BDSM Dating in Pontiac

I like structure. I like rules. I might even like you telling me what to do—if you prove you're worth listening to.

I’m looking for a real Dom. Not a “good girl” dispenser with control issues. Someone grounded, emotionally available, and confident enough to earn my obedience—not expect it out the gate.

I talk back. I test limits. But I’m loyal once I’m yours. Make me feel safe, and I’ll fall right into place. Try to it, and I’ll eat you alive.

Impress me. Or don't. I’m not bored—I’m selective. 😘

I’m into:

Power exchange with a wink

Rules (that I pretend to hate but secretly love)

Teasing, praising, pushing limits (with consent)

Dominants who can outwit my mouth and outlast my attitude


I’m not into:

Fragile egos

Red flag Doms with zero aftercare

Race play, public , or anything degrading


Bonus points if you:

Have a voice that shuts me up mid-sentence

Can make rules I actually want to follow

Know the difference between control and cruelty

Poly-aware. Emotionally literate. Located in Pontiac and not into long-winded pen pals unless we’re vibing. Got two days off and a whole lot of attitude. Convince me you're worth surrendering it for.