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I am 5'6, bratty, I love to push buttons, and me and my husband are looking for someone very dominant to have a threesome with here and there. Brownie points if your tall, a biker, and very dominant.
Female (20) Albuquerque, New Mexico
I've been in the lifestyle a year and a half, but haven't had much luck in learning anything expect from reading
Female (40) Deming, New Mexico
I have been in The Scene for almost a decade now and am currently a predominantly Domme Switch. I take Domming as a responsibility and see someone's submission as the gift and honor that it is, I do not accept it from those I do not deem worthy. I have gotten too many messages with nothing in them but an offer to serve for them to interest me, if you want a response, intrigue me. Everybody has a body to offer, I am after an exceptional mind, a beautiful body is just a bonus. "I can care, or I can not care" The choice I give them all, What would you choose? I have two modes, one is similar to the me that won't let you leave without feeding you, I can care, And you are my top priority, Your safety and pleasure in my hands is treasured, I relish taking you to the zenith, And catching you when you fall. Or I can not care, Where My pleasure is the priority, And my pleasure is the music. Where I am the Musician, And you are the Instrument, And I see what sounds you can make. Whether they be the sweet mewls and groans as I rake my claws down your back, Or the symphony of screams that comes of being truly *** in my grasp, Every sound you can't hold back is my zenith, and when you no longer want to hold them back, It is a crescendo.
Female (31) Tucumcari, New Mexico
I’m a strong, confident woman who enjoys taking the lead where it truly matters—in the bedroom. My dominance is intimate, intentional, and focused on creating deep sexual chemistry, not controlling your daily life. Outside the bedroom I’m balanced, warm, and expect mutual respect. Behind closed doors, I expect a man who can let go, follow direction, and respond to my pace and my touch. Feel to communicate with at American online at domimalesliehp
Female (42) Albuquerque, New Mexico
Active Boxer, Search & Rescue Volunteer, In Training Firefighting Volunteer, Mountain Biker, Caver, Mountaineer, Climber
Female (32) Albuquerque, New Mexico
Please read carefully and understand. I cant respond to ***s or flirts but would like to talk with you.217 times 412 moment in a day of 2206 years A wise, intelligent and serious Man will put the numbers together and contact me by txt .look forward to hear from you.
Female (52) Albuquerque, New Mexico
looking for some fun ppl to talk to☺️ dont be afraid to hmu im into everything (dont be afriad to ask), very submissive and would love to have a very dominant master☺️😘
Female (20) Taos, New Mexico
I'm in a polycule with my husband of eight years. Right now I'm mostly just looking around and seeing what connections happen naturally. If something grows, great; if not, I'm totally happy making new friends too. I love deep conversations just as much as silly rambling about nothing at all. Movies, books, anime, basically I'm a spooky little nerd with too many interests and not enough time. Ask me what my favorite video game or book is at the moment and I’ll talk your ear off. I'm not into hookup culture. I'm a bit chubby, have a couple minor health quirks, and I'm just looking for people who enjoy genuine connection, good vibes, and maybe a shared love of the weird and cozy. For some reason the app won't let me upload my pictures! 🥺 So pics on Match.
Female (27) Deming, New Mexico
Your favorite disaster. Message me which color best matches you👇 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️ Idk what I’m looking for aside from trouble. 😈 I specialize in key holder domination.🔒For everyone else, I can’t get pregnant but that shouldn’t stop you from trying. 💦 I’m a switch that can dom or sub. I’m into: ❤️ Free Use 🧡 Rope Play 💛 Breeding 💚 Chastity 🤍 Power Play / *** 💙 Leather 💜 Femdom 🖤 Sissification
Female (36) Albuquerque, New Mexico
I'm just a big ole girl looking for folks who are interested in stuff I'm into. I've got some pretty wild fetishes (I think so anyways.) so who knows. don't feel shy to message me! but don't be creepy in my dms please, I type with personality and would like more than dry responses to stuff I say or someone just looking for a hookup. at least say hi and stuff first. I'm not looking for men double or triple my age. Also I am RIDDLED with anxiety so like, don't expect much the first go around.
Female (21) Carlsbad, New Mexico
Equal parts sweet, sarcastic, and waiting for Daddy to put me in my place. 😇 I’m a submissive at heart who loves pushing buttons just enough to see what happens. Looking for a dominant presence who can handle a bad girl phase with a firm hand, clear communication, and plenty of praise.
