BDSM Dating in Saginaw

I am wondering if there are any other people my age specifically anyone who is demisexual and or ace spec at all? I feel so out of place and I just want people who will respect my boundaries and are willing to have actual productive conversations not just make it about sex. I would greatly appreciate if these men stopped waving their pps in my dms and thirsting over me when I truthfully just want to talk about something else half the time. So please if you are ace spec/demisexual please dm me. -Salem 🩵