BDSM Dating in Columbia Heights

I haven't explored my submissive side much, but I'm looking for a soft female Dom (preferably a Mommy Dom but doesn't have to be) to gently guide me. I'm mostly looking for cuddles, kisses, praise and reassurance, but if the atmosphere is there I wouldn't mind things going sexual. I'm very obedient and not at all bratty. No hard Doms please, I do not respond well to that.