BDSM Dating in Cleveland

I want someone to watch
All kinds of adult films with me and pick out things we want to do and try, and what turns us on and what doesn't or how to turn something that doesn't turn us on into something that does because of a simple change or a move. I guess it's a watch it' and then act it out. Like a woman that's clingy at times... But also I can lay down and give me commands. They need to be able to come out of their shell.When they want to but also know how to go back into it. Everything's been so vanilla, that I just want to try things.I want to explore.I want it to be real at the same time.