BDSM Dating in Merchantville

Looking for an attractive man - late 20s to 30s - to be in a relationship with. I want to go on fun dates together, raspberry picking, sunflower picking, the beach, road trips, pool parties, fancy dinners etc and I want to be consensually and respectfully disciplined and rewarded. I want someone with patience, as a girl with trauma, who can actually provide and take care of me. A real dominant, provider man who can take care of things, take charge, and handle situations - but not controlling.