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Submissive Bbw looking for a relationship with her Dom. I'm looking for my best friend, lover, partner, companion and my Sir. I'm looking for someone to guide me through the lifestyle. I have never been " trained" and have only recently begun to explore the lifestyle although I have been interested for 30 years. I have always had vanilla boyfriends and spouses. Looking for my one to take me to the next adventure in life... I go by Jennifer not Jenn...but Jenniferfrog doesn't have the same flow...lol.....for those I didn't answer a chat...NOT CURRENTLY LOOKING AS AN OPPORTUNITY HAS COME TO ME IN MY AREA....
I’m looking a mutually beneficial relationship. I’m a switch and a babygirl looking for her daddy to spoil her.
**Desires and Fantasies**
It's a secret
Looking to connect with someone to fill my very little free time. I am Interested in exploring a more D/s role with someone more experienced or want to learn together but I also very much enjoy primal and sensory play. Open to trying new kinks, very few hard limits I’ve found yet. I’m an open book, just ask 🙃
I am not here for your late night I’m bored come fuck me—sorry boys. I am interested in actually exploring sexual fantasies and kinks not just a quick fix for you.
I am in an open relationship and am only looking to supplement that. Meaning kinky fun that includes him, or solo. ENM, NSA. No drama. I'm not here for a booty call or hook ups.
Under age 25? You are enough. The world is a tough place, good luck out there. Go touch grass, I'm not for you.
So think carefully before you message me. Vibes are reflected. How our conversation progresses will depend entirely on how you enter my DMs. If I block you, learn the lesson.
Been into kink for many years, mostly interested in sensory play (or deprivation), orgasm control (denial/edging), some impact play. Naturally a switch. Eclectic and willing to experiment with the right person. I'm attracted to humans and need trust and connection. If you aren't willing to take time to make that happened, then I'm not for you.
40-something | Introvert | ISFJ | Lover of Plants, ***s, Coffee, Books, All Things Green, Butterflies and Rainbows | Caramel is better than Chocolate | Hair is overrated | Geeky | LGBTQ+ ally | Mental Health and Anxiety Awareness |
5 Foot, curvy, plus size girl with tattoos, a potty mouth, cheeky attitude and caffeine addiction on a weight loss journey. I am a parent with bills and a F/t job.
Yeah. I'm bald. I have medical conditions and I choose to shave it. Can't handle that? Move along.
actual person💖
no long distance, 100ish miles max
not looking for a pen pal at all
Abstinent by choice, looking to change that so no one over 6 inches just in case:)
single btw and have been for a while.
Just a lil freak out here proving bellies are sexy and kissing your friends is fun.
Heavily prioritizing queer connections. Picky about cis men, but shoot your shot.
My long-term partner and I are open and have fun separately. I'm not looking for a relationship or dating, just looking for casual fun and fwb. Wanna be best friends who kiss sometimes?
📍Rochester
🌈 Politically left and we won't get along if you're not
💉Vaxxed and regularly tested
Hello My Freaky Little Darlings (quoted from Skinner A League of Extraordinary Gentleman)
I have an overactive imagination, I love to read and write, so I have folders full of stories, fantasies, musings and ideas and would love to hear your feedback on them if and/or when I unscramble my brain enough to finish and then post them.
That being said I love good conversation and good company where we can bond over not just kinky but other stuff too. I enjoy listening to music, reading, and watching movies or tv shows, because of that I thoroughly enjoy comparing the books to their media adaptations and hearing others opinions and views on them as well.
But, I of course want to pick your deliciously dirty little minds and learn all those beautifully taboo secrets to better my writing.
And maybe if enough trust is built I would like to actually find a dom again and explore some of these wonderful things firsthand it really has been too long since I've been able to participate, I do miss it so...
Big Love BB
😘💕
P.S.
I'm hoping to write a Kinky Anthology and would really love to get some ideas and prompts from you all for it.
-When publishing here or anywhere it will always have your credit with it, for example per requested by (username or real name whichever you prefer) or Created for/with details provided by etc... unless you ask me not to.
