Find kinky women in Oklahoma City

I am a strong and autonomous woman, who faces every challenge with determination. I always fight for what I deserve and what I want, including this time changing my course in love.My job allows me to move to another city in case I manage to find my ideal partner to make a life together as a couple
Female (37) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
fun loving person , Very easy going down to earth ,I love nature ,I love to explore , I love cooking , reading , fishing , camping , reading , hiking , I'm very striaght forward person , I love communication
Female (65) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
Looking for a soft top/daddy dom for regular punishments/nurturing. Not into heavy *** at all. More the power exchange. Not interested in drama. IF YOU ARE UNDER 25 - PLEASE KEEP LOOKING! 😘 Only interested in 25+.
Female (34) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
UPDATED 12/26/25 ~ Read Before You Approach This is not flirtation. This is discernment. I move through kink with Lilith fully awake — sovereign, sexual, and unapologetically selective. I am not here to be rushed, sampled, ordered, or consumed. I am here because I choose to be, and choice is the foundation of my submission. Astrologically and energetically, I am not soft entry. • Virgo Sun — I observe, analyze, and see through masks with precision. • Sagittarius Moon — truth is non-negotiable. Dishonesty ends access immediately. • Venus & Mercury in Libra — seduction begins with respect, balance, and intelligent communication. • Mars in Leo — I respond to embodied confidence, not performative dominance. • Lilith — she kneels only in the presence of reverence. So let’s be unmistakably clear. What is NOT welcome in my orbit: ⛓️ Anyone under 35. I do not date potential. I do not initiate boys into manhood. ⛓️ Married, poly, ENM, FWB, ONS, or “open to whatever” men. My submission is exclusive. My energy bonds deeply. This altar is for one. ⛓️ Dominance without containment. If you lead with commands instead of curiosity, you already lack the authority you claim. ⛓️ Instant-access mentalities. Submission is not a free sample. It is cultivated slowly, deliberately, and with discipline. ⛓️ Porn-brained or entitlement-driven approaches. I am not here to perform, prove, or gratify without intention. ⛓️ Emotional opacity or inconsistency. If I ever have to ask where I stand, you are not dominant — you are avoidant. ⛓️ Power without responsibility. Control without protection, care, and follow-through will never touch me. Disrespect me once and you are done. No corrections. No debates. No second chances. Real power is quiet. What I am looking for: I am selecting a Dominant man who understands that authority is not about *** — it is about presence, responsibility, and restraint. ⛓️ You are emotionally intelligent and self-aware. You know your shadow and do not *** mine. You can name what you want, feel, and offer. ⛓️ You lead with calm, embodied authority. You do not announce dominance — it is felt in how you hold space, make decisions, and remain consistent. ⛓️ You understand earned submission. You know surrender is given, not taken — and that trust is the ultimate exchange of power. ⛓️ You desire exclusive, intentional D/s. One woman. One dynamic. Depth over novelty. Devotion over distraction. ⛓️ You communicate clearly and consistently. Transparency is mandatory. I will never guess where I stand with you — and you will never guess with me. ⛓️ You value reciprocity. Presence, effort, protection, desire, and devotion flow both ways. ⛓️ You possess patience and discipline. You understand that restraint builds intensity, and anticipation is a form of control. I am an alpha submissive — intelligent, strong-willed, discerning. I do not disappear in submission; I expand within it. I have lived on both sides of power. I know dominance. I know surrender. What I offer now is devotional submission, earned through integrity, consistency, and care. For the right man, my kneel is profound — loyal, sensual, intuitive, and fierce. Reciprocity is law. Presence is currency. Trust is sacred. If you are here to take without earning, dominate without devotion, or consume without consequence — leave now. If you understand that true dominance is protective, patient, and precise… If you know how to command without cruelty and claim without consuming… Then you may be worthy of my submission. Enter with intention — or do not enter at all.
Female (44) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
i am a dom looking for online fun with girls and guys would love a couple of subs to play with and definitly into latex play
Female (24) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
I am a switch. I brat when I want, but I love a man on his knees! Something my man doesnt do. so I am out here looking around. Found my way into kink starting with FD, ... and It grew from there! kinks include: FD, Ignoring, Spit, chasity, SPH, GFE, Game sluts, little bit of pet play , 420 friendly, Feet, cucking, ***, praise of any kind! , ass worship! Limits: ***, toilet stuff, my man, age play, *** Also i stream on twitch. if ya wanna see me live. come say hi. Keibaret if I don't find you adorable or attractive. i wont respond. i have a type and like to stick to it.
Female (29) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
I’ve known about fet for basically a decade but never got the guts to actually get on here, im super shy at first, i guess maybe its just the sub in me.
Female (31) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
I am a parent, a college student, and avid adventurer! I love exploring new places, meeting new people, and trying new things. A little slow to warm, but I have a lot of love to give once it's earned. I have an anchor partner already. I am looking for one to maybe two other long-term partners, and I don't have a limit on friends - I'm not looking for FWB or fuck buddies. Don't come out the gate swingin' or you will be curbed.
