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Pro Goddess Domme Mistress - In Mebane, NC I DON’T LIVE THE LIFESTYLE FULL-TIME.
DO NOT contact me if you can't handle no, no thank you or we are not a good fit. I am over supposed to be grown men throwing tantrums and calling me out my name when I decline. I have choices and preferences just like you do!
What?s a FemDom to do????
Where are the good boys and good sluts who want to serve, get pegged and suck dick for their Mistress?
I have a rich daddy fetish.
I’m lookin for an EATER!!
….&& make sure I have what I need so I can’t wait to see you soon!
In need of spankings, guidance and grace.
Tell me something daddy
42 y/o female submissive - been heavy into the lifestyle for 3 years and am very experienced.
Not looking for hookups, not looking for FWB.
- Sapiosexual
- Demisexual
- INFP-T, 4w5
Just recently started getting into predator/prey, Hunter/stalker
Here are more of my interests:
Exchange (D/s)
• Impact Play
• Masochism (Submissive)
• Bottom (Submissive)
• Edge Play (Breath Play, CNC, *** Play, *** Play, knife play, etc.)
• Bondage and Restraints (Rope, Bondage Cuffs, Tape, Handcuffs, Collars, Predicament, etc.)
• Toy and Equipment Utilization (Spreader Bars, St. Andrew’s Cross, Whips/Floggers/Paddles/Crops)
calling all pretty boys:
switch for switch, or strict/nurturing domme looking for subs to train
local to North Carolina is preferred, might consider online long distance
don't ask me for anything if you're not familiar with the psychology and more so the etiquette of BDSM please
mandatory chatting stage of getting to know each other before consenting to chosen roles
Little, playful & a little naughty 😈💋 Sweet with a mischievous side. Naturally submissive, love being spoiled, teased, and someone confident who knows how to take the lead. 😉
Curious, open-minded, and intentional. I’m into power dynamics, playful control, and mutual exploration. Communication and consent are non-negotiable. I value chemistry, intelligence, and people who know what they want. Let’s talk about fantasies first — the best tension starts there.
I'm truly a switch. I can be more dominant with women, but with men I need someone who can take the lead 😏 Verse or dom men & any beautiful woman prefered.
looking for casual companionship in the nc triangle area! would love to yap kink with you 💋
I’m new to the Cary area and I’m looking to meet people in the kink community and make friends. Open to consistent FWB or NSA, but I like to meet in person first and see how we vibe. Huge bonus points if you’re a rope top or have a favorite coffee shop around here ☺️
love to learn you
looking for a special online playmate
I’ll never disappoint
get to know me cuz I’d love to get to know you.
https://***/userProfile/***
I am a Submissive female looking to find a long term Dom. I am married but my husband is fully aware. He travels for work during the week so I have great availability.
New to the community, and I want to make connections. I don't leave the house much, and I'm looking to change that 😊😊
🐝🐝 What I'm Looking For... 🐝🐝
I'm still exploring what I like, but I have some good ideas so far. I know I'm submissive, and interested in trying ropes, clamps, impact play, and wax play. I'm a people pleaser, so maybe be tell me nice things and I'll obey. And my head's real loud sometimes, and maybe I need someone to slow it down.
🐝🐝 A Few Vanilla Facts About Me 🐝🐝
I'm tattooed, chronically anxious, on the short side, and pretty nerdy. I play video games, DnD, and I'm an avid hockey watcher. Also, I love a good nap.
looking for events to attend!!
I am
Eros, Philia, Ludus, Pragma, Philautia
I desire
Oxytocin, Dopamine, Endorphins, Serotonin
🥂 to cliches & a dark past
for the cishet men reading: clothed, plugged, caged, gagged, unfinished, ignored, and silent is the only option for you. 😏
message me to remotely control my vibrator✨
would love to be your little pet for the night, an entertainment prop for your group of friends or the perfect caged centerpiece for your swinger party
heyyy!! I’m 28 looking for a female bisexual to have fun with me and my man & go on about our days :)
tryna have fun and be real
Poly & Switchy - Looking only for in-person, ongoing connections.
I'm into meaningful connections, good conversation, laughter, great food, game nights, being outdoors, and trying new experiences. I'm also into kink, open communication, emotional intelligence, and building relationships based on trust, honesty, and mutual respect. Affection, curiosity, and a playful sense of adventure go a long way with me.
Age play, biting, bondage, breast play, breath control, choice restriction, CNC, collars, ***, examinations, following directions, hot wax, ***, ice, impact, massage, medical play, milking, nipple play, orgasm control, photography, primal, roleplay (DDlg, doctor/patient), scratching, sensory deprivation, service, squirting, toys, TPE, wearing/being told to wear certain things.