-The short story or scene prompt can be vague or with a bunch of details you want to be included in it (such as place, even time of day, characters and if you want them to be referred to as generic he/she/they [although same gender couples or groups of many may become confusing if you don't give your characters names just saying], all the things you want to be used in said story [tools, toys, enhancements and props etc.] and any other important details you feel worth mentioning and yes we can discuss it further if need be.
-NO, I WILL NOT FEATURE IN YOUR STORY END OF DISCUSSION
TBC...maybe...
TODAY, 8/4, IS MY BIRTHDAY. PRESENT YOUR DICKS. IF I LIKE IT, I MIGHT EVEN TOUCH YOURS!!!!!!
listen. NONE OF YOU ARE EVEN WORTH MY TIME. You know, I hear all the damn time, about how great your dick is. it's not. I promise, your 2 minutes of mediocre bunny fuck, only had her screaming, cuz she wanted you off of her faster. I fuck better than you, and I'm disappointed already. prove me wrong. I've been off the apps for 3 fucking months and no improvement in any of you losers. if you're an actual local human with a real physical cock, that actually has provided at least one verifiable orgasm to a woman, bring it. otherwise I'm just gonna let you know what I honestly think. and your lil dic bitch boy ass isn't gonna like it. but you'll take it. because you know you want what I can give you. pathetic baby dic loser.
Looking to build friendships and beyond. Big lover of food, critters. and music. I have a boyfriend, but we're both open to explore :)
Domme🖤 In a poly relationship
I’m looking for an obedient sub. Men or women welcome. You’ll answer to me first, but depending on the dynamic, you may find yourself under his control too.
Be respectful. Be submissive. Earn my attention.
I am a plus size fart queen. I am looking to meet fart slaves that want to suck the stank from my stink hole. I am a Domme that knows what she wants when she wants it. and I want your face buried on my far ass
My name is Bek, or Beka. I am a psych RN and I’m in grad school to become a psych NP. I enjoy reading, music, and gaming. I am here to explore kink and find friends in the space. I’m super busy, so I don’t get to play with new people often, but if we really vibe, I could be down for more than just chatting. I am plus sized, so if you can't handle big girls, please move on.
FDT, Love is Love, Eat the Rich, etc.
I have HSV-1 but haven't had a flair in years. Recently tested for everything else and am completely clean. Stay safe out here and remember to use protection😉
Soft, feminine, and very much in control. 👑
I’m exploring my dominant side and looking for someone who genuinely enjoys giving up control. I’m especially interested in pegging, role reversal, teasing, and taking the lead.
I’m not looking for penetrative sex with men and I’m not here for random hookups. I want someone respectful, clean, communicative, open-minded, and comfortable discussing boundaries beforehand.
I may look sweet, but don’t assume that means you’re the one in charge. 😌
✨Hit me with your most unhinged pickup line. Spice it up fellas!
My attitude problem can be fixed with five finger necklaces and deep, throaty growls. looking for my dark romance book boyfriend. I like big, tall, manly men, both obsessive and possessive. I do work nights so please be patient with me 🥰
I don't get along with fascists.
interests: natures, hiking, mycology, hula hoops, live music, bread baking, cooking from scratch
Turn ons: intuitive, emotional intelligence, stability, wisdom, empathy
Very very happily partnered. Looking for friends. for mf, mfm, mfmf... and friendship. Connection is crucial.
I'm an outdoorsy, nerdy, music loving, traveling, rope bottom, tantra learning, gardening, kinky nanny.
Pro tips that shouldn't need to be mentioned:
Good conversation is a turn on.
Dirty talk comes later, it's better that way anyway.
Same for full nudes, which I love, later.
I won't respond to empty profiles.
If you don't have a photo posted, send one.
Trust is required for kink.
Classy sub sluts are worth the extra effort.
Let's have some fun!
***quick summary for new account
easy going and fun loving lol, talk to me and find out what I'm willing to do. also I do take dick pics as introductions lol if you want a rating just ask.
tell me your kinkiest thoughts
if you want to pay me for being gorgeous I'll take that too lmao
short stubby. chubby.
New to the sub dynamic. still discovering.
not sure what I want. besides someone to take the lead and control.
