if you respect me, I’ll do the same to you I give what I’m given so choose wisely please don’t be weird right off the bat I like over men but my cut off is 32 please be close to me if you’re going to be horny 24/7, do not talk to me

UPDATE: Not sure what I want since disrespect of messages infiltrated my inbox by men ignoring the fact I asked not to be messaged while in a relationship. I recently put closure in that dynamic since trust was broken by his words and disrespect with no communication which is important to me. I'm not wounded anymore, just caucious...dah. Original Bio Physical lust is everything to me first, and the rest will follow in connections as I am very picky and who I want in a man mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and personality wise. If you don't take risks about love or life, then don't bother. I am not here to play games and am looking for long term, not just a fling. No narcissistic men, or con artists, I will crush you fast....it's a warning. I am not your entertainment until the next play thing. Distance doesn't matter if the connections are all there and I'm not beholden to my area. There is lots about me that is tragic yet a survivor of life. I'm funnier that shit in an entertaining way as I'm outgoing socially yet an introvert too. I'm a huge personality with many sides. I'm extremely creative and highly sexual which fits many of my hobbies and extremely kinky corky sides. I'm aggressive and speak my mind with honesty and truth. I am not perfect; I have many flaws and understand that my partner will have them too. I believe nothing won't be understood without learning how we communicate, and I will not trust you for a while, earn it. I require respectful adult communication that isn't misleading me, or you are gone as my disorder cannot take any more triggers. This requires phone calls, texting, video chats, and a meet or I will walk away. I don't play games. Be an adult. Treat me like the queen I am. I have the most amazing friends no matter who they love regardless of their ages and backgrounds which is why I stay in Fet- the community. I love them dearly since joining this app over 4 years ago. Thank you for visiting my profile. Good luck out there...Dia. And yes, I am my age.....haaaaaa. All my kinks and fetishes are listed further down my page, along with the filthy stories I wrote: Sunflowers and Butterflies in 3 parts, Buttercup's Dungeon Premiere in 4 parts and a short Christmas Kink Story, The Oasis Sir M Part 1 & 2 on my timeline or in the Forum Stories section. It's a taste of how my mind works...hee hee. Enjoy the reading. ___________________________________________

There are almost no limits with the right man. I like being used, and yes—I’m a bit of a size queen. I don’t really get hung up on labels. Chemistry matters more than categories. Let’s be honest: I have a vagina in a sea of dicks on this app. I read all my messages, but I only answer the ones that actually catch my attention. If your opener is “hey,” “wyd,” or a blurry bathroom selfie… save us both the time. My youngest kid is 17 and my oldest is in their mid-20s, so my life is pretty full. I work, I have responsibilities, and I’m usually running around doing something. I’m not sitting around glued to my phone waiting for attention from strangers. What I’m looking for is a friend with benefits, but heavy on the friend part. If we can’t talk, laugh, or enjoy each other’s company outside the bedroom, the rest of it usually isn’t worth the effort. I’m not a 10, but I’m definitely not a 2 either. I’m pretty self-aware. What I might lack in looks I make up for with personality, confidence, and a sense of humor. Also, a couple quick things since this apparently needs to be said: If you look like a troll, do you honestly think I’m going to talk to you? No. And no, I don’t want to watch a stranger finish on video chat. When I want to get myself off, I promise there’s nothing you can do from across the internet to help. Give me about 90 seconds and Pornhub and I’ve got that handled. So if you’re clever, confident, and capable of holding an actual conversation, feel free to say hello. Just make it interesting. Bonus points if you can make me laugh. Extra bonus points if you can keep up.

look ok I'm not a 10. But I'm a not a 2. looks aren't everything,. what I lack in looks I make up for in personality. so have some fucking personality. not a fake profile, just a normal human looking for some connection. but if you look like a bridge troll and you fist message is "do you wanna watch me jack it?" do you really think I'd even bother responding? I also have kids in their early 20s . so if you're in that age group don't bother. I want a man not a boy. I don't want to teach anyone anything. the "young bull" shit is not going to work on me. I don't define myself into any boxes. for the right person my limits do not exist, for most they will. what you get out of me is all on you... not too hot not too cold but just right. most won't fall into the Goldie locks zone sorry to say. I'm trashy with the capabilities of being intellectual and a bit more classy.