Female (25) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
I consider myself pansexual and non monogamous. I'm also not single. I'm quirky and a bit complicated. Anything you want to know, just ask.
Female (39) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
Im a transwoman, sexually I am bottom only with me, flexible with women. D/s I am typically dominant with women and submissive with men. ive been in tbe community 13 years, I dont look my age. I enjoy a good fuck.
Female (36) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
A veterinary assistant student with a kind heart, finding joy in the pages of romance novels. Prefers quiet moments and the thrill of horror movies, often enjoying a peaceful, solitary vibe.
Female (20) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
Hey there, I’m currently in school, work part time. I love trying new things and meeting new people! turned on by good conversation, sexy eyes, and fun people.
Female (19) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
Puppy girl looking for her owner. Only looking for serious relationship, please don’t message me with casual interest.
Female (27) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
just a kinky girl with Daddy issues looking for male approval. or Mommy issues and female approval. I'm really not particular. Just call me a good girl. no long distance, I don't host. meet in public is mandatory first.
Female (38) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
I’m looking for an actual, experienced daddy dom in creating a long-term, online relationship based on expectations, rules, schedules, and punishments. Something that goes beyond mere dirty talk and is genuine. I often forget to prioritize other parts of myself due to work and grad school, and would like a caring, yet firm dom to keep me in check. I’m a submissive and want structure. Please don’t reach out just for role play, anything dirty, or obnoxious. If you are looking for an online little/submissive, is literature, mature, has experience, and is willing to set expectations, please reach out. I will, in turn, be the best sub I can be for you. If we match, please make the first move and message me first. I appreciate it when a dom starts and guides the discussion.
Female (23) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
Hello everyone! Looking to explore and discover new kinks. Adding extra is always better ☺️
Female (47) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
I am 34 years old single from Oklahoma City ready to meet local men that know how to treat a woman I aim to please I love to satisfy so hopefully I get there in return you know send me a message get to know each other take it from there
Female (34) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
**;) Yes, I have one of those pages, and yes you can ask about it.** I'm demisexual. I don't do hookups! Don't message me saying nasty stuff as your opening line. Get to know me first and let that part come naturally. I'm a 40 year old kink late-bloomer. I'm a spicy entertainer with natural massive N cups. The discoloration on my skin is from a severe, year-long full-body psoriasis flare. I'm better now.
Female (40) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
I travel from Oklahoma to Michigan and Florida throughout the year. Just to switch it up a bit, I wanna have fun with someone and I’m into freaky stuff I’d go into detail but for the most part extreme doms gentle or not is up my alley. I’m a size queen and need more than 7 inches. I have a man but he’s always working and doesn’t really satisfy me the way I need. hoping someone can help😊 I’m into age play, bbc, trained to be a slave/owned not much I’m not into no limits
Female (22) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
A blue dot living in a red state. Its rough out here. (not in a fun way) I'm an aunt, dog mom, and daughter. I'm a sub looking for a Dom for a long term relationship.
Female (42) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
if you have no picture you will get no response! I want a dominate man! If you want to be submissive in anyway we will not work. Tie me up strap me down while treating me like a princess. I'm not into degrading in any form it's a huge turn off. You must be respectful open doors ya know treat a woman like a lady. I'm very old school. Must know how to lead and not to disaster!
Female (37) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
babygirl🖤🎀 I just want to find a daddy/caregiver🥺 I do not enjoy or like being dominant️ I’m very silly and goofy😋 I can honestly talk about anything feel free to message me
Female (24) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
looking to explore and try anything and everything with a daddy. almost 20, the app won’t let me correct my age! need to be used by you and your friends, dad, brothers anyone you’d share me with. curious about knot
Female (23) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
Authority isn't requested, it's recognized. Seeking a submissive whose surrender is intentional and deep. Discipline refines, control liberates. Your obedience is the foundation. Approach with respect and clarity.
Female (36) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma

New members in Oklahoma City

I am a strong and autonomous woman, who faces every challenge with determination. I always fight for what I deserve and what I want, including this time changing my course in love.My job allows me to move to another city in case I manage to find my ideal partner to make a life together as a couple
Female (37) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
fun loving person , Very easy going down to earth ,I love nature ,I love to explore , I love cooking , reading , fishing , camping , reading , hiking , I'm very striaght forward person , I love communication
Female (65) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
Looking for a soft top/daddy dom for regular punishments/nurturing. Not into heavy *** at all. More the power exchange. Not interested in drama. IF YOU ARE UNDER 25 - PLEASE KEEP LOOKING! 😘 Only interested in 25+.
Female (34) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
I am a parent, a college student, and avid adventurer! I love exploring new places, meeting new people, and trying new things. A little slow to warm, but I have a lot of love to give once it's earned. I have an anchor partner already. I am looking for one to maybe two other long-term partners, and I don't have a limit on friends - I'm not looking for FWB or fuck buddies. Don't come out the gate swingin' or you will be curbed.
Female (25) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
Im a transwoman, sexually I am bottom only with me, flexible with women. D/s I am typically dominant with women and submissive with men. ive been in tbe community 13 years, I dont look my age. I enjoy a good fuck.
