I am a 37 year old woman who has always played by the rules and worked extremely hard in life to be successful. I settled down at 21 with my first and only partner. Here I am, 16 years later, happy, healing, curious, and exploring after a divorce, and looking to expand my experience in the dating world. I am shy and nervous around new people at first, but I will warm up, I promise.
I am looking for a patient, kind, experienced individual who can teach me a thing or two (or a million) about how to enjoy and explore intimacy. Ultimately, I'm looking for a soft dom while I learn the ropes (but please, be nice to me and cuddle me after, hehe).
Ideally, I am looking for a genuine connection that leads to a long-term, real relationship with someone who understands that intimacy is an important part of compatibility, but also appreciates me for who I am as a person, and views me as an equal partner outside of the bedroom. I have a home, a great education, good career, no debt, and conduct myself as a professional in the public eye, and would love a partner that possesses these qualities as well.
Please do not message me if you are interested in a casual hookup or friends with benefits situation. No judgment at all - they are simply not for me.
Things I am interested in: exploring my submissive side (love the idea of giving up control), rough play, spanking, choking/ breath play, being tied up, *** (although I'm a big fan of some "good girl" praise too).