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I find it pretty wild how many messages Ive gotten based on looks and a profile name alone. Most of them I will not give much attention to unless they respond to this post. Since theres no written about me section or what im looking for, here goes:

Keeping my identity hidden for work but will send pics if I like you! (Not actually ginger, thats a wig) Dominant in my day to day but crave submission, Im a brat until you tame me with pleasure and . Been in the lifestyle for 7 years and am tired of fleeting/inexperienced play partners, ready for something real and 24/7. Daddy, Gentlemen and Pleasure Doms preferred, young, good looking and fit like me~size 👑 in the 🍑 lover, big 💦 Service oriented, team player 👀 ABDL aftercare, love having an online/long distance component as well but someone local is necessary for the amount of attention I want.

I am looking for long term ownership but of course there is always a trial period, on both sides. If you dont have the amount of experience that I do or more I wont submit to you. Please be trauma sensitive, emotionally available and sane but into the extreme. I love and being used, into rough and dark but at the end of the day I am a feminist and you will not actually view me as less than. Poly and tons of aftercare is a must! And Know that I dont really see myself in this context, Im just trying to have fun with some fantasies like everyone else 😊