I’m a bottom/sub looking for more than just an online relationship. I want something real and in person — someone I can genuinely connect with, build trust with, and hopefully create a long-term relationship with. I'm also pretty new to all of this. So please be patient with me.
I’m pansexual, and I’m open to being with one person or potentially being part of a poly relationship. Whether that’s two girls, two guys, one of each, or something completely different, gender doesn’t matter much to me. I care about who you are, how you treat me, and the connection we have.
Right now, I don’t work or drive, and my only income is SSI, so *** is extremely tight at the moment. I’m hoping that changes in the future. My life is pretty quiet, and honestly, I can be pretty boring sometimes lol. I don’t go out a whole lot, but when I have some extra ***, I enjoy shopping, going out to eat, seeing a movie, or occasionally going to a bar or casino.
I have pretty severe social anxiety and depression, along with other forms of anxiety, and I also have ADHD. I can be extremely shy and awkward when talking on the phone or meeting someone for the first time. It takes me some time to warm up and feel comfortable around someone, but once I trust you and come out of my shell, you’ll get to see the real me.
I also have a s***ch impediment and sometimes have trouble pronouncing certain “R” sounds and words. It’s something I can be self-conscious about, so patience and kindness mean a lot to me.
I definitely have a more adventurous side, too. I’m naturally submissive and interested in a BDSM dynamic. I’d love to find a Daddy/Dom, Mommy/Mistress, or someone who can fulfill either or both roles for me. I’m interested in a dynamic involving trust, structure, rules, consensual power exchange, and exploring my submissive side with someone I genuinely feel safe and connected with.
At the same time, I don’t want BDSM to be the only thing between us. Ideally, I’d love to find someone where the relationship exists both inside and outside the bedroom — someone who can be my Dom/Daddy or Mommy/Mistress while also being my romantic partner, best friend, and eventually my forever person.
I’m looking for something serious, loyal, loving, and long-term. I want someone who genuinely loves me for me, not someone who is only interested in one part of me. I’m tired of getting hurt and being made to feel like I’m temporary. I want something real — someone who chooses me, communicates with me, respects me, and wants to build a future together.
If you’re genuinely interested in getting to know me, message me with something real. Tell me about yourself, what you’re looking for, and what made you want to reach out. Please don’t just send “hey.” I’d much rather have a genuine conversation and actually get to know each other. ❤️
