I’m just another burnt out gifted and talented submissive brat with a praise kink. Very much a newbie to the lifestyle but eager to learn.
I've always kind of had an inkling that I was on the kinkier side of the spectrum. Looking back at the books I read and the movies I watched when I was young, I definitely got butterflies when the villain tied up the hero, and things like that. I'm very interested in bondage, praise, some degradation, roleplay, edging, forced orgasm, eventually cnc with a partner that I trust implicitly. The list goes on. Hard limits are blood, permanent markings, and bodily fluids (outside the usual).
I'm kind of a brat, not in that I want to be punished, but in that I want to fight back a little bit before being dominated. I have to be in control of too many aspects of my day-to-day life, and my greatest desire is to give all of that up.
Outside of kink I’m a librarian, so I do love to read. I play DnD every week, go to a lot of concerts and plays, and would be on the beach every waking moment if I could.
What I'm looking for:
At this time in my life and my journey of self-discovery, I'm looking for someone specific. If you don't fit into this mold, I ask in the kindest possible way that you don't waste either of our time.
I'm looking for an experienced dominant, one person with whom I can create a dynamic. I'm not necessarily looking for anything long-term, but I'm also not looking for one-time play. I want to learn what I like from someone who knows what they're doing, and continue to learn over a period of time.
I'm looking for someone who generally fits the parameters of a soft dom, a pleasure dom, an affectionate dom, a daddy dom (no ageplay), etc. Looking for praise, and maybe a tiny bit of degradation. Looking for someone who doesn't mind a little bit of fighting back but who is capable of taking full control.
And of course, I'm looking for someone safe, sane and consensual, who is going to take the time to be vetted and go over limits before anything happens. I'm looking for someone who is regularly tested, clean and vaccinated.
What I'm not looking for:
Right now, I'm not looking for couples or anyone over the age of 45. I'm not looking for one-time hookups. I'm not looking for anyone just starting out or inexperienced. I'm not looking for someone lacking in confidence who needs me to boost their ego every time we chat.
I'm not looking for someone who will simply message me something like "hey" or "nice pics". On the opposite end of the spectrum, I'm not interested in someone who comes straight out of the gate with "I can't wait to choke you with my horse cock". If those are your pickup lines, please see your way out.
If you've messaged me before and you fit these parameters, please shoot your shot again. I've had a hard time weeding through the people that I have no interest in, and that unfortunately it makes it hard to find the diamond in the rough.
