I am in a relationship and would like to explore kinks, fetishes and the non sexual bdsm play by myself before looping in my partner and experiencing them with him

Moving to Hagerstown in June I am a short, shy, chubby and nerdy I am newly single -- I have only had one Dom but havnt not been able to live the lifestyle in YEARS - I am looking for a Daddy Dom/primal type to help me explore again and find myself. I was in a very toxic relationship and have lost most of my self esteem. I am ideally looking for my forever person - Someone to build something with in and out of the bedroom

👑 Full-Figured Black Goddess | Dominant Fetish Provider 💋 Confident, curvy, dominant, and passionate about pleasing. I love exploring fantasies, embracing fetishes, and taking charge. 🔥 💎 GENEROUS PROVIDERS ONLY. I appreciate men who love to spoil, give generously, and treat a woman like the queen she is. 🚫 No cheap talk. No time wasters. Just generosity, respect, and mutual satisfaction. Can you match my energy? 😉

A little whimsy wrapped up in a pretty package. ✨ I’m creative, curious, playful, a little bratty, and I have a habit of testing limits just to see who can keep up. 😇 I love good conversation, genuine connection, and someone confident enough to handle my personality. And when I choose you? I’m choosing you. I am NOT a sharing kind of woman. I want exclusivity, intention, and someone who craves having me all to himself. 💕

My private gallery is only for the people I want to see it. Please don't request or ask me to view it. Update 3-25-26 ENM & partnered. Solo or Together, but we are seeking specific experiences together. Last STI/STD/HIV 3-25-26 All Negative & You should be too. I prefer others who test and share results. Open to Activity Partners. Let's chat briefly, then meet & greet. I enjoy all races of CIS Women, Trans, or NB. I am Sex Positive & Open to ONS or something ongoing with others who are curious about F/F & more, Sex and/or the BDSM/KINK scene. Other Femmasculine Women are HOT. Let's have a sexy exchange. No Games. No Drama. No Politics. No Religion. NSA/Short/Long Term Connections At this time, I am only available for scheduling meet & greets or actual playdates with select people. I'm not interested in pen pals or video chat/text buddies. Serious inquiries ONLY. I would like to meet more people who are in or live within 25 miles. If you are more than 75 miles outside my radius, Ihave no interest in traveling to meet you. Couples- I am selective on how far things go between us all, and it just has to feel right, I will want to SEE & TALK to BOTH of you. If you send me a message, make sure I can see both of you in photos. Single males - I am not always looking for you, but I could be. I do enjoy guys who like being pegged. I am D,D&D also Alcohol Free (No it doesn't bother me if you drink however, If you need to be wasted to meet or play, I'll Pass), I'm low-key and have a huge range of interest outside of the lifestyle. I am busy, too, but I am here to make connections with people who wish to explore their sexual inhibitions. I enjoy being spoiled, so if you would like to spoil me because that is your kink, feel free to ask for my Amazon wishlist link. I will make sure that you get a personalized photo with the item(s) you purchased for me as a thank you. If you fit what I am seeking and are local to me, I encourage you to reach out if there's an interest. I may request a video chat verification with you to verify before meeting. == My BDSM Test from Fetish.com == 100% Dominant 38% Submissive == My roles == 100% Sadist 100% Degrader 95% Master/Mistress 88% Hunter 85% Rigger 73% Brat Tamer 43% Caregiver 38% Masochist 30% Slave 28% Pet Owner 13% Rope Bunny 13% Little 13% Brat 13% Pet 0% Degradee 0% Prey https://www.fetish.com/result/5mxEmCIB

I am fat everywhere. I weigh 285ish depending on the day. I like food a lot. I don't wear makeup often, and I prefer jeans or shorts and a tank top or sleeveless tops most days even with flabby arms. I have auburn hair with a lot of gray peaking through these days. If you're still reading, I have pretty brown eyes and a pretty set of lips 👄 (on my face 😉) along with lots of freckles everywhere. I do enjoy getting made up and dressed up to go out once in a while - even semi- formal or formal events. I am shy at first but have a fun personality. I am submissive at my core. I have served in different ways in different dynamics. I am not a slave because I enjoy being a brat way too much. I am a babygirl who enjoys having a dominant man in my life who has experience and wants to claim me as his own and will protect and cherish me as his. I would like to be able to trust you with my whole being and to not be a part of your life that you hide. Open and consistent communication is key. I want to go out and enjoy life together and stay home and cuddle together. Train me to serve your needs, and I will make you happy. I have many kinks and look forward to hearing yours as well.