Female (36) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
I am 34 years old single from Oklahoma City ready to meet local men that know how to treat a woman I aim to please I love to satisfy so hopefully I get there in return you know send me a message get to know each other take it from there
Female (34) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
Puppy girl looking for her owner. Only looking for serious relationship, please don’t message me with casual interest.
Female (27) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
I’ve known about fet for basically a decade but never got the guts to actually get on here, im super shy at first, i guess maybe its just the sub in me.
Female (31) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
My name Is Tricia in 33 and want to test my limits and see what all my kinks are been in LS for almost a year and love everything about it
Female (33) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
Honestly looking for a sperm donor that would be allowed to fuck me as many times as it takes to get me pregnant
Female (38) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
I am a switch. I brat when I want, but I love a man on his knees! Something my man doesnt do. so I am out here looking around. Found my way into kink starting with FD, ... and It grew from there! kinks include: FD, Ignoring, Spit, chasity, SPH, GFE, Game sluts, little bit of pet play , 420 friendly, Feet, cucking, ***, praise of any kind! , ass worship! Limits: ***, toilet stuff, my man, age play, *** Also i stream on twitch. if ya wanna see me live. come say hi. Keibaret if I don't find you adorable or attractive. i wont respond. i have a type and like to stick to it.
Female (29) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
A blue dot living in a red state. Its rough out here. (not in a fun way) I'm an aunt, dog mom, and daughter. I'm a sub looking for a Dom for a long term relationship.
Female (42) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
I am a alpha who knows how to be sensual and submissive . im not here for cyber sex i won't send you pictures unless I desire to invite you to my personal space... I love to enjoy life capturing it all with my camera ..the alpha in me won't allow me to be a easy catch .. there's millions of Dominant men but there only one for me he is my guidance , protection, my caretaker , my master to him I only obey
Female (48) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
OKC based but travels often. About me: - Lesbian - Artist, small business owner - Dog mom to two rescue Dalmatians - Child free by choice - Shortie (5' 0") - Hopeless romantic - Nature lover - Polyamorous & very kinky (Leatherwoman) - Cuddlebug (once I feel comfortable with you) - IG: extraspicykitten (messages welcome there) Looking for: - Masc with good top energy - Real connection and intimacy - Friends/Cuddle Buddies - Romantic partner(s) Not looking for: - Men - To be your unicorn
Female (41) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
just a kinky girl with Daddy issues looking for male approval. or Mommy issues and female approval. I'm really not particular. Just call me a good girl. no long distance, I don't host. meet in public is mandatory first.
Female (38) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
I’m 24 f and im married to my husband who’s 33 we’re looking for a female to make us a triad. we would like a female who could be dominant over me but still submit to my hubby. we do have 2 *** and 2dogs. im shy and awkward till you get to know me then im loud and talk a lot. hubby is more of a golden retriever gamer boy and is a good listener.
Female (24) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
I'm a disabled veteran who spends her days doing art and looking after her pets. I'm looking for someones who would want to spend time doing things together in and out of the bedroom. I have 3 cats, a crazy puppy and a bird. I am an omnitheist, do Tarot card readings, ect. and don't intend to change that. I'm not a Democrat or Republican I think both do good and stupid things. I'm 100% 420, and while I'm big natural remedies, I still go to the doctor when needed.
Female (33) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
my name is tabathia and I am 32 I am in relationship but at the same time, I'm trying to figure out how I feel about my relationship and trying to figure out if it's worth fighting for and u are more welcome to ask me anything about it or anything
Female (32) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
Service sub, straight but open to polygamous relationship. idk what else to type...ask me
Female (45) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
lookin for funnn I’m into sending pics, but you need to be polite! if you don’t say thank you, we probably won’t talk. https://giftful.com/wishlists/rYz7h6hCgbnim4ZlHWFa
Female (25) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
Hopeless Romantic 🥰 Published Author ✍🏼 A Good Girl 😇 Praise Lover ☺️ Avid Reader 📚 Monster F*ker 👹 Being Knotted and Bred 🪢 I would REALLY like to expand my knowledge on DD/lg roles and a 24/7 D/s dynamic. While I'm not "new" to the lifestyle, I am not extremely experienced either. I've been out of the lifestyle for years while I recovered physically, emotionally and mentally from a Dominant that ***d the power I gave him. I'm finally in a place where I feel I can trust myself and would, ideally, like to find someone that would be open and willing to help me explore more of my kinks/identities. While I primarily require gentle/sensual domination, I'm open to rough play occasionally. I DO NOT do well with anger or aggression. While I am seeking a potential partner, please keep all messages appropriate and polite. I do not consider myself a submissive, unless my submission has been earned. In general, when asked, I would call myself a bottom.
Female (32) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
i am a dom looking for online fun with girls and guys would love a couple of subs to play with and definitly into latex play
Female (24) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
Hey there, I’m currently in school, work part time. I love trying new things and meeting new people! turned on by good conversation, sexy eyes, and fun people.
Female (19) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
lived too long not knowing what was out there. Spent the last couple years finding out what I like. I want more fun with someone who enjoys what I do!
Female (53) Oklahoma City, Oklahoma

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