BDSM Dating in Garden City

We’re overdue for some fun times with a shared person.
Dynamic-wise, we lean more towards me in the D role, them in the S role; but we are both switchy, so the dynamic with a 3rd is open to various arrangements.
We are both pan NBs, so we’re also open to any gender. As long as we can both enjoy the person.
Looking for something that can be ongoing rather than a one time thing.
We’re located in the Dearborn area.
Them: NB afab, fat & tattooed