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I’m a very open minded person willing to try everything once and ready to explore the best pleasures in life
Female (26) Albuquerque, New Mexico
*your first message better not include a picture of your dick or mention your size. but it shall include something to peak my interest. Or fuck off.* I am a sexy, dominant, married woman. I am on here looking for 2 things and 2 things only- 1- Intelligent conversation about kink and femdom. I am new to being the domme in terms of kink play and am married to a sick, twisted, but attractive submissive little slave boy. Any experienced dommes or even subs are welcome to message me. 2- To reward my bitch boy by letting him watch me cuck him with a woman or even a bull if he's being punished. He is such a slut that he frequently requires punishment lol. This would be 100% casual, not looking for a bf
Female (38) Las Cruces, New Mexico
Are you ready to let go of control and simply enjoy the experience? As a Mistress, I offer a safe, respectful, and judgment-free space where you can explore your submissive side at your own pace. I’m confident and naturally take the lead, but I’m also caring, attentive, and always mindful of your comfort. Communication and trust are important to me, and I’ll respect your boundaries while making sure you feel safe and understood throughout. My approach is firm when needed, but always compassionate. I want you to feel comfortable enough to relax, let go, and truly enjoy the experience. If you’re curious about exploring your desires with someone who knows how to lead while still making your well-being a priority, I’d love to hear from you.
Female (31) Clovis, New Mexico
I am a 29 year old female I love the color pink! soft squishy things are my safe place I’m looking for a long term partner!
Female (30) Clovis, New Mexico
im the Avarage white woman i guess im definitely into trying new things and have recently joined the Escorting crowd and I must say I really love ❤️ The $ the comes with escorting
Female (48) Albuquerque, New Mexico
Hello! First things first, I am Demisexual. Which means absolutely NO HOOKUPS! I’m a middle looking for an attentive, caring Daddy or Caregiver. I love my adult independence, but I’m looking for a dynamic where I can switch off my brain, be ***, and let a Caregiver take the lead. For me, being a middle looks like coloring, cozying up for movie nights, lots of cuddles, and thriving under gentle rules and lots of praise. Because exploring this side of myself feels a little scary, I haven't fully let myself dive into it yet. I need someone incredibly patient who is willing to build a foundation of safety first. Looking for a connection built entirely on trust and open communication.
Female (26) Farmington, New Mexico
Hedonistic, ENM submissive looking for LOCAL play partners (I am open to something monogamous if the right person came along but they haven't yet lol). I love servicing men, women, and couples. Looking to organize a gangbang and/or be a sub for a couple/group. I prefer a princess/plaything dynamic where im absolutely spoiled outside the bedroom and completely owned and dominated behind closed doors. What is princess treatment? Nice dates, gifts, getting the door for me. It can be as simple as covering my coffee and offering your jacket if I'm cold or it can be as grand as a dozen roses, jewerly, and taking me on vacation. This is both foreplay and aftercare for me. What does being a plaything mean? Well, you can read the rest of my bio just fine ;) . I do not do one side of this without the other so please dont expect my submission just because you messaged me. Outside of sex, I like karaoke nights, shopping, spa days and movies!
Female (33) Albuquerque, New Mexico
I've been in the lifestyle a year and a half, but haven't had much luck in learning anything expect from reading
Female (40) Deming, New Mexico
Active Boxer, Search & Rescue Volunteer, In Training Firefighting Volunteer, Mountain Biker, Caver, Mountaineer, Climber
Female (32) Albuquerque, New Mexico
I am 5'6, bratty, I love to push buttons, and me and my husband are looking for someone very dominant to have a threesome with here and there. Brownie points if your tall, a biker, and very dominant.
