Kinky women in Durham

I have a rich daddy fetish. I’m lookin for an EATER!! ….&& make sure I have what I need so I can’t wait to see you soon! In need of spankings, guidance and grace. Tell me something daddy

Goddess Domme Mistress - In Mebane, NC DO NOT contact me if you can't handle no, no thank you or we are not a good fit. I am over supposed to be grown men throwing tantrums and calling me out my name when I decline. I have choices and preferences just like you do! What?s a FemDom to do????

I've been out of the lifestyle for a while and wanting to get back. I've recently moved to NC from TX. I love nature, cooking, most movies, & kareoke.

looking for a dominant man who is willing to be patient in my exploring of the kink world. looking for a deep and meaningful dynamic that goes beyond the kink, if that’s not you then keep it moving xoxo

heyyy!! I’m 28 looking for a female bisexual to have fun with me and my man & go on about our days :) tryna have fun and be real

would love to be your little pet for the night, an entertainment prop for your group of friends or the perfect caged centerpiece for your swinger party

I’m a big white lady, 54 who is looking for her dominant man. I’m looking for long term not a hook up. I also don’t play til I build trust with someone. if you are not serious about building a relationship/friendship I’m not for you. I don’t do hookups. I’m not going to submit to anyone who doesn’t want to build some trust, I’m sorry that’s a hard pass. I’m single, no kids. I like spanking, flogging, bondage. I also like daddy play as well as primal play or rough sex. I would like to try “free use” days or weekends with someone I trust. I’m not a 24/7 submissive. I’m way too independent for that, maybe a designated amount of time or a modified version. There is so more I’d like to experience and learn in the kink world, just asked me about it. I would like to try Domme or mistress role I maybe flirting with diving into the switchyness. I would like to try. That may not stick. If inquiring minds want to know, my bra cup size it’s K, it doesn’t go high enough on the toggle to put it there.

Seeking a dedicated, obedience-focused submissive for a couple-led dynamic (possible live-in) About us Married, stable, and experienced in consensual power exchange. We value trust, clarity, and follow-through. We’re down-to-earth, have a dry sense of humor, and are professional, direct, and attentive. We’re not interested in brat dynamics. If obedience isn’t your thing, we’re not a match. About him Warm, grounded, and straightforward. He says what he means and follows through. Prioritizes structure, aftercare, and clear communication. He’s been in the lifestyle for years with 20+ years as a Dominant and mentor. About me Nurse for 14+ years; grounded, caring, and calm under pressure. Homebody at heart who loves festivals in small doses, bowling, beach days, movies, restaurants, and wineries. Also into writing and ***ting. Bisexual; with women I’m affectionate and tactile—softness, kissing, cuddling. I tend to be more giving, and appreciate reciprocity. Kink: definite masochist. Impact and wax are favorites for the release and the pretty marks. Also into restraints, light electro, blindfolds, and clamps. Curious switchiness with women; I’m learning to top under his mentorship. In the lifestyle since 18. What started as kink curiosity has grown into a deeper, mental/structure-focused submission. With my current Dom, I’m in the most aligned dynamic I’ve had. What we’re looking for A true submissive who shows consistency, effort, and respect for protocol. Open to a couple-led dynamic; chemistry and compatibility come first. Live-in is a possibility if everything aligns over time. You know what you want, you communicate it, and you follow house rules once agreed. Our approach and experience Consent, safety, and aftercare are non-negotiable. Safewords honored, boundaries respected. Skilled in training/mentorship, structure, and building sustainable dynamics. We enjoy D/s with elements of bondage, impact, sensation, and role play—negotiated and tailored to the partner. Boundaries and limits No face striking. No bodily fluids. Full stop. Everything is pre-negotiated with safewords and shared limits. Our limits will align with yours; we don’t “push” past negotiated boundaries. Communication If we reach out, a brief reply (even if it’s a “no, thank you”) is appreciated. We’re here with intention—clear communication and punctuality go a long way.

I hate color, love black and everything dark. (If you see me in pink know you are imagining it) I love being out at night and doing things that are considered gothic. Honestly just a cute baby bat🦇🦇🦇🖤🖤🖤 Same name on fetlife I have one amazing partner who is married to my bestfriend. I am looking for my anchor partner/primary. I am a subleaning switch and really want to find someone that fits the role of Master and Daddy. Quotes I live by: Will the world end? Not all who wander are lost.