Female (25) Albuquerque, New Mexico
confident and comfortable with myself and others. Erotic and exciting. I like to engage all the senses full body stimulation is life! Down for a pleasurable experience…I’m always ready *** I can not host!!! Preferences: I like my pussy ate 👅 I am a PEG QUEEN 🍆 👑 *No anal( ya just be sad about it) Oral( Mandatory!!!) I like to get ate out “first things first …which means you go first then I’ll reciprocate accordingly😉; I am not one to kiss during or after oral unless in the rare case we are well established period -very limited exceptions here both ways I DO eat pussy 💋 Who ever eats pussy like it’s the last rights meal!!! YOU WIN😝 ME Traits: Honest (Brutally and to the extent that I get myself in trouble constantly 🤣) Freaky(Trust I will most likely trump or match your freak vibe easy peasy) Fun/Playfull(Why so serious 🤨) Naughty(“Sorry not Sorry!” I was indeed born this way) Passionate (Get to know me and you’ll see just how much) High sex drive( it is what it is Y’all 😏) Intense energy( I am who I am 🥰 no apologies …. I get that I might be for everyone and that’s perfectly okay 👍🏼) *Alpha Dom female is my position (the scale back is minimal…I have only ever Mid-level submitted to ANYONE!) I am Bold , Straight Forward 420 Friendly and light drinks We have all been thru shit but I’m not tellin you my fuckin life story day 1 😑 *If you *** me off I am the “Block Queen” LOL QUEEN: A Queen always knows her value and will always know if she is valued by others I want you to want me to I am very not shy so if “you want” to talk to me do so either on here, in person or at an event ….Don’t be shy with me 😁 If I submit to “You” then you are “My” KING!!! I will only *ASK/TELL/REQUEST/DEMAND/WARN ONCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You think you love me but DON’T- DON’T fall for me cuz you won’t hear “my bad “ from this BITCH! You might hear “your mistake “ jus sayin😏 If you don’t care for me 👍🏼 It’s cool chances are the feelings are mutual 😘😘😘 Schedule: Me Mondays Titty Tuesdays (Duh) Whatever Wednesdays 😝 Thirsty Thursdays 💦💦💦 Friend Fridays 😁 Sexy Saturdays ⭐️ *** Sundays 💜(Fam) NO # exchange until after we meet (THANKS) If you are still waiting to meet me and I am still communicating with you then there’s probably some hope still …either way “your choice “how long you decide to wait for me cuz absolutely NO guarantees Things I am interested in exploring more: Nipclips Electric play Butt plug(Maybe?) Light bondage(hands behind back, blind fold) * Safe Sex Standards—I test regularly (3months when active) and have clean results as if 07/27/2026 *** Please take note of these —(*) —key points they are important ! If you are still here after all that BS! Let’s chat LOL
Female (50) Albuquerque, New Mexico
I am a 5’2, 100lb, female, and I would like to be gang banged by some men!
Female (23) Albuquerque, New Mexico
I made it my goal in August of 2025 to expierence everything I've always fantasized about. 🤤 So I figured that I might as well share it to the world. If it makes me happy, its bound to make someone else happy as well. Exploring the fun of the kink lifestyle after years of being vanilla and let me tell you, I couldn't be having a better time. and I’m only looking to continue the kinky, sexy fun and keep learning what I love and also learn the things I don’t enjoy as much. 💋The kink world has opened me up to be such a confident woman and I couldn't be happier about that💋 I’m looking for someone or maybe even a group of men who know how to dominate me and make me feel like I have no control.
Female (27) Albuquerque, New Mexico
in a full sub, i enjoy being tied up, rough, some ***, and anything where im being controlled. wanting a daddy dom/BBC
Female (27) Albuquerque, New Mexico
I'm new to this stuff. Right now my tastes are very mild. I'm curious about exploring the sub and brat roles.
Female (45) Albuquerque, New Mexico
polyamorous bookworm that wants to get railed while we watch your favorite movie. give me forehead kisses after and tell me I’m good. I’ll only be attracted to you long term if you’re witty and smart. you don’t have to love books- but love YOUR STUFF. I’ll always want to hear your info dump, then hold me down and give me a facial
Female (28) Albuquerque, New Mexico
I’m Mars, I’m 20 years old and exploring myself and my sexual side. I am bisexual with a primary interest in women. Outside of that, I enjoy acting, writing, and hiking. I’m an *** lover, music enjoyer, and tattoo/piercing fanatic
Female (20) Albuquerque, New Mexico
message me please. I will text back when I am on here. we are a couple looking for like minded people to potentially get to know and play with. I am bi and my husband is straight. it is just me on this app but I do talk to my husband about what is going over on this app.