Can't see likes, either message me or "spank" me. Otherwise you won't be hearing from me. not giving *** to this app. Those who don't do these things and only like are just wasting both of our times and that is just annoying. this app also gives false notifications sadly.
FIRST AND FOREMOST I AM NOT A SUBMISSIVE NOR WILL I BECOME ONE FOR ANYONE! MOVE ALONG IF THAT IS YOUR END GOAL SINCE NONE OF YOU BOTHER TO READ THE WHOLE DAMN PROFILE!
Also, while this is somewhat a sex oriented app, that is the last thing on my mind. I need a real connection before intimacy is even a thought. Don't message me immediately offering to let me peg you or whatever. Actually get to know me and stop thinking with your tiny penises that probably won't sexually satisfy me anyway.
Pro-human rights and equality for all. I'm a full-time mom who is polyamorous. I'm demisexual and really need to know someone before I'm willing to sleep with them and require full panel STD testing before intimacy occurs or is even a thought. I'm super nerdy and mostly a homebody.
I don't do NSA! if that is all you are interested in, kindly find someone else to flirt with. Also, not interested in having my time wasted or being lied to. So, if you are usually a flake, kindly find someone else to chat up. I don't have time for bullshit. I also don't have time to help anyone commit adultery.
If you are only looking for sexual relationships, I'm not the one for you. I'm demisexual and require a connection before anything intimate is even on the table. Also, just because it says I'm looking for friends, that doesn't mean friends with benefits.
I'm only looking for maids/butlers, submissives, slaves, pets, and toys. I'm also willing to consider switches but have some guidelines regarding that. I am willing to chat with fellow Doms and Dommes as friends, however. But seriously, cucks and simps only apply to serve me.
please have your own profile actually filled out
please don’t message me unless you live in New York I’m not interested unless your close to my area.
I’m pretty much an open book please feel free to message me and let’s chat. I’m looking for good connection if you don’t know how to hold a conversation please don’t even try.
I love movies and music, video games, drawing, hiking, photography, travel and I’m 420 friendly
I’m a published photographer, I love tattoos
switch looking for experienced D&Dfree daddy Dom at this time
well I'm a tattooed, *** loving, artist. and artist of many mediums. I love to cook and bake. I love to explore with food and expirement. I'm shy but quite the kinky little bunny when I'm very kinky when the times right.
I chew men up and spit them out. 🕷️
A LOT of spice a little nice.
I’m interested in men who will get on all 4’s for me. The ones who look unsuspecting.
I rarely submit to others. If you can tell me what to do then you can tell me what to do.
Sapiosexual.
Im an attention seeking exhibitionist with a praise kink. I want you to see my body and want more. I want to play dirty role play games while youre sitting at work. I love sharing pics and exchanging dirty messages so if thats your idea of a good time feel free to slip on in ;) im a smut reader with a wild imagination. do with that info what you will. ;) ask me anything, im an open book ^_^
kinks include but not limited to:
Exhibitionism
CNC
predator/prey
anal
nipple clamps
general bdsm
rough
choking
biting
hair pulling
orgasm denial
edging
help me add to the list 😈
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Submissive Bbw looking for a relationship with her Dom. I'm looking for my best friend, lover, partner, companion and my Sir. I'm looking for someone to guide me through the lifestyle. I have never been " trained" and have only recently begun to explore the lifestyle although I have been interested for 30 years. I have always had vanilla boyfriends and spouses. Looking for my one to take me to the next adventure in life... I go by Jennifer not Jenn...but Jenniferfrog doesn't have the same flow...lol.....for those I didn't answer a chat...NOT CURRENTLY LOOKING AS AN OPPORTUNITY HAS COME TO ME IN MY AREA....
I’m looking a mutually beneficial relationship. I’m a switch and a babygirl looking for her daddy to spoil her.
**Desires and Fantasies**
It's a secret
Just a lil freak out here proving bellies are sexy and kissing your friends is fun.
Heavily prioritizing queer connections. Picky about cis men, but shoot your shot.
My long-term partner and I are open and have fun separately. I'm not looking for a relationship or dating, just looking for casual fun and fwb. Wanna be best friends who kiss sometimes?