Female (20) Albuquerque, New Mexico
I have been in The Scene for almost a decade now and am currently a predominantly Domme Switch. I take Domming as a responsibility and see someone's submission as the gift and honor that it is, I do not accept it from those I do not deem worthy. I have gotten too many messages with nothing in them but an offer to serve for them to interest me, if you want a response, intrigue me. Everybody has a body to offer, I am after an exceptional mind, a beautiful body is just a bonus. "I can care, or I can not care" The choice I give them all, What would you choose? I have two modes, one is similar to the me that won't let you leave without feeding you, I can care, And you are my top priority, Your safety and pleasure in my hands is treasured, I relish taking you to the zenith, And catching you when you fall. Or I can not care, Where My pleasure is the priority, And my pleasure is the music. Where I am the Musician, And you are the Instrument, And I see what sounds you can make. Whether they be the sweet mewls and groans as I rake my claws down your back, Or the symphony of screams that comes of being truly *** in my grasp, Every sound you can't hold back is my zenith, and when you no longer want to hold them back, It is a crescendo.
Female (31) Tucumcari, New Mexico
I'm in a polycule with my husband of eight years. Right now I'm mostly just looking around and seeing what connections happen naturally. If something grows, great; if not, I'm totally happy making new friends too. I love deep conversations just as much as silly rambling about nothing at all. Movies, books, anime, basically I'm a spooky little nerd with too many interests and not enough time. Ask me what my favorite video game or book is at the moment and I’ll talk your ear off. I'm not into hookup culture. I'm a bit chubby, have a couple minor health quirks, and I'm just looking for people who enjoy genuine connection, good vibes, and maybe a shared love of the weird and cozy. For some reason the app won't let me upload my pictures! 🥺 So pics on Match.
Female (27) Deming, New Mexico
maneee like my pics wtf 🙄 i’m a sweet heart but def got a fun side to me 😅😘 i like my men with meat on them😋i loveee big lips and facial hair, im 420 friendly so i’d hope so are you😶‍🌫️🤭 Ask me questions, get to know me and let’s have fun 😘🥴
Female (19) Carlsbad, New Mexico
rubber fetishist & impregnable fat slut. if you aren’t functionally literate you can still pick up a dictionary before saying some dumb, blockable stuff in my DMs. I find trying to initiate a D/s dialogue or dynamic through the internet extremely petulant and obnoxious, especially without offering tribute up front. @unholyvigil
Female (32) Albuquerque, New Mexico
I'm creative, especially into photography and production. Into nature, lover of hot springs and horny toads. I have plenty of interests and a few limits. What I want to know first is what you are most excited to try that you haven't and what your favorite thing you have tried is. Technically a switch but will not sub to most, especially most men.
Female (34) Albuquerque, New Mexico
I want explore, I want to be told what, when and how to do things. I love biting, hair pulling. I am open to things within reason. Tell me what you like. I am curvy but still fun!
Female (46) Belen, New Mexico
Fun ..lil bratty..."😅🤭
Female (50) Arenas Valley, New Mexico
Darling, I have a taste for the finer things: beautiful manners, intelligent conversation, genuine devotion, and attention that feels intentional. 💎 I’m a sophisticated Domme with a playful side and standards that are not easily negotiated. I’m looking for: respectful, generous-minded admirers who understand that my time and attention are valuable. I appreciate honesty, consistency, discretion, and people who know how to communicate their desires without forgetting their manners.
Female (32) Albuquerque, New Mexico
i am not on here often so please message me please. I will text back when I am on here. if you have another app that you talk on that would be cool too we mainly use Snapchat that’s the easiest for us. so please reach out. we are a couple looking for like minded people to potentially get to know and play with. I am bi and my husband is straight. it is just me on this app but I do talk to my husband about what is going over on this app.
Female (28) Kirtland, New Mexico
i enjoy being submissive and being tied up, rough, some ***, and anything where im being controlled. wanting a daddy dom/BBC
Female (27) Albuquerque, New Mexico
im 5’6 31 years old and weigh 207. I’m married but seeking a Dom. I’m a submissive brat so mist times I’ll do as I’m told but doesn’t mean I won’t complain while doing it lol. lastly I’m not looking for just hooking up to have sex.