Female (28) Kirtland, New Mexico
Tansi. 🍁 Solid in who I am, entirely unbothered by "normal," and prone to accidental Disney-princess moments with ***s. I’m here for genuine intellectual stimulation. If you can’t hold a deep, challenging conversation or match my wit, we won't click. Practicing ENM/poly. I value autonomy, radical honesty, and partners who possess a secure, complete sense of self. 🖤
Female (26) Roswell, New Mexico
Just exploring this I have the original FetLife on my phone so this is interesting for sure! Always ready to meet new people and make friends
Female (33) Ruidoso Downs, New Mexico
Single, pan, submissive, and a rope bunny. ISO a consistent partner, preferably someone of the other side of the kinky coin. Looking for connections and affections, genuine long lasting friendships instead of ONS. I’m into rough play, d/s dynamics, bondage, impact, and rope of course. If it’s kinky, I’m in. I’m open to one on ones or couples (solo or together). Got a friend? Tag them in 🖐️ Let’s chat and see where it takes us!
Female (31) Clovis, New Mexico
I am very submissive when it comes to the bedroom I am open for sexting and then maybe meeting up.
Female (36) Las Cruces, New Mexico
just looking for conversation, maybe some online roleplay. anyone feel like sponsoring me in my favorite game on my phone? 🤣 meetups are unlikely but I enjoy thinking about it. single mom life x2 I have too much going on in life for more. I don't drink or smoke, don't mind if you do just don't be an ass I love talking to people on here, but I'm shy in real life. I'm absolutely not sending pics or vids unless I feel like it, don't ask. don't assume you're the only one I'm talking to, even if we move from here to another chat option 🤷🏻‍♀️ In the end, I belong to myself, always. but online roleplay is fun 😜 🤭 just remember... it's a roleplay.. I'm a busy bee 🐝 all day everyday. I'll respond when I can, if I can, how I can. I hate to sound callus, it just is what it is, for my own sanity haha if we've talked before, hello again 😊❤️
Female (32) Las Cruces, New Mexico

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I am 5'6, bratty, I love to push buttons, and me and my husband are looking for someone very dominant to have a threesome with here and there. Brownie points if your tall, a biker, and very dominant.
Female (20) Albuquerque, New Mexico
Please read carefully and understand. I cant respond to ***s or flirts but would like to talk with you.217 times 412 moment in a day of 2206 years A wise, intelligent and serious Man will put the numbers together and contact me by txt .look forward to hear from you.
Female (52) Albuquerque, New Mexico
I’m a strong, confident woman who enjoys taking the lead where it truly matters—in the bedroom. My dominance is intimate, intentional, and focused on creating deep sexual chemistry, not controlling your daily life. Outside the bedroom I’m balanced, warm, and expect mutual respect. Behind closed doors, I expect a man who can let go, follow direction, and respond to my pace and my touch. Feel to communicate with at American online at domimalesliehp
Female (42) Albuquerque, New Mexico
I'm in a polycule with my husband of eight years. Right now I'm mostly just looking around and seeing what connections happen naturally. If something grows, great; if not, I'm totally happy making new friends too. I love deep conversations just as much as silly rambling about nothing at all. Movies, books, anime, basically I'm a spooky little nerd with too many interests and not enough time. Ask me what my favorite video game or book is at the moment and I’ll talk your ear off. I'm not into hookup culture. I'm a bit chubby, have a couple minor health quirks, and I'm just looking for people who enjoy genuine connection, good vibes, and maybe a shared love of the weird and cozy. For some reason the app won't let me upload my pictures! 🥺 So pics on Match.
Female (27) Deming, New Mexico
looking for some fun ppl to talk to☺️ dont be afraid to hmu im into everything (dont be afriad to ask), very submissive and would love to have a very dominant master☺️😘
Female (20) Taos, New Mexico
I've been in the lifestyle a year and a half, but haven't had much luck in learning anything expect from reading
Female (40) Deming, New Mexico
I have been in The Scene for almost a decade now and am currently a predominantly Domme Switch. I take Domming as a responsibility and see someone's submission as the gift and honor that it is, I do not accept it from those I do not deem worthy. I have gotten too many messages with nothing in them but an offer to serve for them to interest me, if you want a response, intrigue me. Everybody has a body to offer, I am after an exceptional mind, a beautiful body is just a bonus. "I can care, or I can not care" The choice I give them all, What would you choose? I have two modes, one is similar to the me that won't let you leave without feeding you, I can care, And you are my top priority, Your safety and pleasure in my hands is treasured, I relish taking you to the zenith, And catching you when you fall. Or I can not care, Where My pleasure is the priority, And my pleasure is the music. Where I am the Musician, And you are the Instrument, And I see what sounds you can make. Whether they be the sweet mewls and groans as I rake my claws down your back, Or the symphony of screams that comes of being truly *** in my grasp, Every sound you can't hold back is my zenith, and when you no longer want to hold them back, It is a crescendo.
