BDSM Play Partner in West Hempstead

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Just looking for a dom to pegg me as hard as she can with whatever size turns her on, I want to be used all day idc how , degrade me and use me

Not sure if anyone’s gonna read this just wanted to see if my bio got anyone’s attention who’s also looking for the same as me

Would be amazing to have one! :3

Hi, my name is Eric Wolfsbane. I'm a 55 year old SWM 5'-6" with a large body. I have green eyes and brown hair. I currently live in NYC. I've been involved in the BDSM scene since 1990.


I have come to understand that I need to be in a serious preferably long term relationship with a sane woman who enjoys the role of disciplinarian but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body. I want a real relationship which domestic discipline is an important part, but not the whole relationship. I'm looking for a serious relationship with a sane woman enjoys being a disciplinarian but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body. I'm interested in being someone's significant other not their slave. I am not a slave. I am not a servant. I am not particularly submissive, people in this confuse obsequiousness and sycophancy with submissiveness anyway. I just enjoy being with a dominant woman who enjoys being the disciplinarian in domestic discipline relationship and administers it like she means it, not like it's a game.


First off, I have a medical condition, fibromyalgia/chronic fatigue syndrome, neuropathy and arthritis, which limits how I can play and what I can do. I have difficulty playing standing up and I have a lowered tolerance. I don't mind some and deserve to be punished when I'm bad, but I'm not a stoic either. I need a dominant who understands that it does hurt a lot and that I'll need bondage and a gag in order to take much of a beating. I believe that binding and gagging is an important part of the ritual of domestic discipline.


Personally, I prefer dominants who have the imagination to come up more interesting things to do than just beating for no reason. While I need a strict woman who is not timid about meting out deserved punishment it's when it's called for it's not for play. Beatings are for punishment not play.


For play I'm into cbt, dildo play, hot wax. sexual harassment, sharp fingernails, electro , being bound, gagged and blindfolded and tied down. I also enjoy being smacked[as in not on the head], as opposed to slapped, around. When I'm comfortable with a woman and the relationship I'm willing to engage in oral servitude. I'm open minded and are willing to try new things. I'm not into , cross dressing or verbal ***, [teasing is ok] Nor am I into cuckoldry. If you're not honorable enough to be faithful then you're not someone who I'd consider trustworthy enough to be a dominant to me.


I'm seeking a single dominant woman who enjoys the role of an uncompromising disciplinarian and believes that a man never outgrows the need for corporal punishment and that it's the role of a significant other to administer it when needed.


She will determine the seriousness of any transgressions I may commit and will employ traditional modes of discipline such as paddles, hairbrushes, straps, canes, birches or simply smacking me around as she deems appropriate for correction. Single tails are okay as long as they're used skillfully and intelligently. When I'm not being punished I expect her to be a warm, affectionate sexually aggressive down to earth lady with a sense of humor who's my best friend, lover and life partner. She should be an educated, intelligent, soft spoken, genteel lady whom I can respect and who understands that through that respect she earns her right to judge my behavior and apply discipline.


I prefer dominant women who are aggressive, both sexually and dominantly. I like a woman who'll grab me by the scruff of the neck and make me do what she wants when I'm difficult. I like a woman who's not afraid to touch me. So many dominants only seem to see submissive men as pieces of meat that they can beat on. I looking for a woman who wants to do B&D 'with' me, as opposed to 'to' me. If I sound like someone you'd be interested in interacting with for mutual enjoyment, please contact me.

Hi, my name is Eric Wolfsbane. I'm a 53 year old SWM 5'-6" with a large body. I have green eyes and brown hair. I currently live in NYC. I've been involved in the BDSM scene since 1990.

I have come to understand that I need to be in a serious preferably long term relationship with a sane woman who enjoys the role of disciplinarian but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body. I want a real relationship which domestic discipline is an important part, but not the whole relationship. I'm looking for a serious relationship with a sane woman enjoys being a disciplinarian but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body. I'm interested in being someone's significant other not their slave. I am not a slave. I am not a servant. I am not particularly submissive, people in this confuse obsequiousness and sycophancy with submissiveness anyway. I just enjoy being with a dominant woman who enjoys being the disciplinarian in domestic discipline relationship and administers it like she means it, not like it's a game.

First off, I have a medical condition, fibromyalgia/chronic fatigue syndrome, neuropathy and arthritis, which limits how I can play and what I can do. I have difficulty playing standing up and I have a lowered tolerance. I don't mind some and deserve to be punished when I'm bad, but I'm not a stoic either. I need a dominant who understands that it does hurt a lot and that I'll need bondage and a gag in order to take much of a beating. I believe that binding and gagging is an important part of the ritual of domestic discipline.

Personally, I prefer dominants who have the imagination to come up more interesting things to do than just beating for no reason. While I need a strict woman who is not timid about meting out deserved punishment it's when it's called for it's not for play. Beatings are for punishment not play.

For play I'm into cbt, dildo play, hot wax. sexual harassment, sharp fingernails, electro , being bound, gagged and blindfolded and tied down. I also enjoy being smacked[as in not on the head], as opposed to slapped, around. When I'm comfortable with a woman and the relationship I'm willing to engage in oral servitude. I'm open minded and are willing to try new things. I'm not into , cross dressing or verbal ***, [teasing is ok] Nor am I into cuckoldry. If you're not honorable enough to be faithful then you're not someone who I'd consider trustworthy enough to be a dominant to me.

I'm seeking a single dominant woman who enjoys the role of an uncompromising disciplinarian and believes that a man never outgrows the need for corporal punishment and that it's the role of a significant other to administer it when needed.