I am in a relationship and would like to explore kinks, fetishes and the non sexual bdsm play by myself before looping in my partner and experiencing them with him

👑 Full-Figured Black Goddess | Dominant Fetish Provider 💋 Confident, curvy, dominant, and passionate about pleasing. I love exploring fantasies, embracing fetishes, and taking charge. 🔥 💎 GENEROUS PROVIDERS ONLY. I appreciate men who love to spoil, give generously, and treat a woman like the queen she is. 🚫 No cheap talk. No time wasters. Just generosity, respect, and mutual satisfaction. Can you match my energy? 😉

I am fat everywhere. I weigh 285ish depending on the day. I like food a lot. I don't wear makeup often, and I prefer jeans or shorts and a tank top or sleeveless tops most days even with flabby arms. I have auburn hair with a lot of gray peaking through these days. If you're still reading, I have pretty brown eyes and a pretty set of lips 👄 (on my face 😉) along with lots of freckles everywhere. I do enjoy getting made up and dressed up to go out once in a while - even semi- formal or formal events. I am shy at first but have a fun personality. I am submissive at my core. I have served in different ways in different dynamics. I am not a slave because I enjoy being a brat way too much. I am a babygirl who enjoys having a dominant man in my life who has experience and wants to claim me as his own and will protect and cherish me as his. I would like to be able to trust you with my whole being and to not be a part of your life that you hide. Open and consistent communication is key. I want to go out and enjoy life together and stay home and cuddle together. Train me to serve your needs, and I will make you happy. I have many kinks and look forward to hearing yours as well.

Moving to Hagerstown in June I am a short, shy, chubby and nerdy I am newly single -- I have only had one Dom but havnt not been able to live the lifestyle in YEARS - I am looking for a Daddy Dom/primal type to help me explore again and find myself. I was in a very toxic relationship and have lost most of my self esteem. I am ideally looking for my forever person - Someone to build something with in and out of the bedroom

My private gallery is only for the people I want to see it. Please don't request or ask me to view it. Update 3-25-26 ENM & partnered. Solo or Together, but we are seeking specific experiences together. Last STI/STD/HIV 3-25-26 All Negative & You should be too. I prefer others who test and share results. Open to Activity Partners. Let's chat briefly, then meet & greet. I enjoy all races of CIS Women, Trans, or NB. I am Sex Positive & Open to ONS or something ongoing with others who are curious about F/F & more, Sex and/or the BDSM/KINK scene. Other Femmasculine Women are HOT. Let's have a sexy exchange. No Games. No Drama. No Politics. No Religion. NSA/Short/Long Term Connections At this time, I am only available for scheduling meet & greets or actual playdates with select people. I'm not interested in pen pals or video chat/text buddies. Serious inquiries ONLY. I would like to meet more people who are in or live within 25 miles. If you are more than 75 miles outside my radius, Ihave no interest in traveling to meet you. Couples- I am selective on how far things go between us all, and it just has to feel right, I will want to SEE & TALK to BOTH of you. If you send me a message, make sure I can see both of you in photos. Single males - I am not always looking for you, but I could be. I do enjoy guys who like being pegged. I am D,D&D also Alcohol Free (No it doesn't bother me if you drink however, If you need to be wasted to meet or play, I'll Pass), I'm low-key and have a huge range of interest outside of the lifestyle. I am busy, too, but I am here to make connections with people who wish to explore their sexual inhibitions. I enjoy being spoiled, so if you would like to spoil me because that is your kink, feel free to ask for my Amazon wishlist link. I will make sure that you get a personalized photo with the item(s) you purchased for me as a thank you. If you fit what I am seeking and are local to me, I encourage you to reach out if there's an interest. I may request a video chat verification with you to verify before meeting. == My BDSM Test from Fetish.com == 100% Dominant 38% Submissive == My roles == 100% Sadist 100% Degrader 95% Master/Mistress 88% Hunter 85% Rigger 73% Brat Tamer 43% Caregiver 38% Masochist 30% Slave 28% Pet Owner 13% Rope Bunny 13% Little 13% Brat 13% Pet 0% Degradee 0% Prey https://www.fetish.com/result/5mxEmCIB

A little whimsy wrapped up in a pretty package. ✨ I’m creative, curious, playful, a little bratty, and I have a habit of testing limits just to see who can keep up. 😇 I love good conversation, genuine connection, and someone confident enough to handle my personality. And when I choose you? I’m choosing you. I am NOT a sharing kind of woman. I want exclusivity, intention, and someone who craves having me all to himself. 💕