Those are the big ones, but certainly not everything/all. Lol.
looking for a partner to explore all the beautiful green spaces around town 😘😜
Need someone who’s clean & wants to keep things cute. Love being spontaneous & adventures but I’m not just a piece of meat ok ty 😌 I like fucking outside/semi public, being a brat, impact play, etc.
i’m terrible with bios
i’m not actively seeking anyone but if we start talking i’m not against it going somewhere
potentially looking for a domme
maybe a sub
NO MEN
I’m new to this! I’ve never gotten the chance to explore, and I’d really love to now!
I can’t have intimacy without some kind of affection, nor commitment, so please keep that in mind!
A talkative extrovert that’s a witch!
I am still pretty new to this lifestyle, but I very much enjoy exploring my submissive side. I am looking for the right Dom. Someone who is willing to put the work in rather than just send me a "nice tits I'm your Daddy now"
only looking for a soft cis female mommy dom I’m a lesbian no men interest me ill block u if u hit on me just don’t cross my boundary and leave me alone if you’re a man! I’m looking for feminine females that like kink and taboo are open minded and looking for a pet in real life that can be dominant and train where I can give my TPE to you and trust to give it to you it’s not automatic it’s earned
I’m a big white lady, 54 who is looking for her dominant man. I’m looking for long term not a hook up. I also don’t play til I build trust with someone. if you are not serious about building a relationship/friendship I’m not for you. I don’t do hookups. I’m not going to submit to anyone who doesn’t want to build some trust, I’m sorry that’s a hard pass.
I’m single, no kids. I like spanking, flogging, bondage. I also like daddy play as well as primal play or rough sex. I would like to try “free use” days or weekends with someone I trust.
I’m not a 24/7 submissive. I’m way too independent for that, maybe a designated amount of time or a modified version.
There is so more I’d like to experience and learn in the kink world, just asked me about it.
I would like to try Domme or mistress role I maybe flirting with diving into the switchyness. I would like to try. That may not stick.
If inquiring minds want to know, my bra cup size it’s K, it doesn’t go high enough on the toggle to put it there.
I’m just a girl with a bubbly personality, very kind and giving. A little bratty. Here to explore the kink side of things. Open to most. Looking for something serious and long term.
New to all this. Single again after 20 mostly unsatisfying years. I think I am naturally submissive but haven’t had anyone who knew what to do with that. My ex would try sometimes but it just made me laugh. would love someone with real masculine energy lol. I read a lot and realize there is a whole world out there that I’ve been missing.
Hi! I'm new and a bit shy about all this still! I'm mostly looking for friends and to learn the ropes ;). If anyone has any event or reading suggestions, I'd love to hear them! Thank you all for making this such a great app / community!
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I have a rich daddy fetish.
I’m lookin for an EATER!!
….&& make sure I have what I need so I can’t wait to see you soon!
In need of spankings, guidance and grace.
Tell me something daddy
Pro Goddess Domme Mistress - In Mebane, NC I DON’T LIVE THE LIFESTYLE FULL-TIME.
DO NOT contact me if you can't handle no, no thank you or we are not a good fit. I am over supposed to be grown men throwing tantrums and calling me out my name when I decline. I have choices and preferences just like you do!
What?s a FemDom to do????
Where are the good boys and good sluts who want to serve, get pegged and suck dick for their Mistress?
42 y/o female submissive - been heavy into the lifestyle for 3 years and am very experienced.
Not looking for hookups, not looking for FWB.
- Sapiosexual
- Demisexual
- INFP-T, 4w5
Just recently started getting into predator/prey, Hunter/stalker
Here are more of my interests:
Exchange (D/s)
• Impact Play
• Masochism (Submissive)
• Bottom (Submissive)
• Edge Play (Breath Play, CNC, *** Play, *** Play, knife play, etc.)
• Bondage and Restraints (Rope, Bondage Cuffs, Tape, Handcuffs, Collars, Predicament, etc.)
• Toy and Equipment Utilization (Spreader Bars, St. Andrew’s Cross, Whips/Floggers/Paddles/Crops)
calling all pretty boys:
switch for switch, or strict/nurturing domme looking for subs to train
local to North Carolina is preferred, might consider online long distance
don't ask me for anything if you're not familiar with the psychology and more so the etiquette of BDSM please
mandatory chatting stage of getting to know each other before consenting to chosen roles
Little, playful & a little naughty 😈💋 Sweet with a mischievous side. Naturally submissive, love being spoiled, teased, and someone confident who knows how to take the lead. 😉
Here for fun and to see what this has to offer. I get excited by passion, connection, flirty banter, and teasing. I want to feel the genuine attraction in the heat of the moment, getting lost in each other.
looking for casual companionship in the nc triangle area! would love to yap kink with you 💋
I’m new to the Cary area and I’m looking to meet people in the kink community and make friends. Open to consistent FWB or NSA, but I like to meet in person first and see how we vibe. Huge bonus points if you’re a rope top or have a favorite coffee shop around here ☺️
Looking for a D/s relationship that doesnt immediately jump to kink. I'm looking for a true D not a fake or play one. Also appreciate someone who can respect boundaries needed for work and personal health.
