Find kinky men in New York

Friendly, respectful, genuine guy here seeking deeper connections and sex-positive, mature friends. I'm told I have masculine, nice-guy energy and I seek that same friendly, kind, and open vibe in others. I am on this site to explore my fantasies and kinks a bit more with a like-minded community and to share some of the sexual knowlegde Ive gained over the years. I am also on FetLife and welcome messages there. My profile name there is "PatientHands". When it comes to bedroom fun, my kinks and interests are varied, but the things that drive me the most wild include: - **Giving Pleasure**: Im skilled (and very into) cock milking, prostate massage, and deepthroating experiences. I want my partner to just kick back and enjoy the attention I provide for however long they need. I also enjoy sharing what I've learned. - **CMNM (Clothed Male Nude Male)**: I love being the clothed friend who encourages my partner to strip nude while I remain clothed - in private and in unique places. This is easily one of my favorite dynamics. I welcome DMs from NM. - **Wingman**: I'd love a bi or str8, married or divorced, buddy who might appreciate having a sex-positive buddy like me. I can hold long conversations with no judgements.....and would always be willing to help you connect with women and build you up. I can subtly brag about you, so you don't have to! - **Role-Play**: This is new to me, but I really want to explore it more online to understand it better. I find myself drawn to men with older, masculine dad-energy. - **Identical Twin Brothers**: Fun and random fact....one of my biggest fantasies is to do any combination of the above to older identical twin brothers . Likely will never happen, but fun to think about! If you have an identical twin, you will have my immediate attention! So thats me and those are my big kinks. If you'd like to connect, message me with more about you and where our interests overlap! **IMPORTANT NOTE** While I really enjoy open and honest conversations about sex and fantasy, I am only interested in consensual and legal adult interactions and conversations.
Male (44) New York, New York
I’m Willard, but feel free to call me Will or - even simpler - “pig” 🐽 There’s a common misconception that pigs are dirty, and though I may have a somewhat dirty mind, I wouldn’t consider myself filthy! Like a real pig, I’m in tune with my emotions and would much rather be the companion of an affectionate Master, whether he sees me as a pet or livestock. I also like to eat!…Even if it puts me at a greater risk of ending up on the menu😅
Male (30) New York, New York
NYC-based, playful, curious, and here to make real connections. I love power dynamics, consensual ***, and being the bratty princess a man is eager to take care of. If spoiling, protecting, and worshipping excites you, we’ll get along. Respect, communication & boundaries first—always. let’s play 🙊
Male (23) New York, New York
trans man looking for more intense BDSM experiences! consistent doms preferred, but it’s not a requirement I’ve taken on many different submissive roles and enjoy a variety of styles of domination, verbal doms to the front please! I have a list of my interests and limits, just ask and I’ll provide (: communication and trust are foundational, don’t misgender me or be weird because I’m looking for more intense scenes, I’d love to negotiate them before meeting
Male (23) New York, New York
I’m open to ideas but I’m typically sub (whether top or bottom) always love to be rimmed, really enjoy people with tattoos (I have 13), for ws I’d prefer to be the receiver
Male (41) New York, New York
hello sir, fully submissive 25m good boy here desperate for a master to bound me up and play with me like a toy. love sadistic tickle ***, nonstop edging and denial, any and all bondage, sensory deprivation (gags, blindfolds, earplugs, hoods, etc.), nipple play, hypnosis, chastity, ***, ***, post cum ***, wedgies (yes i will wear tightey whiteys for you). open to lots, dominant verbal sirs and pleasure doms to the front. really love a man with gear to tie me up.
Male (25) New York, New York
A black Sub Bottom Looking to worship a guy that like guys. I am into masculine bros that like video games and movies. I want to a relationship where we can chill go to a park and goon after drinks. I love dudes in general so as long as you identify as a guy I am into you!
Male (32) New York, New York
older Italian BB bottom with a cum hungry ass that loves having my balls busted. Start out getting to know them, pull, squeeze, slap. Then punch and crush them… and after I popper up good and hard, bite and chew them. Into more, just ask.
Male (50) New York, New York
I always find this area difficult to describe.But what I can say is that I like my guys to be hairy with beards , it's a huge turn on for me i'm into a lot of things , so just ask if you want to get to know more
Male (35) New York, New York
nice easy going guy. looking for dom tops to service. sub btm here with chastity cage, love *** esp sph and looking to wear panties/lingerie and fem in bed.
