updated 5/26/26 - I mainly still get on every couple months to check out the forums and then disappear again for a couple months. But I'm always down for new online friends and conversations. I'm just not ready to meet someone in person just yet. Please respect that. π
10/27/26 I more or less just really enjoy the forums and other things on the app as well. But if you want someone just to chat with, I'm always open for conversation.
Took some time off for self-discovery since signing up in fall 2025.
Soft domme/"mommy domme" leaning into the slow burn. Demisexual & sapiosexual; I need the mind to spark before anything else does. Love a bit of drawn-out texting that builds tension, good conversation that lingers, and, eventually, guiding things with a firm but gentle hand. If you enjoy being praised for being clever and a little obedient...
What Iβm Exploring:
D/s dynamics, especially what it means to lead with both firmness and empathy.
Light bondage and restraint.
Tease, anticipation, and psychological play.
Learning what really makes a partner feel seen and cared for in the role of submission.
What I Value:
Clear boundaries and enthusiastic consent.
Open communication before, during, and after play.
Partners who know what excites them, or who are also curious and figuring it out.
What Iβm Not Into:
***, ***, hard ***.
Looking For:
Submissive-leaning people who are patient with someone finding their dominant voice. Someone playful, adventurous, and honest about their limits.
Took some time off for self-discovery since signing up in fall 2025.
Soft domme/"mommy domme" leaning into the slow burn. Demisexual & sapiosexual; I need the mind to spark before anything else does. Love a bit of drawn-out texting that builds tension, good conversation that lingers, and, eventually, guiding things with a firm but gentle hand. If you enjoy being praised for being clever and a little obedient...
What Iβm Exploring:
D/s dynamics, especially what it means to lead with both firmness and empathy.
Light bondage and restraint.
Tease, anticipation, and psychological play.
Learning what really makes a partner feel seen and cared for in the role of submission.
What I Value:
Clear boundaries and enthusiastic consent.
Open communication before, during, and after play.
Partners who know what excites them, or who are also curious and figuring it out.
What Iβm Not Into:
***, ***, hard ***.
Looking For:
Submissive-leaning people who are patient with someone finding their dominant voice. Someone playful, adventurous, and honest about their limits.
updated 5/26/26 - I mainly still get on every couple months to check out the forums and then disappear again for a couple months. But I'm always down for new online friends and conversations. I'm just not ready to meet someone in person just yet. Please respect that. π
10/27/26 I more or less just really enjoy the forums and other things on the app as well. But if you want someone just to chat with, I'm always open for conversation.
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