Kinky women in Westerville

Best at: Making bad puns, finding the hidden gem restaurant and spontaneous fun I'm the outgoing type who loves to explore the world, but I’m looking for unwavering loyalty in the person I share it with. I want an exciting, stable bond.

* *NO COUPLES. NOT ENM. If you are in any type of relationship, I'm not the girl you're looking for. SINGLE MEN ONLY.* * Not a bot. Not a seller. Not a scammer. Don't have an OnlyFans or any website to subscribe to. I pay my own bills. Don't insult me. 😒 * *I DO NOT HAVE SNAPCHAT.* * 29, natural born female, Columbus area of Ohio. Mixed black and white. 42 c, BBW, flat ass lol 😔 I'm a busy and devoted mom of one and live alone with my kiddo. When I'm not busy working, I'm parenting. I get every other weekend to myself. That's 48 hours of free time every 12 days. And I have to be picky with how I spend it. Not online often. * I have been single for a bit over 3 years, and celibate for a bit over 9 months. I'm here because I like being part of this community of like-minded people, and I'm a bit too kinky to settle down with someone vanilla. Life is too short to pretend like good sex isn't important. I'm not interested in hookups, quickies, or fwb at all. I won't be immediately jumping into sexting. I'm in no hurry to meet up in real life. If I get into a relationship, it will only be after an extremely long and slow courtship. I'm only interested in moving extremely, almost obnoxiously slow. My walls are fortified, but I'm open to someone patient enough to knock them down. That being said, if you can't have a normal conversation with me, or approach me in a gentlemanly way, *don't approach me.* Dick is easier to get than clean water, and there is nothing special enough about yours to get you out of having some decency when speaking to a lady. Whenever I decide to settle back down with someone, and give myself to someone, it will be someone respectful, intelligent, caring, tall, and charming. Someone who doesn't need to be told/reminded to bring fresh flowers 💐 * When I manage to get moment or two to myself, I enjoy reading (historical fiction is my jam), trying new recipes, cleaning, YouTube, and listening to music. I also enjoy going out to dinner, the movies, and live sports. 420 friendly. * My main kinks include anal, free use, tpe (just Google it lol), creampies (I'm on the pill), bondage, and ***d orgasms. I'm very open minded. I like to follow directions and I get the most pleasure from making sure my partner is pleased. Whatever that might mean for him. That being said, my celibacy is important to me, and I am completely unwilling to give it up to someone who doesn't think they need to put in any effort for it. * Thanks for reading 😇 if I haven't scared you away, start a conversation with me. ❤️

VERY experienced MILF looking for beautiful girls who want to go out, be shown a great time and maybe more... my preferred age is 25-38. If you're old, you're not for this cougar. Please just assume whatever you're into; I've tried it.

ABOUT ME . ✦ In the interest of not wasting anyone's time; I'm "thicc", "curvy", "voluptuous", [insert additional descriptors here]. I'm not thin, my photos are not an inaccurate portrayal of me but I do utilize careful angles and lighting to best accentuate and flatter my shape. If this is a problem then move along. ✦ My physical description is 5'4", blue eyes, long auburn hair, measurements 52-38-55. ✦ Massive nerd, very into DC and Marvel, yes I cosplay and no I do not (and will not) wear cosplays during scenes/play. At least not any of my expensive and ***stakingly crafted ones, but I'm not opposed to sexy outfits/costumes in the bedroom. ✦ The farthest thing from religious or conservative. Anyone prescribing to either of those need not apply ✦ I'm a very straightforward, no nonsense kind of person. Opinionated, non-traditional, independent. ✦ Switch (commonly mistaken for a Domme). When I Domme/top it is usually with a female/femme partner. As a sub I tend to be bratty and engage in power play, and prefer male/masc Doms. Not set in stone, just a common pattern. ✦ Sapiosexual. Intelligence in a partner is a requirement for me to be attracted to them. (Note: this does not mean you have to have some crazy high IQ, and keep in mind that emotional intelligence falls under this umbrella). ✦ Demisexual. This one is hard to explain succinctly but basically I’m not going to want to sleep with you until we form some kind of emotional bond. This is NOT a preference, I will have literally zero sexual interest in you until I know you better as a person. Google may be your friend on this one. ✦ Sadomasochist. Heavy on the sadism (giving), light on the masochism (receiving). ✦ I'm a bit of a control freak in my day-to-day, so being relieved of that burden is certainly welcome, though because of this subservience from me is something that requires patience and trust. . . WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR . ✦ Primarily in the market for a male/masc Dom right now (subject to change) ✦ Preferably partners with experience in BDSM or D/s ✦ Intelligence (very important) ✦ Currently looking to explore being sub to a sensual/gentle Dom and partaking in some sensation play (candle wax, blindfolds, restraints, feathers, ice, etc). I'm also curious about exploring some facets of the Daddy Dom and little/middle dynamic. ✦ Someone who takes negotiation, consent, and safety VERY seriously. Safe, sane, consensual, friends. ✦ A partner interested in helping me to explore, learn, grow, improve. . . WHAT I AM -NOT- LOOKING FOR . ✦ Submissive males. At least….not at this moment. ✦ "Fake" Doms, or people who confuse being a TOP for being a DOM. They are two very different things. Please learn the difference. ✦ Anyone who's knowledge of BDSM was wholly derived from 50 Shades of Grey. ✦ Long distance relationships/arrangements. I've done it, not interested in doing it again. ✦ Couples, poly, or open relationships. I'm not interested in being anyone's unicorn or entering into any pre-existing dynamics. I have no moral issue with those who are in such arrangements but they're not for me. (UPDATE: I am -tentatively- exploring polyamory.) . . If you've any questions or find our interests to be compatible then please feel free to contact me.