Female (31) Albuquerque, New Mexico
Equal parts sweet, sarcastic, and waiting for Daddy to put me in my place. 😇 I’m a submissive at heart who loves pushing buttons just enough to see what happens. Looking for a dominant presence who can handle a bad girl phase with a firm hand, clear communication, and plenty of praise.
Female (25) Albuquerque, New Mexico
submissive brat - sensory deprivation, sensation play, wax play, impact play, bondage, breath play looking for a consistent patient dominant to lead
Female (56) Albuquerque, New Mexico
confident and comfortable with myself and others. Erotic and exciting. I like to engage all the senses full body stimulation is life! Down for a pleasurable experience…I’m always ready *** I can not host!!! Preferences: I like my pussy ate 👅 I am a PEG QUEEN 🍆 👑 *No anal( ya just be sad about it) Oral( Mandatory!!!) I like to get ate out “first things first …which means you go first then I’ll reciprocate accordingly😉; I am not one to kiss during or after oral unless in the rare case we are well established period -very limited exceptions here both ways I DO eat pussy 💋 Who ever eats pussy like it’s the last rights meal!!! YOU WIN😝 ME Traits: Honest (Brutally and to the extent that I get myself in trouble constantly 🤣) Freaky(Trust I will most likely trump or match your freak vibe easy peasy) Fun/Playfull(Why so serious 🤨) Naughty(“Sorry not Sorry!” I was indeed born this way) Passionate (Get to know me and you’ll see just how much) High sex drive( it is what it is Y’all 😏) Intense energy( I am who I am 🥰 no apologies …. I get that I might be for everyone and that’s perfectly okay 👍🏼) *Alpha Dom female is my position (the scale back is minimal…I have only ever Mid-level submitted to ANYONE!) I am Bold , Straight Forward 420 Friendly and light drinks We have all been thru shit but I’m not tellin you my fuckin life story day 1 😑 *If you *** me off I am the “Block Queen” LOL QUEEN: A Queen always knows her value and will always know if she is valued by others I want you to want me to I am very not shy so if “you want” to talk to me do so either on here, in person or at an event ….Don’t be shy with me 😁 If I submit to “You” then you are “My” KING!!! I will only *ASK/TELL/REQUEST/DEMAND/WARN ONCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You think you love me but DON’T- DON’T fall for me cuz you won’t hear “my bad “ from this BITCH! You might hear “your mistake “ jus sayin😏 If you don’t care for me 👍🏼 It’s cool chances are the feelings are mutual 😘😘😘 Schedule: Me Mondays Titty Tuesdays (Duh) Whatever Wednesdays 😝 Thirsty Thursdays 💦💦💦 Friend Fridays 😁 Sexy Saturdays ⭐️ *** Sundays 💜(Fam) NO # exchange until after we meet (THANKS) If you are still waiting to meet me and I am still communicating with you then there’s probably some hope still …either way “your choice “how long you decide to wait for me cuz absolutely NO guarantees Things I am interested in exploring more: Nipclips Electric play Butt plug(Maybe?) Light bondage(hands behind back, blind fold) * Safe Sex Standards—I test regularly (3months when active) and have clean results as if 07/27/2026 *** Please take note of these —(*) —key points they are important ! If you are still here after all that BS! Let’s chat LOL
Female (50) Albuquerque, New Mexico

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*your first message better not include a picture of your dick or mention your size. but it shall include something to peak my interest. Or fuck off.* I am a sexy, dominant, married woman. I am on here looking for 2 things and 2 things only- 1- Intelligent conversation about kink and femdom. I am new to being the domme in terms of kink play and am married to a sick, twisted, but attractive submissive little slave boy. Any experienced dommes or even subs are welcome to message me. 2- To reward my bitch boy by letting him watch me cuck him with a woman or even a bull if he's being punished. He is such a slut that he frequently requires punishment lol. This would be 100% casual, not looking for a bf
Female (38) Las Cruces, New Mexico
Hedonistic, ENM submissive looking for LOCAL play partners (I am open to something monogamous if the right person came along but they haven't yet lol). I love servicing men, women, and couples. Looking to organize a gangbang and/or be a sub for a couple/group. I prefer a princess/plaything dynamic where im absolutely spoiled outside the bedroom and completely owned and dominated behind closed doors. What is princess treatment? Nice dates, gifts, getting the door for me. It can be as simple as covering my coffee and offering your jacket if I'm cold or it can be as grand as a dozen roses, jewerly, and taking me on vacation. This is both foreplay and aftercare for me. What does being a plaything mean? Well, you can read the rest of my bio just fine ;) . I do not do one side of this without the other so please dont expect my submission just because you messaged me. Outside of sex, I like karaoke nights, shopping, spa days and movies!