42 y/o female submissive - been heavy into the lifestyle for 3 years and am very experienced. Not looking for hookups, not looking for FWB. - Sapiosexual - Demisexual - INFP-T, 4w5 Just recently started getting into predator/prey, Hunter/stalker Here are more of my interests: Exchange (D/s) • Impact Play • Masochism (Submissive) • Bottom (Submissive) • Edge Play (Breath Play, CNC, *** Play, *** Play, knife play, etc.) • Bondage and Restraints (Rope, Bondage Cuffs, Tape, Handcuffs, Collars, Predicament, etc.) • Toy and Equipment Utilization (Spreader Bars, St. Andrew’s Cross, Whips/Floggers/Paddles/Crops)

I like reading, mostly dark romance I’m a very independent women, I don’t like wasting my time I like interesting people

🥰Hey there, lovely souls! I’m diving back into this thrilling BDSM world and ready to connect with fellow kinksters who appreciate a little spice in their lives. *** I’m no stranger to the scene, having immersed myself as a playful sub and a true brat 🤪, but now I’m excited to explore my newly embraced dominant side. 💫 But hen the moment calls for it, I can seamlessly transition from taking charge—making you submit on your knees—to embracing my softer side as a “good girl” for Daddy. 😏 As a confident BBW, I’m all about celebrating 🎉 my curves and owning my sensuality! With the guidance of some incredible Dom mentors, I’ve discovered that my dominant style aligns beautifully with the nurturing energy of a Mommy Dom 🧑‍🧒🥰 style—a sweet blend of nurturing and playful dominance that brings out the best in my partners. If you’re ready for a connection filled with fun, laughter, and a sprinkle of mischief, let’s chat! Whether you’re looking for playful banter or something deeper, I’m here to create magic in the moment. 💖✨ 🗒️: I'm very interested in connecting with couples in the BDSM community who have an open relationship or marriage. I'm looking for friendships and learning experiences. I'm also open to meeting anyone who can help me explore experiences outside of conventional norms. currently looking for long term relationship - to build on

looking for events to attend!! I am Eros, Philia, Ludus, Pragma, Philautia I desire Oxytocin, Dopamine, Endorphins, Serotonin 🥂 to cliches & a dark past for the cishet men reading: clothed, plugged, caged, gagged, unfinished, ignored, and silent is the only option for you. 😏

Hi! I'm new and a bit shy about all this still! I'm mostly looking for friends and to learn the ropes ;). If anyone has any event or reading suggestions, I'd love to hear them! Thank you all for making this such a great app / community!

New to all this. Single again after 20 mostly unsatisfying years. I think I am naturally submissive but haven’t had anyone who knew what to do with that. My ex would try sometimes but it just made me laugh. would love someone with real masculine energy lol. I read a lot and realize there is a whole world out there that I’ve been missing.

Looking for kinky dates to explore things I’ve never been comfortable asking for before. I love CNC role play, gentle nipple play and nipple orgasms, and creaming all over the place. DMs open here to locals only but you can also watch/message me on OF @LolaBunny24.7 (open access)

I have a rich daddy fetish. I’m lookin for an EATER!! ….&& make sure I have what I need so I can’t wait to see you soon! In need of spankings, guidance and grace. Tell me something daddy

Goddess Domme Mistress - In Mebane, NC DO NOT contact me if you can't handle no, no thank you or we are not a good fit. I am over supposed to be grown men throwing tantrums and calling me out my name when I decline. I have choices and preferences just like you do! What?s a FemDom to do????

I hate color, love black and everything dark. (If you see me in pink know you are imagining it) I love being out at night and doing things that are considered gothic. Honestly just a cute baby bat🦇🦇🦇🖤🖤🖤 Same name on fetlife I have one amazing partner who is married to my bestfriend. I am looking for my anchor partner/primary. I am a subleaning switch and really want to find someone that fits the role of Master and Daddy. Quotes I live by: Will the world end? Not all who wander are lost.

heyyy!! I’m 28 looking for a female bisexual to have fun with me and my man & go on about our days :) tryna have fun and be real

New to all this. Single again after 20 mostly unsatisfying years. I think I am naturally submissive but haven’t had anyone who knew what to do with that. My ex would try sometimes but it just made me laugh. would love someone with real masculine energy lol. I read a lot and realize there is a whole world out there that I’ve been missing.

42 y/o female submissive - been heavy into the lifestyle for 3 years and am very experienced. Not looking for hookups, not looking for FWB. - Sapiosexual - Demisexual - INFP-T, 4w5 Just recently started getting into predator/prey, Hunter/stalker Here are more of my interests: Exchange (D/s) • Impact Play • Masochism (Submissive) • Bottom (Submissive) • Edge Play (Breath Play, CNC, *** Play, *** Play, knife play, etc.) • Bondage and Restraints (Rope, Bondage Cuffs, Tape, Handcuffs, Collars, Predicament, etc.) • Toy and Equipment Utilization (Spreader Bars, St. Andrew’s Cross, Whips/Floggers/Paddles/Crops)

looking for events to attend!! I am Eros, Philia, Ludus, Pragma, Philautia I desire Oxytocin, Dopamine, Endorphins, Serotonin 🥂 to cliches & a dark past for the cishet men reading: clothed, plugged, caged, gagged, unfinished, ignored, and silent is the only option for you. 😏

I like reading, mostly dark romance I’m a very independent women, I don’t like wasting my time I like interesting people

I've been out of the lifestyle for a while and wanting to get back. I've recently moved to NC from TX. I love nature, cooking, most movies, & kareoke.