📍Rochester
🌈 Politically left and we won't get along if you're not
💉Vaxxed and regularly tested
28 bi female 🥰 I like younger guys (older ones are fine too) and have always wanted to have an FFM threesome. I’m super curious & love playing with girls too. I love going on long walks, stand-up comedy, and growing flowers.
Welcome to my world.
I’m a confident, composed, and naturally dominant woman who values respect, honesty, communication, and genuine connection. I enjoy exploring the psychological side of BDSM the anticipation, discipline, trust, and power exchange that make a dynamic meaningful.
I can be strict when the situation calls for it, but I also appreciate playfulness, teasing, and rewarding good behaviour. I’m interested in building a dynamic where both people understand their roles, communicate openly, and respect boundaries.
If you’re looking for a confident Mistress who expects good manners, consistency, loyalty, and genuine effort, perhaps we may be worth getting to know.
Approach respectfully, introduce yourself properly, and tell me what brings you here.
Hey, I’m really just here to relax find my people and have a good time 💕
Domme🖤 In a poly relationship
I’m looking for an obedient sub. Men or women welcome. You’ll answer to me first, but depending on the dynamic, you may find yourself under his control too.
Be respectful. Be submissive. Earn my attention.
I am in an open relationship and am only looking to supplement that. Meaning kinky fun that includes him, or solo. ENM, NSA. No drama. I'm not here for a booty call or hook ups.
Under age 25? You are enough. The world is a tough place, good luck out there. Go touch grass, I'm not for you.
So think carefully before you message me. Vibes are reflected. How our conversation progresses will depend entirely on how you enter my DMs. If I block you, learn the lesson.
Been into kink for many years, mostly interested in sensory play (or deprivation), orgasm control (denial/edging), some impact play. Naturally a switch. Eclectic and willing to experiment with the right person. I'm attracted to humans and need trust and connection. If you aren't willing to take time to make that happened, then I'm not for you.
40-something | Introvert | ISFJ | Lover of Plants, ***s, Coffee, Books, All Things Green, Butterflies and Rainbows | Caramel is better than Chocolate | Hair is overrated | Geeky | LGBTQ+ ally | Mental Health and Anxiety Awareness |
5 Foot, curvy, plus size girl with tattoos, a potty mouth, cheeky attitude and caffeine addiction on a weight loss journey. I am a parent with bills and a F/t job.
Yeah. I'm bald. I have medical conditions and I choose to shave it. Can't handle that? Move along.
Soft, feminine, and very much in control. 👑
I’m exploring my dominant side and looking for someone who genuinely enjoys giving up control. I’m especially interested in pegging, role reversal, teasing, and taking the lead.
I’m not looking for penetrative sex with men and I’m not here for random hookups. I want someone respectful, clean, communicative, open-minded, and comfortable discussing boundaries beforehand.
I may look sweet, but don’t assume that means you’re the one in charge. 😌
I am a plus size fart queen. I am looking to meet fart slaves that want to suck the stank from my stink hole. I am a Domme that knows what she wants when she wants it. and I want your face buried on my far ass
actual person💖
no long distance, 100ish miles max
not looking for a pen pal at all
Abstinent by choice, looking to change that so no one over 6 inches just in case:)
single btw and have been for a while.
Looking to connect with someone to fill my very little free time. I am Interested in exploring a more D/s role with someone more experienced or want to learn together but I also very much enjoy primal and sensory play. Open to trying new kinks, very few hard limits I’ve found yet. I’m an open book, just ask 🙃
I am not here for your late night I’m bored come fuck me—sorry boys. I am interested in actually exploring sexual fantasies and kinks not just a quick fix for you.
Naive gold star lesbian virgin. lover of art, music and adventure. wine is my passion, ask me about it
Single mom with a big personality, a smart mouth, and a soft heart underneath all the bullshit. 😏 I love adventures, traveling, getting outside, gardening, weird little places, good food, and conversations that actually have some substance.
I’m independent, loyal, funny as hell, and I know who I am. I can dress up and act respectable when required by society 😂, but I’m just as happy being goofy, talking shit, and turning a random night into a story.
