New here but not new to the community. I'm not looking for a 24/7 anything at this point. Yes, I'm open to a relationship but I want to date and have fun until WE decide to enter into one. BDSM is creative FOREPLAY in my book and not the "end all/be all" many believe it to be. I'm looking for 1 woman who enjoys kinking things up a notch or 2, or 10, or 50 but before the night, day or session is over...... We both want out happy ending. lol