Female (31) Tucumcari, New Mexico
Active Boxer, Search & Rescue Volunteer, In Training Firefighting Volunteer, Mountain Biker, Caver, Mountaineer, Climber
Female (32) Albuquerque, New Mexico
looking for my *** and my kinky mf that love to spoil and make me wet doing it 💋💦if your legit and interested *** me $maria21099 with your snap or number
Female (28) Albuquerque, New Mexico
I'm just a big ole girl looking for folks who are interested in stuff I'm into. I've got some pretty wild fetishes (I think so anyways.) so who knows. don't feel shy to message me! but don't be creepy in my dms please, I type with personality and would like more than dry responses to stuff I say or someone just looking for a hookup. at least say hi and stuff first. I'm not looking for men double or triple my age. Also I am RIDDLED with anxiety so like, don't expect much the first go around.
Female (21) Carlsbad, New Mexico
Your favorite disaster. Message me which color best matches you👇 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️ Idk what I’m looking for aside from trouble. 😈 I specialize in key holder domination.🔒For everyone else, I can’t get pregnant but that shouldn’t stop you from trying. 💦 I’m a switch that can dom or sub. I’m into: ❤️ Free Use 🧡 Rope Play 💛 Breeding 💚 Chastity 🤍 Power Play / *** 💙 Leather 💜 Femdom 🖤 Sissification
Female (36) Albuquerque, New Mexico
in a full sub, i enjoy being tied up, rough, some ***, and anything where im being controlled. wanting a daddy dom/BBC
Female (27) Albuquerque, New Mexico
Tansi. 🍁 Solid in who I am, entirely unbothered by "normal," and prone to accidental Disney-princess moments with ***s. I’m here for genuine intellectual stimulation. If you can’t hold a deep, challenging conversation or match my wit, we won't click. Practicing ENM/poly. I value autonomy, radical honesty, and partners who possess a secure, complete sense of self. 🖤
Female (26) Roswell, New Mexico
polyamorous bookworm that wants to get railed while we watch your favorite movie. give me forehead kisses after and tell me I’m good. I’ll only be attracted to you long term if you’re witty and smart. you don’t have to love books- but love YOUR STUFF. I’ll always want to hear your info dump, then hold me down and give me a facial
Female (28) Albuquerque, New Mexico
Seeing what this app is about. Maybe you'll excite me enough to stay? ;) Very curious, very little experience. Let's change that?
Female (26) Bernalillo, New Mexico
I am a newly single mom of a ***ager who is looking to explore my submissive side.
Female (46) Albuquerque, New Mexico
I am a 5’2, 100lb, female, and I would like to be gang banged by some men!
Female (23) Albuquerque, New Mexico
I'm new to kink and BDSM. I have no experience because I was in a very vanilla relationship for 15 years and want to learn what I like and what my limits are.
Female (45) Albuquerque, New Mexico
Luna 🐾 • 24 • She / Her • College Student 🌙 Hiya! 🪴 Looking to make more friends in the BDSM community! A little about me I’m an artist, seamstress, and I’m in college! I really wanna get to know others and maybe help myself in areas within connecting to being my true puppy self along with how I can create a more Dom/Sub dynamic with my partner! ✨ I love TØP, DC, MLP, and Transformers! 🐕 I’m in a CLOSED relationship! 💕
Female (24) Albuquerque, New Mexico
I'm new to this stuff. Right now my tastes are very mild. I'm curious about exploring the sub and brat roles.
Female (45) Albuquerque, New Mexico
I’m a Model and Artist. I make lots of Balloon Popping Content on TikTok (Username HRGigarfield) I also do tattoos. I enjoy being dominate and having *** spent on me. I require being worshipped and taken care of emotionally and financially. I love getting dressed up and making content.
Female (33) Carlsbad, New Mexico
I am very submissive when it comes to the bedroom I am open for sexting and then maybe meeting up.
Female (36) Las Cruces, New Mexico
I made it my goal in August of 2025 to expierence everything I've always fantasized about. 🤤 So I figured that I might as well share it to the world. If it makes me happy, its bound to make someone else happy as well. Exploring the fun of the kink lifestyle after years of being vanilla and let me tell you, I couldn't be having a better time. and I’m only looking to continue the kinky, sexy fun and keep learning what I love and also learn the things I don’t enjoy as much. 💋The kink world has opened me up to be such a confident woman and I couldn't be happier about that💋 I’m looking for someone or maybe even a group of men who know how to dominate me and make me feel like I have no control.
Female (27) Albuquerque, New Mexico
rubber fetishist & impregnable fat slut. if you aren’t functionally literate you can still pick up a dictionary before saying some dumb, blockable stuff in my DMs.
Female (32) Albuquerque, New Mexico

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