Best at: Making bad puns, finding the hidden gem restaurant and spontaneous fun I'm the outgoing type who loves to explore the world, but I’m looking for unwavering loyalty in the person I share it with. I want an exciting, stable bond.

VERY experienced MILF looking for beautiful girls who want to go out, be shown a great time and maybe more... my preferred age is 25-38. If you're old, you're not for this cougar. Please just assume whatever you're into; I've tried it.

* *NO COUPLES. NOT ENM. If you are in any type of relationship, I'm not the girl you're looking for. SINGLE MEN ONLY.* * Not a bot. Not a seller. Not a scammer. Don't have an OnlyFans or any website to subscribe to. I pay my own bills. Don't insult me. 😒 * *I DO NOT HAVE SNAPCHAT.* * 29, natural born female, Columbus area of Ohio. Mixed black and white. 42 c, BBW, flat ass lol 😔 I'm a busy and devoted mom of one and live alone with my kiddo. When I'm not busy working, I'm parenting. I get every other weekend to myself. That's 48 hours of free time every 12 days. And I have to be picky with how I spend it. Not online often. * I have been single for a bit over 3 years, and celibate for a bit over 9 months. I'm here because I like being part of this community of like-minded people, and I'm a bit too kinky to settle down with someone vanilla. Life is too short to pretend like good sex isn't important. I'm not interested in hookups, quickies, or fwb at all. I won't be immediately jumping into sexting. I'm in no hurry to meet up in real life. If I get into a relationship, it will only be after an extremely long and slow courtship. I'm only interested in moving extremely, almost obnoxiously slow. My walls are fortified, but I'm open to someone patient enough to knock them down. That being said, if you can't have a normal conversation with me, or approach me in a gentlemanly way, *don't approach me.* Dick is easier to get than clean water, and there is nothing special enough about yours to get you out of having some decency when speaking to a lady. Whenever I decide to settle back down with someone, and give myself to someone, it will be someone respectful, intelligent, caring, tall, and charming. Someone who doesn't need to be told/reminded to bring fresh flowers 💐 * When I manage to get moment or two to myself, I enjoy reading (historical fiction is my jam), trying new recipes, cleaning, YouTube, and listening to music. I also enjoy going out to dinner, the movies, and live sports. 420 friendly. * My main kinks include anal, free use, tpe (just Google it lol), creampies (I'm on the pill), bondage, and ***d orgasms. I'm very open minded. I like to follow directions and I get the most pleasure from making sure my partner is pleased. Whatever that might mean for him. That being said, my celibacy is important to me, and I am completely unwilling to give it up to someone who doesn't think they need to put in any effort for it. * Thanks for reading 😇 if I haven't scared you away, start a conversation with me. ❤️

ABOUT ME . ✦ In the interest of not wasting anyone's time; I'm "thicc", "curvy", "voluptuous", [insert additional descriptors here]. I'm not thin, my photos are not an inaccurate portrayal of me but I do utilize careful angles and lighting to best accentuate and flatter my shape. If this is a problem then move along. ✦ My physical description is 5'4", blue eyes, long auburn hair, measurements 52-38-55. ✦ Massive nerd, very into DC and Marvel, yes I cosplay and no I do not (and will not) wear cosplays during scenes/play. At least not any of my expensive and ***stakingly crafted ones, but I'm not opposed to sexy outfits/costumes in the bedroom. ✦ The farthest thing from religious or conservative. Anyone prescribing to either of those need not apply ✦ I'm a very straightforward, no nonsense kind of person. Opinionated, non-traditional, independent. ✦ Switch (commonly mistaken for a Domme). When I Domme/top it is usually with a female/femme partner. As a sub I tend to be bratty and engage in power play, and prefer male/masc Doms. Not set in stone, just a common pattern. ✦ Sapiosexual. Intelligence in a partner is a requirement for me to be attracted to them. (Note: this does not mean you have to have some crazy high IQ, and keep in mind that emotional intelligence falls under this umbrella). ✦ Demisexual. This one is hard to explain succinctly but basically I’m not going to want to sleep with you until we form some kind of emotional bond. This is NOT a preference, I will have literally zero sexual interest in you until I know you better as a person. Google may be your friend on this one. ✦ Sadomasochist. Heavy on the sadism (giving), light on the masochism (receiving). ✦ I'm a bit of a control freak in my day-to-day, so being relieved of that burden is certainly welcome, though because of this subservience from me is something that requires patience and trust. . . WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR . ✦ Primarily in the market for a male/masc Dom right now (subject to change) ✦ Preferably partners with experience in BDSM or D/s ✦ Intelligence (very important) ✦ Currently looking to explore being sub to a sensual/gentle Dom and partaking in some sensation play (candle wax, blindfolds, restraints, feathers, ice, etc). I'm also curious about exploring some facets of the Daddy Dom and little/middle dynamic. ✦ Someone who takes negotiation, consent, and safety VERY seriously. Safe, sane, consensual, friends. ✦ A partner interested in helping me to explore, learn, grow, improve. . . WHAT I AM -NOT- LOOKING FOR . ✦ Submissive males. At least….not at this moment. ✦ "Fake" Doms, or people who confuse being a TOP for being a DOM. They are two very different things. Please learn the difference. ✦ Anyone who's knowledge of BDSM was wholly derived from 50 Shades of Grey. ✦ Long distance relationships/arrangements. I've done it, not interested in doing it again. ✦ Couples, poly, or open relationships. I'm not interested in being anyone's unicorn or entering into any pre-existing dynamics. I have no moral issue with those who are in such arrangements but they're not for me. (UPDATE: I am -tentatively- exploring polyamory.) . . If you've any questions or find our interests to be compatible then please feel free to contact me.