looking for a dominant man who is willing to be patient in my exploring of the kink world. looking for a deep and meaningful dynamic that goes beyond the kink, if that’s not you then keep it moving xoxo

🥰Hey there, lovely souls! I’m diving back into this thrilling BDSM world and ready to connect with fellow kinksters who appreciate a little spice in their lives. *** I’m no stranger to the scene, having immersed myself as a playful sub and a true brat 🤪, but now I’m excited to explore my newly embraced dominant side. 💫 But hen the moment calls for it, I can seamlessly transition from taking charge—making you submit on your knees—to embracing my softer side as a “good girl” for Daddy. 😏 As a confident BBW, I’m all about celebrating 🎉 my curves and owning my sensuality! With the guidance of some incredible Dom mentors, I’ve discovered that my dominant style aligns beautifully with the nurturing energy of a Mommy Dom 🧑‍🧒🥰 style—a sweet blend of nurturing and playful dominance that brings out the best in my partners. If you’re ready for a connection filled with fun, laughter, and a sprinkle of mischief, let’s chat! Whether you’re looking for playful banter or something deeper, I’m here to create magic in the moment. 💖✨ 🗒️: I'm very interested in connecting with couples in the BDSM community who have an open relationship or marriage. I'm looking for friendships and learning experiences. I'm also open to meeting anyone who can help me explore experiences outside of conventional norms. currently looking for long term relationship - to build on

would love to be your little pet for the night, an entertainment prop for your group of friends or the perfect caged centerpiece for your swinger party

I’m a big white lady, 54 who is looking for her dominant man. I’m looking for long term not a hook up. I also don’t play til I build trust with someone. if you are not serious about building a relationship/friendship I’m not for you. I don’t do hookups. I’m not going to submit to anyone who doesn’t want to build some trust, I’m sorry that’s a hard pass. I’m single, no kids. I like spanking, flogging, bondage. I also like daddy play as well as primal play or rough sex. I would like to try “free use” days or weekends with someone I trust. I’m not a 24/7 submissive. I’m way too independent for that, maybe a designated amount of time or a modified version. There is so more I’d like to experience and learn in the kink world, just asked me about it. I would like to try Domme or mistress role I maybe flirting with diving into the switchyness. I would like to try. That may not stick. If inquiring minds want to know, my bra cup size it’s K, it doesn’t go high enough on the toggle to put it there.

Looking for kinky dates to explore things I’ve never been comfortable asking for before. I love CNC role play, gentle nipple play and nipple orgasms, and creaming all over the place. DMs open here to locals only but you can also watch/message me on OF @LolaBunny24.7 (open access)

Hi! I'm new and a bit shy about all this still! I'm mostly looking for friends and to learn the ropes ;). If anyone has any event or reading suggestions, I'd love to hear them! Thank you all for making this such a great app / community!

Seeking a dedicated, obedience-focused submissive for a couple-led dynamic (possible live-in) About us Married, stable, and experienced in consensual power exchange. We value trust, clarity, and follow-through. We’re down-to-earth, have a dry sense of humor, and are professional, direct, and attentive. We’re not interested in brat dynamics. If obedience isn’t your thing, we’re not a match. About him Warm, grounded, and straightforward. He says what he means and follows through. Prioritizes structure, aftercare, and clear communication. He’s been in the lifestyle for years with 20+ years as a Dominant and mentor. About me Nurse for 14+ years; grounded, caring, and calm under pressure. Homebody at heart who loves festivals in small doses, bowling, beach days, movies, restaurants, and wineries. Also into writing and ***ting. Bisexual; with women I’m affectionate and tactile—softness, kissing, cuddling. I tend to be more giving, and appreciate reciprocity. Kink: definite masochist. Impact and wax are favorites for the release and the pretty marks. Also into restraints, light electro, blindfolds, and clamps. Curious switchiness with women; I’m learning to top under his mentorship. In the lifestyle since 18. What started as kink curiosity has grown into a deeper, mental/structure-focused submission. With my current Dom, I’m in the most aligned dynamic I’ve had. What we’re looking for A true submissive who shows consistency, effort, and respect for protocol. Open to a couple-led dynamic; chemistry and compatibility come first. Live-in is a possibility if everything aligns over time. You know what you want, you communicate it, and you follow house rules once agreed. Our approach and experience Consent, safety, and aftercare are non-negotiable. Safewords honored, boundaries respected. Skilled in training/mentorship, structure, and building sustainable dynamics. We enjoy D/s with elements of bondage, impact, sensation, and role play—negotiated and tailored to the partner. Boundaries and limits No face striking. No bodily fluids. Full stop. Everything is pre-negotiated with safewords and shared limits. Our limits will align with yours; we don’t “push” past negotiated boundaries. Communication If we reach out, a brief reply (even if it’s a “no, thank you”) is appreciated. We’re here with intention—clear communication and punctuality go a long way.