BDSM Dating in Cary

This I just want virtually and I want ideas on what I should do to myself. I have spicy lip plumpers and Vicks vapor rub for some chemical play, a suction pump, an electric toothbrush, needles, skewers, rubber bands, q tips, clips and vibrators. Just need someone to tell me exactly what to do. I may send photos but only of the things being done without the rest of me in it to have plausible deniability that I’m into this.