BDSM Dating in Oklahoma City

Feral Feline Pet | Pleasure-Focused Daddy Dynamic

About Me:
I’m a feral-natured feline pet—instinctual, perceptive, and responsive to presence more than words. I don’t rush closeness, and I don’t soften on command. I settle when I feel contained, not chased.

I’m ENM, married with kids, and date independently. I value depth, pacing, and intentional connection. I enjoy being out in the world—live music, comedy clubs, walks, conversation—and I’m most drawn to men who are steady enough to let tension exist without needing to resolve it immediately.

I bond through tone, timing, and attunement. I test lightly, circle a bit, and choose when to come in. When I do, I’m deeply loyal, affectionate, and responsive to calm authority.

The Dynamic I’m Seeking:
A pleasure-focused Daddy Dom with grounded, adult energy (not age-play). Someone who understands that leadership isn’t loud and dominance isn’t rushed. You’re comfortable holding space, setting tone, and letting trust build naturally.

I’m interested in an ongoing Daddy/Pet dynamic where consent, negotiation, and aftercare are assumed—not negotiated under pressure. I thrive with restraint, anticipation, and confidence that doesn’t need to prove itself.

Not a Match If:

You expect instant submission or obedience

You confuse dominance with control or entitlement

You rush intimacy or escalate sexually early

You avoid conversation or emotional presence


Green Flags to Me:
Stillness. Consistency. Clear communication. The ability to read energy and decide when to act—and when not to.