Male (55) New York, New York
I am looking for a man who can become a soulmate for me. With whom I can talk and share any secrets. In a man, such traits as kindness, generosity and decency are important to me. I am looking for a man who will take care of me and protect me. I dream of meeting a man who will be able to become for me not only a loved one, but also a good friend and mentor. I want to be a real man for my partner
Male (35) New York, New York
I’m Vincent I love cats,skating,volleyball,cooking,baking,and more I want someone to dominate me
Male (19) New York, New York
twinky Latino, always striving to be the best boy and trusty sidekick. Very oral here, love to kiss, suck & swallow, and I love a juicy 🍑 happily taken so looking for uncomplicated fun with grown ass men. Open to all, no hang ups other than to rudeness. hmu guys, bros, dads, married, DL - you know you need a lil bro you can stuff 😈🤤
Male (36) New York, New York
Adventurous, open-minded, and always up for exploring new experiences, I enjoy a mix of excitement and relaxation, from spontaneous nights out to more intimate, intriguing encounters. I thrive in spaces where passion meets play, whether it’s through deep conversation, playful banter, or a bit of edge. Whether mild or wild, I’m all about mutual exploration, respect, and chemistry.
Male (41) New York, New York
Looking for a guy in the NYC/ NJ area down to get together once in awhile. Anyone out there with a vomit fetish? Would love to puke with someone.
Male (38) New York, New York
completely new and willing to explore more of myself, here are some details I like being under someone's control; dirty talk, collars, and fetishes like socks, spit, and chastity all excite me.
Male (20) New York, New York
52 y/o sub looking for fetish friends and kinky playmates. bdsm hierarchy headspace. enjoys using the word Sir.
Male (52) New York, New York
Slim twink(a bit fem) looking for another twink or twunk for fwb or sub/dom😈 Dick collector love to cage and own keys🔒 Let’s have a kinky fun😏 Latino or Asian Twink/Twunk +++ I’m switch and love doms too 🚫NOT into old, chubby, or bear🚫
Male (22) New York, New York

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Friendly, respectful, genuine guy here seeking deeper connections and sex-positive, mature friends. I'm told I have masculine, nice-guy energy and I seek that same friendly, kind, and open vibe in others. I am on this site to explore my fantasies and kinks a bit more with a like-minded community and to share some of the sexual knowlegde Ive gained over the years. I am also on FetLife and welcome messages there. My profile name there is "PatientHands". When it comes to bedroom fun, my kinks and interests are varied, but the things that drive me the most wild include: - **Giving Pleasure**: Im skilled (and very into) cock milking, prostate massage, and deepthroating experiences. I want my partner to just kick back and enjoy the attention I provide for however long they need. I also enjoy sharing what I've learned. - **CMNM (Clothed Male Nude Male)**: I love being the clothed friend who encourages my partner to strip nude while I remain clothed - in private and in unique places. This is easily one of my favorite dynamics. I welcome DMs from NM. - **Wingman**: I'd love a bi or str8, married or divorced, buddy who might appreciate having a sex-positive buddy like me. I can hold long conversations with no judgements.....and would always be willing to help you connect with women and build you up. I can subtly brag about you, so you don't have to! - **Role-Play**: This is new to me, but I really want to explore it more online to understand it better. I find myself drawn to men with older, masculine dad-energy. - **Identical Twin Brothers**: Fun and random fact....one of my biggest fantasies is to do any combination of the above to older identical twin brothers . Likely will never happen, but fun to think about! If you have an identical twin, you will have my immediate attention! So thats me and those are my big kinks. If you'd like to connect, message me with more about you and where our interests overlap! **IMPORTANT NOTE** While I really enjoy open and honest conversations about sex and fantasy, I am only interested in consensual and legal adult interactions and conversations.
Male (44) New York, New York
I’m Willard, but feel free to call me Will or - even simpler - “pig” 🐽 There’s a common misconception that pigs are dirty, and though I may have a somewhat dirty mind, I wouldn’t consider myself filthy! Like a real pig, I’m in tune with my emotions and would much rather be the companion of an affectionate Master, whether he sees me as a pet or livestock. I also like to eat!…Even if it puts me at a greater risk of ending up on the menu😅
Male (30) New York, New York
A black Sub Bottom Looking to worship a guy that like guys. I am into masculine bros that like video games and movies. I want to a relationship where we can chill go to a park and goon after drinks. I love dudes in general so as long as you identify as a guy I am into you!
