🖤 FRIENDS ONLY. READ IT OR KEEP SCROLLING. 🖤
I’M 25, MARRIED, A MOTHER OF 8, AND ONLY HERE TO MAKE STRICTLY PLATONIC FRIENDS IN THE BDSM COMMUNITY—PEOPLE I CAN ACTUALLY BOND WITH OVER SHARED INTERESTS. I HAVE TWO DOMS IN MY LIFE, I’M HAPPY, AND I’M GOOD. I’M NOT LOOKING FOR ANOTHER DOM, A HOOKUP, FWB, ROMANCE, FLIRTING, SEX, OR ANYTHING BEYOND FRIENDSHIP.
I DON’T CARE WHAT YOU’RE “TRYING TO SHOW ME.” IF YOU WOULDN’T BE COMFORTABLE SHOWING OR SAYING IT WITH MY HUSBAND STANDING RIGHT NEXT TO ME, DON’T SEND IT TO ME. I WOULDN’T DISRESPECT MY HUSBAND BY LOOKING AT OR ENTERTAINING ANOTHER MAN THAT WAY, AND I EXPECT THE SAME BASIC RESPECT IN RETURN.
FLIRTING DOESN’T MAKE ME FEEL GOOD. IT MAKES ME PHYSICALLY UNCOMFORTABLE AND SICK TO MY STOMACH. I AM LOYAL THROUGH AND THROUGH. I ONLY WANT FRIENDSHIP, AND NO MEANS NO.
THAT ANSWER WILL NOT CHANGE BECAUSE YOU KEEP ASKING, PRESSURING, COERCING, PUSHING, FLIRTING, GUILT-TRIPPING, OR USING MANIPULATIVE BACKHANDED TACTICS TO TRY TO GET WHAT YOU WANT. YOU WILL NOT WEAR ME DOWN.
🚫 NO FLIRTING
🚫 NO SEXUAL COMMENTS OR QUESTIONS
🚫 NO CREEPY, NASTY, OR INAPPROPRIATE MESSAGES
🚫 NO UNSOLICITED SEXUAL CONTENT
🚫 NO ASKING FOR PICTURES
🚫 NO UNWANTED NICKNAMES
🚫 NO DISRESPECTING MY MARRIAGE
🚫 NO TRYING TO DOMINATE ME
🚫 NO PRESSURING OR COERCING ME
🚫 NO TESTING OR CROSSING MY BOUNDARIES
🚫 NO CHILDISH ARGUMENTS WHEN YOU DON’T LIKE MY BOUNDARIES
PUT YOURSELF IN MY SHOES FOR A SECOND. IMAGINE SOMEONE WALKING UP TO YOU WITHOUT EVEN READING YOUR PROFILE, SKIPPING BASIC POLITENESS, AND IMMEDIATELY SAYING SOMETHING SEXUAL, FLIRTY, GROSS, OR COMPLETELY UNHINGED. THAT IS CREEPY. IT DOESN’T BECOME LESS CREEPY BECAUSE YOU “WERE JUST JOKING” OR “WERE JUST SHOOTING YOUR SHOT.”
READ THE PROFILE. USE COMMON SENSE. HAVE SOME SELF-CONTROL.
EVERYBODY IS CAPABLE OF KEEPING SEXUAL COMMENTS TO THEMSELVES, AND I EXPECT YOU TO DO SO.
FRIEND ZONE MEANS FRIEND ZONE. IF YOU CAN’T HANDLE THAT, DON’T MESSAGE ME. I’M NOT HERE TO PARENT GROWN ADULTS, TEACH BASIC RESPECT, OR LISTEN TO YOUR TANTRUMS.
DON’T LIKE ME? DON’T TALK TO ME. DON’T LIKE MY BOUNDARIES? KEEP SCROLLING. I DON’T CARE ABOUT YOUR OPINIONS, YOUR EXCUSES, OR YOUR ENTITLEMENT TO MY TIME. IF YOU’RE GOING TO BE WEIRD, CREEPY, FLIRTY, SEXUAL, OR DISRESPECTFUL, REMOVE YOURSELF. THERE’S THE DOOR. 🚪
MORAL OF THE STORY: IF YOU CAN’T SHOW BASIC HUMAN RESPECT, CONTROL YOURSELF, READ MY BOUNDARIES, AND APPROACH ME LIKE AN ACTUAL HUMAN BEING, WE WON’T BE TALKING.
BDSM REQUIRES TRUST, CONSENT, COMMUNICATION, LOYALTY, AND RESPECT. IF YOU CAN’T MANAGE THE BASICS, YOU HAVE NO BUSINESS IN MY MESSAGES.
🖤 ABOUT ME:
HYPER • PLAYFUL • HONEST • ATTENTIVE • GOOFY • BLUNT • SOMETIMES BRATTY • SHY AT FIRST, CHAOTIC ONCE COMFORTABLE.
I’M A MOTHER, AND MY *** COME FIRST. I HAVE RESPONSIBILITIES, SO I MAY NOT ALWAYS BE ONLINE OR RESPOND IMMEDIATELY. DON’T TAKE IT PERSONALLY, AND DON’T DEMAND MY ATTENTION.
🎨 MY INTERESTS:
🌙 RETURNING TO THE BDSM COMMUNITY
🎭 MASKTOK & BOOKTOK
🎨 COLORING & CLEANING TO RELAX
🎶 METAL • POP • COUNTRY • EDM • FOLK • BASICALLY EVERYTHING
🎬 HORROR MOVIES
📚 COMICS & WORKING ON MY OWN COMICS
✨ POKÉMON CARDS
✨ LEARNING MAGIC: THE GATHERING
🎮 PALWORLD & DESTINY 2
🕹️ ARCADES
💃 SLOW DANCING
🌲 WALKS & NATURE
🎭 COSPLAY
📸 TAKING PRETTY PHOTOS
I’M HERE TO MAKE FRIENDS, LAUGH, TALK, SHARE INTERESTS, AND ACTUALLY GET TO KNOW PEOPLE. I’M MAINLY LOOKING FOR GIRLFRIENDS AND RESPECTFUL GUY FRIENDS. I’M NOT ON HERE OFTEN, SO ASK FOR MY DISCORD IF WE ACTUALLY GET ALONG.
IF YOU’RE UNDER 18, DO NOT ADD OR MESSAGE ME. ADULTS ONLY.
RESPECTFUL, GENUINE, HONEST, AND STRAIGHTFORWARD PEOPLE ARE WELCOME. EVERYONE ELSE CAN MOVE ON.
RESPECT ME AND MY BOUNDARIES, AND WE’LL GET ALONG. CROSS THEM, GET WEIRD, GET SEXUAL, OR GET DISRESPECTFUL, AND YOU’RE DONE. 🖤💗