I’m looking for a man who’s confident, emotionally mature, consistent, and can match my energy without trying to control it. Make me laugh, communicate like a grown-ass man, and bring some adventure to the table. Chemistry matters, but so does character. 💋
please don’t message me unless you live in New York I’m not interested unless your close to my area.
I’m pretty much an open book please feel free to message me and let’s chat. I’m looking for good connection if you don’t know how to hold a conversation please don’t even try.
I love movies and music, video games, drawing, hiking, photography, travel and I’m 420 friendly
I’m a published photographer, I love tattoos
Very very happily partnered. Looking for friends. for mf, mfm, mfmf... and friendship. Connection is crucial.
I'm an outdoorsy, nerdy, music loving, traveling, rope bottom, tantra learning, gardening, kinky nanny.
Pro tips that shouldn't need to be mentioned:
Good conversation is a turn on.
Dirty talk comes later, it's better that way anyway.
Same for full nudes, which I love, later.
I won't respond to empty profiles.
If you don't have a photo posted, send one.
Trust is required for kink.
Classy sub sluts are worth the extra effort.
Let's have some fun!
***quick summary for new account
I’m open to exploring, still a bit new to kink. I’m more submissive by nature and I appreciate a dominant man to take the lead. Always open to chat and get to know any fun like-minded people on here!
💖NO HOOK UPS/OLD MEN💖⚠️ages 26-33⚠️
I'm Italian/white, looking for someone similar.
Rochester, ny 💖 wheres my soul mate 💖
I have borderline personality disorder and ADHD.
Country soul with a metal edge, singer at heart, lover of ***s (cats). I'm 5'2" with attitude (BPD), taste for good food, bar vibes, casual adventures. Laugh loud, feel deeply, love hard, a little chaotic but loyal. Into alt & country boys. Don't want perfect, want someone honest to handle my intensity.
*No MAGA*
Foul mouth. Honesty and Transparency are important. ENM all the fucking way.
Looking for a future MFM and subs who like to be degraded.
No Urine/***/***/Littles/Bigs
I'm Angell, a dominant top who's always craving control. Beg for My attention in a language I under$tand💸. Before discussion happens and consent is earned I may be more timid, but with consent given I create a breath-taking circumstance for you to fall into and indulge yourself.
I'm a bit of a pleasure Domme with a hard spot for particularly pathetic, squirmy, eager-to-please submissives. In some ways I am strict, and in others very lax.
For more information you'll have to ask 😉
I lurk on other corners of the internet under the username AngellBabe(01), come find me.
My name is Bek, or Beka. I am a psych RN and I’m in grad school to become a psych NP. I enjoy reading, music, and gaming. I am here to explore kink and find friends in the space. I’m super busy, so I don’t get to play with new people often, but if we really vibe, I could be down for more than just chatting. I am plus sized, so if you can't handle big girls, please move on.
FDT, Love is Love, Eat the Rich, etc.
I have HSV-1 but haven't had a flair in years. Recently tested for everything else and am completely clean. Stay safe out here and remember to use protection😉
SKIP THE SMALL TALK & SIT ON MY FACE
Don’t message me Hi how are you or anything Make it stand out. Be Direct, Funny, Unique
NOT SEXUAL & IMMEDIATELY ASK TO FUCK
~ My name is Elena. Single, Never Married, No Kids, 100% Russian. Fider-Optic Engineer work remotely, so can travel or relocate. Located in Rochester, NY. I have a high sex drive & 9 years of BDSM experience. My favorite thing is getting dominated by smothered of an ass made to worship for hours.
—- Looking for my Dom. Don't care if you have kids. NOT INTERESTED in HOOK UPS, GAMES, PLAYERS, PLAYMATES, POLYAMOROUS, MARRIED MAN, TRANNYS.
ages 27-54 years old
short stubby. chubby.
New to the sub dynamic. still discovering.
not sure what I want. besides someone to take the lead and control.
I’m a brat who’s looking to be tamed and cared for.
New to the bdsm lifestyle but experienced outside of it. I can be either sub or dom. Down to try most things.
Open to a brat/brat tamer/ caregiver lifestyle
or sub/dom contract. either temporary or long term.
Anything else would would like to inquire feel free to message me
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