I could care less what you have under your clothes as long as you dominate me 🥰
Female (23) Frederick, Maryland
Hi there! 🥰 I suck at writing about myself, but I'll give it a try... I'm pansexual, demisexual, and polyamorous. Currently, I have 2 partners. One is my loving husband, whom i have been married to for 10 years. The second is my fiance and nesting partner, whom I have been with for 3.5 years. I love them dearly, and I'm not looking to change my relationship with them. I love reading and crocheting. One of my favorite places to go around town would have to be going to the movies, though I don't get to go very often. I am very much a homebody and love to spend a weekend couch rotting. My favorite food in the world is sushi 🍣 I will not support any kind of political talk. The world is already a scary place and political talk gives me horrible anxiety. This is a place for me to set my anxieties to the side. Also, don't even hit that heart button if some of your first words have anything to do with hooking up.
Female (33) Frederick, Maryland
I’m naturally bossy in my everyday life… with an attitude to match. I prefer being submissive in the bedroom but recently decided to explore being a soft Domme here and there… when the mood strikes me.
Female (36) Frederick, Maryland
I've been described as the following most often. Hippy Educated with a touch of Gangster I ❤️nature and various ethnic foods and exploring life and places. I'm full of fire, but have learned to channel it appropriately to fuel my passions. I ❤️ a heart centered, grounded, Dominant leaning man who isn't afraid to be with all aspects of me and who is familiar with and/or exploring all aspects of themselves. I thrive being with a man with a plan, but who can go with the flow as needed as well. A man with mindful intentions. A man with a solid ability to regulate their own emotions without tantrums. We are all on our own individual journeys and while I'm not judging anyone and where they are in their process, I'm also aware that it's vital to my emotional well-being and growth to be with a partner of a similar if not more expansive emotional intelligence. I see relationships as opportunities to learn more about ourselves and our partners and support one another's expansion. While it's not always easy, dealing with conflict within the relationship in a productive manner allows a couple to deepen their intimacy. We don't always have to agree or even resolve a disagreement, but if we listen to one another with open minds while keeping in mind that our goal is to BE a team, things tend to work out better. While I desire a LTR, I am clear on how I want to operate within that relationship and I won't settle for anything less than a transparent, communicative and authentic connection. I ❤️ to feel so soft and free, in my feminine essence, but most especially when within the context of an intimate relationship. To know someone has my back and I can feel so safe to just be me is a wonderful experience. While I will thrive on our emotional intimacy, I will always have friends, family and therapist/coaches to be a part of my support network as well. I believe we can be great partners, but relying solely on one individual for emotional support is not practical or even responsible for that matter. If I am YOURS, there is full devotion. I've played around with Polyamory, but my strong preference is for Monogamy mainly due to the practicality of time constraints. I am a solo Mom w 2 ***agers and my life is open enough for one LTR at this time. I do believe Polyamory is a beautiful lifestyle done quite well by many. For me, it sounds beautiful and natural, yet just not for me. I'll continue to admire, observe and learn from others around this topic because it does intrigue me. HSV+antibodies 25+ yrs, asymptomatic
Female (54) Frederick, Maryland
I broke up with Daddy again 🥺 I thought we’d be together forever but he didn’t accept that just bc you’re a Dom doesn’t mean you’re entitled to say and do whatever you want and your sub just has to take it. I need a Dom with patience who values my feelings and won’t shut me down or mistreat me bc he’s having a bad day. A Dom who will cherish me and not treat our relationship like it’s disposable. This time around I’m going to do a better job of vetting and make sure my future Dom can handle me and my “drama.” That said, if you decide to msg me just know that I’m not quite ready to try this again. And honestly? I may never be rdy bc so much damage has been done at this point that I may be turned off from doms altogether.
Female (46) Frederick, Maryland
Kinda new to the scene. I enjoy restraints, praise, and exhibitionist lite. Need to foster trust/friendship before we play.
Female (29) Frederick, Maryland

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