Male (32) New York, New York
52 y/o sub looking for fetish friends and kinky playmates. bdsm hierarchy headspace. enjoys using the word Sir.
Male (52) New York, New York
Slim twink(a bit fem) looking for another twink or twunk for fwb or sub/dom😈 Dick collector love to cage and own keys🔒 Let’s have a kinky fun😏 Latino or Asian Twink/Twunk +++ I’m switch and love doms too 🚫NOT into old, chubby, or bear🚫
Male (22) New York, New York
hello sir, fully submissive 25m good boy here desperate for a master to bound me up and play with me like a toy. love sadistic tickle ***, nonstop edging and denial, any and all bondage, sensory deprivation (gags, blindfolds, earplugs, hoods, etc.), nipple play, hypnosis, chastity, ***, ***, post cum ***, wedgies (yes i will wear tightey whiteys for you). open to lots, dominant verbal sirs and pleasure doms to the front. really love a man with gear to tie me up.
Male (25) New York, New York
I’m Vincent I love cats,skating,volleyball,cooking,baking,and more I want someone to dominate me
Male (19) New York, New York
I’m open to ideas but I’m typically sub (whether top or bottom) always love to be rimmed, really enjoy people with tattoos (I have 13), for ws I’d prefer to be the receiver
Male (41) New York, New York
twinky Latino, always striving to be the best boy and trusty sidekick. Very oral here, love to kiss, suck & swallow, and I love a juicy 🍑 happily taken so looking for uncomplicated fun with grown ass men. Open to all, no hang ups other than to rudeness. hmu guys, bros, dads, married, DL - you know you need a lil bro you can stuff 😈🤤
Male (36) New York, New York
I always find this area difficult to describe.But what I can say is that I like my guys to be hairy with beards , it's a huge turn on for me i'm into a lot of things , so just ask if you want to get to know more
Male (35) New York, New York
I am looking for a man who can become a soulmate for me. With whom I can talk and share any secrets. In a man, such traits as kindness, generosity and decency are important to me. I am looking for a man who will take care of me and protect me. I dream of meeting a man who will be able to become for me not only a loved one, but also a good friend and mentor. I want to be a real man for my partner
Male (35) New York, New York
NYC-based, playful, curious, and here to make real connections. I love power dynamics, consensual ***, and being the bratty princess a man is eager to take care of. If spoiling, protecting, and worshipping excites you, we’ll get along. Respect, communication & boundaries first—always. let’s play 🙊
Male (23) New York, New York
trans man looking for more intense BDSM experiences! consistent doms preferred, but it’s not a requirement I’ve taken on many different submissive roles and enjoy a variety of styles of domination, verbal doms to the front please! I have a list of my interests and limits, just ask and I’ll provide (: communication and trust are foundational, don’t misgender me or be weird because I’m looking for more intense scenes, I’d love to negotiate them before meeting
Male (23) New York, New York
completely new and willing to explore more of myself, here are some details I like being under someone's control; dirty talk, collars, and fetishes like socks, spit, and chastity all excite me.
Male (20) New York, New York
Adventurous, open-minded, and always up for exploring new experiences, I enjoy a mix of excitement and relaxation, from spontaneous nights out to more intimate, intriguing encounters. I thrive in spaces where passion meets play, whether it’s through deep conversation, playful banter, or a bit of edge. Whether mild or wild, I’m all about mutual exploration, respect, and chemistry.
Male (41) New York, New York
Looking for a guy in the NYC/ NJ area down to get together once in awhile. Anyone out there with a vomit fetish? Would love to puke with someone.
Male (38) New York, New York
older Italian BB bottom with a cum hungry ass that loves having my balls busted. Start out getting to know them, pull, squeeze, slap. Then punch and crush them… and after I popper up good and hard, bite and chew them. Into more, just ask.
Male (50) New York, New York
nice easy going guy. looking for dom tops to service. sub btm here with chastity cage, love *** esp sph and looking to wear panties/lingerie and fem in bed.
Male (55) New York, New York

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