BDSM Dating in Brighton

Looking to fulfil a fantasy hopefully we both share. Love to get to know someone and get comfortable of course. Few meetings and what not, only for onenof these meetingd to turn into a consensual but maybe surprise or acted out abduction that ends with bondage, gags, ans lots of overstimulation. I want to either be the giver or receiver of said abduction. Always been a dom but am extremely curious about the other side.