if you respect me, I’ll do the same to you I give what I’m given so choose wisely please don’t be weird right off the bat I like over men but my cut off is 32 please be close to me if you’re going to be horny 24/7, do not talk to me

look ok I'm not a 10. But I'm a not a 2. looks aren't everything,. what I lack in looks I make up for in personality. so have some fucking personality. not a fake profile, just a normal human looking for some connection. but if you look like a bridge troll and you fist message is "do you wanna watch me jack it?" do you really think I'd even bother responding? I also have kids in their early 20s . so if you're in that age group don't bother. I want a man not a boy. I don't want to teach anyone anything. the "young bull" shit is not going to work on me. I don't define myself into any boxes. for the right person my limits do not exist, for most they will. what you get out of me is all on you... not too hot not too cold but just right. most won't fall into the Goldie locks zone sorry to say. I'm trashy with the capabilities of being intellectual and a bit more classy.

UPDATE: Not sure what I want since disrespect of messages infiltrated my inbox by men ignoring the fact I asked not to be messaged while in a relationship. I recently put closure in that dynamic since trust was broken by his words and disrespect with no communication which is important to me. I'm not wounded anymore, just caucious...dah. Original Bio Physical lust is everything to me first, and the rest will follow in connections as I am very picky and who I want in a man mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and personality wise. If you don't take risks about love or life, then don't bother. I am not here to play games and am looking for long term, not just a fling. No narcissistic men, or con artists, I will crush you fast....it's a warning. I am not your entertainment until the next play thing. Distance doesn't matter if the connections are all there and I'm not beholden to my area. There is lots about me that is tragic yet a survivor of life. I'm funnier that shit in an entertaining way as I'm outgoing socially yet an introvert too. I'm a huge personality with many sides. I'm extremely creative and highly sexual which fits many of my hobbies and extremely kinky corky sides. I'm aggressive and speak my mind with honesty and truth. I am not perfect; I have many flaws and understand that my partner will have them too. I believe nothing won't be understood without learning how we communicate, and I will not trust you for a while, earn it. I require respectful adult communication that isn't misleading me, or you are gone as my disorder cannot take any more triggers. This requires phone calls, texting, video chats, and a meet or I will walk away. I don't play games. Be an adult. Treat me like the queen I am. I have the most amazing friends no matter who they love regardless of their ages and backgrounds which is why I stay in Fet- the community. I love them dearly since joining this app over 4 years ago. Thank you for visiting my profile. Good luck out there...Dia. And yes, I am my age.....haaaaaa. All my kinks and fetishes are listed further down my page, along with the filthy stories I wrote: Sunflowers and Butterflies in 3 parts, Buttercup's Dungeon Premiere in 4 parts and a short Christmas Kink Story, The Oasis Sir M Part 1 & 2 on my timeline or in the Forum Stories section. It's a taste of how my mind works...hee hee. Enjoy the reading. ___________________________________________

There are almost no limits with the right man. I like being used, and yes—I’m a bit of a size queen. I don’t really get hung up on labels. Chemistry matters more than categories. Let’s be honest: I have a vagina in a sea of dicks on this app. I read all my messages, but I only answer the ones that actually catch my attention. If your opener is “hey,” “wyd,” or a blurry bathroom selfie… save us both the time. My youngest kid is 17 and my oldest is in their mid-20s, so my life is pretty full. I work, I have responsibilities, and I’m usually running around doing something. I’m not sitting around glued to my phone waiting for attention from strangers. What I’m looking for is a friend with benefits, but heavy on the friend part. If we can’t talk, laugh, or enjoy each other’s company outside the bedroom, the rest of it usually isn’t worth the effort. I’m not a 10, but I’m definitely not a 2 either. I’m pretty self-aware. What I might lack in looks I make up for with personality, confidence, and a sense of humor. Also, a couple quick things since this apparently needs to be said: If you look like a troll, do you honestly think I’m going to talk to you? No. And no, I don’t want to watch a stranger finish on video chat. When I want to get myself off, I promise there’s nothing you can do from across the internet to help. Give me about 90 seconds and Pornhub and I’ve got that handled. So if you’re clever, confident, and capable of holding an actual conversation, feel free to say hello. Just make it interesting. Bonus points if you can make me laugh. Extra bonus points if you can keep up.