BDSM Dating in Columbus

I'm looking for a woman that knows what she wants, sweet and caring, a little thicker is better but I prefer a great personality to looks and age. Not looking to get into anything that night but want to build off of it. If something happens then so be it. I'm ok with any food and possibly a movie after. I figure we can talk about limits, kinks, and what we are truly looking for over dinner or lunch.