
I am new to BDSM. I am a switch by nature. That said, most of the subs that catch my interest have sissy or fem kinks. There are several aspects of these kinks that really get me going; however, I start to have a disconnect when the sub doesn't want to engage in intercourse part of the time. If Read more… this happens, I lose interest in the dynamic. I will actually start thinking that if my physical needs that men can fill are not being met, I would be with an actual woman instead and receive the same thing. The problem is I am not interested in women. So, the root problem I run into is not being about to have both. Suggestions?