Poly & Switchy - Looking only for in-person, ongoing connections.
I'm into meaningful connections, good conversation, laughter, great food, game nights, being outdoors, and trying new experiences. I'm also into kink, open communication, emotional intelligence, and building relationships based on trust, honesty, and mutual respect. Affection, curiosity, and a playful sense of adventure go a long way with me.
Age play, biting, bondage, breast play, breath control, choice restriction, CNC, collars, ***, examinations, following directions, hot wax, ***, ice, impact, massage, medical play, milking, nipple play, orgasm control, photography, primal, roleplay (DDlg, doctor/patient), scratching, sensory deprivation, service, squirting, toys, TPE, wearing/being told to wear certain things.
Those are the big ones, but certainly not everything/all. Lol.
looking for a partner to explore all the beautiful green spaces around town 😘😜
Need someone who’s clean & wants to keep things cute. Love being spontaneous & adventures but I’m not just a piece of meat ok ty 😌 I like fucking outside/semi public, being a brat, impact play, etc.
Im pretty laid back and love meeting new people! I can be shy at first which is why I joined Fet. I love movies, staying active by rollerskating and dancing. I love EDM and R&B music, dancing and vibing the night away...if it leads to more that is a bonus.
New to the community, and I want to make connections. I don't leave the house much, and I'm looking to change that 😊😊
🐝🐝 What I'm Looking For... 🐝🐝
I'm still exploring what I like, but I have some good ideas so far. I know I'm submissive, and interested in trying ropes, clamps, impact play, and wax play. I'm a people pleaser, so maybe be tell me nice things and I'll obey. And my head's real loud sometimes, and maybe I need someone to slow it down.
🐝🐝 A Few Vanilla Facts About Me 🐝🐝
I'm tattooed, chronically anxious, on the short side, and pretty nerdy. I play video games, DnD, and I'm an avid hockey watcher. Also, I love a good nap.
I’m just a girl with a bubbly personality, very kind and giving. A little bratty. Here to explore the kink side of things. Open to most. Looking for something serious and long term.
love to learn you
looking for a special online playmate
I’ll never disappoint
get to know me cuz I’d love to get to know you.
https://***/userProfile/***
Curious, open-minded, and intentional. I’m into power dynamics, playful control, and mutual exploration. Communication and consent are non-negotiable. I value chemistry, intelligence, and people who know what they want. Let’s talk about fantasies first — the best tension starts there.
I'm truly a switch. I can be more dominant with women, but with men I need someone who can take the lead 😏 Verse or dom men & any beautiful woman prefered.
I’m new to this! I’ve never gotten the chance to explore, and I’d really love to now!
I can’t have intimacy without some kind of affection, nor commitment, so please keep that in mind!
A talkative extrovert that’s a witch!
heyyy!! I’m 28 looking for a female bisexual to have fun with me and my man & go on about our days :)
tryna have fun and be real
New to all this. Single again after 20 mostly unsatisfying years. I think I am naturally submissive but haven’t had anyone who knew what to do with that. My ex would try sometimes but it just made me laugh. would love someone with real masculine energy lol. I read a lot and realize there is a whole world out there that I’ve been missing.
looking for events to attend!!
I am
Eros, Philia, Ludus, Pragma, Philautia
I desire
Oxytocin, Dopamine, Endorphins, Serotonin
🥂 to cliches & a dark past
for the cishet men reading: clothed, plugged, caged, gagged, unfinished, ignored, and silent is the only option for you. 😏
only looking for a soft cis female mommy dom I’m a lesbian no men interest me ill block u if u hit on me just don’t cross my boundary and leave me alone if you’re a man! I’m looking for feminine females that like kink and taboo are open minded and looking for a pet in real life that can be dominant and train where I can give my TPE to you and trust to give it to you it’s not automatic it’s earned
message me to remotely control my vibrator✨
would love to be your little pet for the night, an entertainment prop for your group of friends or the perfect caged centerpiece for your swinger party
I am a Submissive female looking to find a long term Dom. I am married but my husband is fully aware. He travels for work during the week so I have great availability.
I’m a big white lady, 54 who is looking for her dominant man. I’m looking for long term not a hook up. I also don’t play til I build trust with someone. if you are not serious about building a relationship/friendship I’m not for you. I don’t do hookups. I’m not going to submit to anyone who doesn’t want to build some trust, I’m sorry that’s a hard pass.
I’m single, no kids. I like spanking, flogging, bondage. I also like daddy play as well as primal play or rough sex. I would like to try “free use” days or weekends with someone I trust.
I’m not a 24/7 submissive. I’m way too independent for that, maybe a designated amount of time or a modified version.
There is so more I’d like to experience and learn in the kink world, just asked me about it.
I would like to try Domme or mistress role I maybe flirting with diving into the switchyness. I would like to try. That may not stick.
If inquiring minds want to know, my bra cup size it’s K, it doesn’t go high enough on the toggle to put it there.
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