## Big Black Gay Dom Top | Harlem, NYC
** Hosts weekly in Harlem **
### ***It's all about communication.***
- I’m a Harlem-based marketing strategist, educator, and multidisciplinary leader—education, music, math, language, the arts—I’ve built and led across them all. I also run a Philly-based young adult music enrichment non-profit focused on vocal performance and community engagement.
(If you’re a young adult in Philly who sings, hit me up.)
I mostly speak in memes—though español y português come just as naturally.
### ***How I Play***
- I’m a dom top and kink generalist who builds scenes around power dynamics, pleasure, and intention. My *go-tos*—bondage, choking, edging, spanking, teasing, stretching, cum control, orgasm denial/ruining, roughness, implements, ***, ***, objectification—are a ***menu***, not a checklist. I tailor every session to the needs, limits, and energy of the guys involved. What matters most is that we’re in a group dynamic and I’m the one in charge.
That said, I love giving head and eating ass—and I'm exceptional at both. My house rule? The guest cums first; the host cums last. But don’t get it twisted: I’m still *the* dom and *a* top, every time.
### ***What I Bring***
- I host in Harlem most Fridays—if not every Friday night. Group sizes and make-up vary depending on *** free, but it's always a mix of returning partners and new connections—like you. Guys show up with all kinds of vibes—different positions, backgrounds, bodies, and identities. What they share is a respect for the setup and a willingness to follow the energy. If that’s you, you'll fit right in.
My space is fully stocked with toys, implements, restraints, gear, and wardrobe pieces for those who want to push, play, or transform, as well as sex furniture that keeps guys exactly where I want them. We don’t have to use it all—but we absolutely can.
### ***What I’m Looking For***
- I’m looking to expand my circle of kinky, reliable, consistent, communicative play partners—sub tops, vers switches, vers subs, and a few new sub bottoms—who are into group play and open to dynamics where I take control. Most of my current crew are sub bottoms, so if you're a top-leaning switch or a sub top who likes your hole played with and your orders clear, hit me up.
I’ve hosted everything from tag-team setups to full-on orgies. Some scenes lean heavier into kink, others are true high-intensity, high-volume fuckfests. The mix shifts, but I keep things organized, keep my newbies safe, and, *if guys show up on time*, keep the numbers balanced and cumshots well-paced. We'll go for hours or until mid-morning if more guys show, but when all the bottoms tap out or the tops run out of cum, we call it a night—you get the idea.
- I’m not a drinks-and-chat kind of guy (don't drink alcohol or coffee, actually, haha), but I *do* critically value consistency and clear communication.
### ***This is how I live:***
- Open and honest communication
- Positive and constructive feedback
- Put ups, no put-downs
### ***Reach Out***
I have full face pics behind the wall. So go ahead and send a message and request if you're in or coming to NYC. And I've got SO many NSFW pics I can share here or on other platforms.
- HIV-. STI/STD free.
- Last tested 9/26/25. On PrEP & Doxy.
- Fully COVID vaccinated and boosted
- Fully MPOX and HPV vaccinated
- Even got my flu shot, haha.