Female (33) Albuquerque, New Mexico
Are you ready to let go of control and simply enjoy the experience? As a Mistress, I offer a safe, respectful, and judgment-free space where you can explore your submissive side at your own pace. I’m confident and naturally take the lead, but I’m also caring, attentive, and always mindful of your comfort. Communication and trust are important to me, and I’ll respect your boundaries while making sure you feel safe and understood throughout. My approach is firm when needed, but always compassionate. I want you to feel comfortable enough to relax, let go, and truly enjoy the experience. If you’re curious about exploring your desires with someone who knows how to lead while still making your well-being a priority, I’d love to hear from you.
Female (31) Clovis, New Mexico
Hello! First things first, I am Demisexual. Which means absolutely NO HOOKUPS! I’m a middle looking for an attentive, caring Daddy or Caregiver. I love my adult independence, but I’m looking for a dynamic where I can switch off my brain, be ***, and let a Caregiver take the lead. For me, being a middle looks like coloring, cozying up for movie nights, lots of cuddles, and thriving under gentle rules and lots of praise. Because exploring this side of myself feels a little scary, I haven't fully let myself dive into it yet. I need someone incredibly patient who is willing to build a foundation of safety first. Looking for a connection built entirely on trust and open communication.
Female (26) Farmington, New Mexico
I am a 29 year old female I love the color pink! soft squishy things are my safe place I’m looking for a long term partner!
Female (30) Clovis, New Mexico
I am 5'6, bratty, I love to push buttons, and me and my husband are looking for someone very dominant to have a threesome with here and there. Brownie points if your tall, a biker, and very dominant.
Female (20) Albuquerque, New Mexico
im the Avarage white woman i guess im definitely into trying new things and have recently joined the Escorting crowd and I must say I really love ❤️ The $ the comes with escorting
Female (48) Albuquerque, New Mexico
I'm in a polycule with my husband of eight years. Right now I'm mostly just looking around and seeing what connections happen naturally. If something grows, great; if not, I'm totally happy making new friends too. I love deep conversations just as much as silly rambling about nothing at all. Movies, books, anime, basically I'm a spooky little nerd with too many interests and not enough time. Ask me what my favorite video game or book is at the moment and I’ll talk your ear off. I'm not into hookup culture. I'm a bit chubby, have a couple minor health quirks, and I'm just looking for people who enjoy genuine connection, good vibes, and maybe a shared love of the weird and cozy. For some reason the app won't let me upload my pictures! 🥺 So pics on Match.
Female (27) Deming, New Mexico
I've been in the lifestyle a year and a half, but haven't had much luck in learning anything expect from reading
Female (40) Deming, New Mexico
I have been in The Scene for almost a decade now and am currently a predominantly Domme Switch. I take Domming as a responsibility and see someone's submission as the gift and honor that it is, I do not accept it from those I do not deem worthy. I have gotten too many messages with nothing in them but an offer to serve for them to interest me, if you want a response, intrigue me. Everybody has a body to offer, I am after an exceptional mind, a beautiful body is just a bonus. "I can care, or I can not care" The choice I give them all, What would you choose? I have two modes, one is similar to the me that won't let you leave without feeding you, I can care, And you are my top priority, Your safety and pleasure in my hands is treasured, I relish taking you to the zenith, And catching you when you fall. Or I can not care, Where My pleasure is the priority, And my pleasure is the music. Where I am the Musician, And you are the Instrument, And I see what sounds you can make. Whether they be the sweet mewls and groans as I rake my claws down your back, Or the symphony of screams that comes of being truly *** in my grasp, Every sound you can't hold back is my zenith, and when you no longer want to hold them back, It is a crescendo.