She will determine the seriousness of any transgressions I may commit and will employ traditional modes of discipline such as paddles, hairbrushes, straps, canes, birches or simply smacking me around as she deems appropriate for correction. Single tails are okay as long as they're used skillfully and intelligently. When I'm not being punished I expect her to be a warm, affectionate sexually aggressive down to earth lady with a sense of humor who's my best friend, lover and life partner. She should be an educated, intelligent, soft spoken, genteel lady whom I can respect and who understands that through that respect she earns her right to judge my behavior and apply discipline.

I prefer dominant women who are aggressive, both sexually and dominantly. I like a woman who'll grab me by the scruff of the neck and make me do what she wants when I'm difficult. I like a woman who's not afraid to touch me. So many dominants only seem to see submissive men as pieces of meat that they can beat on. I looking for a woman who wants to do B&D 'with' me, as opposed to 'to' me. If I sound like someone you'd be interested in interacting with for mutual enjoyment, please contact me.

hiya all. I'm looking for a mistress for a monogamous FLR LTR. I have a fetish for Latex, bondage, edging, pussy/body worship and hairy armpits/pussy (I think their hot and would love to worship them). I've always wanted to be pinned down and made to worship my mistress' body with my tongue, while being kept on edge till she cums and is satisfied. I'm only 4'in hard so my Mistress can lord over her superiority .I'm short (around 5 something) Puerto Rican, with a bit of a dad bod (big belly). i like video game, anime, comics, trains and cats.

Hello, I'm looking for a woman that I can be myself with totally and completely - a woman I can trust; respect and worship in EVERY WAY imaginable

Dominant fit 6’1 dark curly hair light skinned Dominican. Not a sub, dont want to be one or try it. Love to control, ***, neck bite, degrade, smack, and kiss. i like to combine a little rough with gentle but always open to listening to your needs. but if u think you can take big dick and need to be pounded, show me…

Hi! I was casually introduced to Little/Middle space and I low key love the idea of someone caring for me, maybe even when I am not remembering to care for myself. I would like to experiment with dynamic. I would love to curl up with a man while in one of my warm onsies and just be safe and not have to take on the world.

Dress me up in your favorite outfit, tie me down, and peg me with your biggest toy. Fist me if you like. Ride my face. I'm just there to please you. If you have a chastity cage, lock me up. I'm just begging to be used to a dominant, controlling mistress

Hi, I’m just a sub and looking for someone to help guide me and what not if you wanna talk just hmu 😁

New to this and looking for a mistress or goddess

I am a 50 year old chubby white male from the Nassau and Suffolk border area. I stand 5'11 and weigh around 290 pounds with short brown and gray hair, blue eyes, and a trimmed goatee. I am clean, discreet, and serious about finding a woman who values loyalty, service, and genuine submission.

I am new to this path but every part of me knows that my place is in service to a strong and confident woman. I want to be guided, corrected, and molded into someone who exists to make her life easier and more satisfying. My focus is not on my own pleasure but on hers in every form.

What drives me most is the act of giving, of knowing that my purpose is to bring her comfort, peace, and release. I find deep satisfaction in giving oral attention and taking my time to learn exactly what she likes. The sound of her breath and the way her body responds is all the reward I need. I do not seek sexual gratification for myself. Her pleasure, her calm, and her control are what I crave most.

Beyond the physical side, I want structure, rules, and direction. I take pride in being told what to do and in completing tasks exactly as instructed. Acts of service such as cleaning, organizing, assisting, or small daily rituals make me feel grounded and useful.

I can host or travel and always respect boundaries and privacy. I am clean, safe, and sincere. My limits are , , s, and anything that causes permanent harm. There is no interest in or games. I want a woman who wants to be worshiped and obeyed, and who understands what it means to truly be served.

If you are a bbw who enjoys control and expects complete attention, I would like the chance to serve you. Tell me what pleases you, what you expect, and how you want to be treated. I will listen closely, follow your lead, and give everything I have to your satisfaction.

50-year-old Dominant based on Long Island, NY. Chubby, assertive, experienced, and craving something real. I’m looking for a submissive or slave — female, plus-sized, obedient, and eager to serve.

You should crave control, ritual, structure, and the chance to fully surrender. I don’t want a brat playing games — I want a woman who aches to kneel, listen, serve, and be used with purpose.

I'm open to various dynamics — domestic servitude, sexual obedience, , body worship, discipline, training, and total power exchange (TPE) — depending on chemistry and compatibility. My style is firm, verbal, protective, and strict. I love ritual, obedience, and when it’s earned and deserved.

Bonus if you're a BBW or SSBBW. I have a deep love for curves, thick thighs, and soft flesh begging to be marked.

I offer structure, aftercare, clarity, and consistent use. I expect obedience, loyalty, and honesty in return.

Available for ongoing in-person connection — evenings or weekends. Local is best (Nassau/Suffolk). Let’s talk limits, desires, and what true submission means to you.

If you’ve been waiting to be claimed, used, and molded — I might be the one you’ve been needing.

I am a Sub. Looking for a Dom. Looking for a rigger. I love being tied up. Love a little cbt. I live watersports.

I love the art of shibari …. Would love to be tied up again

I am a sub who is looking for a rigger …. Into submitting and cbt and watersports

I’m a firm believer that there is someone out there for everyone

a mistress who is not about financial domme but one who gets to know me and develops a relationship

Looking for a sub located in NYC preferably Brooklyn that’s interested in BDSM and is looking for a dom to train her

Ready to fulfill all your needs. I can get nasty if I have to, love when older woman control me and tell me what to do. I can pleasure you lady’s by any means js message me😈😈😈

Just making this add because we’re back on this app and it’s Pride Month so at the least we wanted to wish everyone happy pride! We’re going to be extra gay this month no sugarcoating that so feel free to say hi lol ;3❤️💖