If you want a real lasting connection, ride or die, loyalty till end, date to marry type of vibe hmu. I got kids, yes. But don't ask if I want more because when man asks a single mother if she wants more kids, it can feel disrespectful because it ignores her current responsibilities, minimizes her sacrifices, assumes she's open to another pregnancy (a huge physical/mental commitment), and can sound like he's evaluating her for future reproduction rather than seeing her as a whole person with established family life. It disregards the logistical challenge of adding another child and suggests he might not grasp the depth of her current role as a mother, potentially making her feel like she's just a potential "vessel for more ***.
I am looking for typically mature, responsible, supportive, and emotionally stable men who prioritize family, have a good work ethic, respect boundaries (especially regarding the kids initially), and can be a fun, reliable partner without trying to replace a father too quickly. Key traits include honesty, good communication, patience, loyalty, and the ability to contribute equally to domestic life, showing they understand and value my priorities. I am not usually up for too long of a distance type of relationship because of my kids. I will not choose you over them. I want to connect with a person's mind, emotions, and heart first before anything. However that depends on how you treat me or how I feel. Real vs Fake π€₯