Female (31) Tucumcari, New Mexico
I’m a very open minded person willing to try everything once and ready to explore the best pleasures in life
Female (26) Albuquerque, New Mexico
Active Boxer, Search & Rescue Volunteer, In Training Firefighting Volunteer, Mountain Biker, Caver, Mountaineer, Climber
Female (32) Albuquerque, New Mexico
I'm creative, especially into photography and production. Into nature, lover of hot springs and horny toads. I have plenty of interests and a few limits. What I want to know first is what you are most excited to try that you haven't and what your favorite thing you have tried is. Technically a switch but will not sub to most, especially most men.
Female (34) Albuquerque, New Mexico
Fun ..lil bratty..."😅🤭
Female (50) Arenas Valley, New Mexico
Darling, I have a taste for the finer things: beautiful manners, intelligent conversation, genuine devotion, and attention that feels intentional. 💎 I’m a sophisticated Domme with a playful side and standards that are not easily negotiated. I’m looking for: respectful, generous-minded admirers who understand that my time and attention are valuable. I appreciate honesty, consistency, discretion, and people who know how to communicate their desires without forgetting their manners.
Female (32) Albuquerque, New Mexico
im 5’6 31 years old and weigh 207. I’m married but seeking a Dom. I’m a submissive brat so mist times I’ll do as I’m told but doesn’t mean I won’t complain while doing it lol. lastly I’m not looking for just hooking up to have sex.
Female (31) Albuquerque, New Mexico
On here looking to build my twitter following and meet new people. Plus size so please don’t hmu if you don’t like fat women! Tatted up men have my heart
Female (25) Clovis, New Mexico
maneee like my pics wtf 🙄 i’m a sweet heart but def got a fun side to me 😅😘 i like my men with meat on them😋i loveee big lips and facial hair, im 420 friendly so i’d hope so are you😶‍🌫️🤭 Ask me questions, get to know me and let’s have fun 😘🥴
Female (19) Carlsbad, New Mexico
39 Native American Female looking for a *** who needs someone to listen and possibly humiliate at times.
Female (39) Albuquerque, New Mexico
Sweet. Big personality. Follows directions well. 😉 I’m drawn to confident people who know what they want, communicate clearly, and understand that trust is what makes giving up a little control interesting in the first place. ENM + married. Here for chemistry, connection, exploration, and people who can make my brain light up.
Female (45) Albuquerque, New Mexico
Haii, I’m Xylina (Z-Eye-Lee-Nuh)! Soft-hearted with a little attitude 🤭 I love laughing until my stomach hurts, having deep conversations at random hours, and making the people I care about feel loved. I’m a big believer in effort, good communication, and finding someone who can be both my peace and my favorite person to be goofy with. Looking for something real, not perfect.
Female (22) Albuquerque, New Mexico
I want explore, I want to be told what, when and how to do things. I love biting, hair pulling. I am open to things within reason. Tell me what you like. I am curvy but still fun!
Female (46) Belen, New Mexico
Well, I was hoping to really to get to know someone on here. Open my world a little more and want to stay in it. But it looks like everyone here is looking for NSA...
Female (42) Los Alamos, New Mexico
I'm 33 yr old women that want to be happy and settle down with the that person that want the sane thing and looking for the same thing I'm looking for I want a king a best friend a man that knows I'm not going to give up on him like he won't give up on me I want us to have a understanding what we both want in this life time 💯 ❤️💓❤️‍🩹
Female (33) Albuquerque, New Mexico

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