BDSM Dating in Ann Arbor

I’m brand new to doing this stuff in real life. I have online experience but nothing beyond that.
I’m looking for someone who can be patient. I know that I enjoy being submissive… and I also have anxiety.
I need to trust that someone is going to stop when I say stop.
I swear I’m a fun loving, bubbly person lol I just take my physical and emotional safety very seriously.