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Female (41) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I'm new to this but am definitely a submissive seeking structure, order, and a steady hand in a dynamic. Still at a stage where I don't know if I'm a hopeless romantic or just wanting to default to following orders and being good for a dom that tolerates me. Ideally, I'd like to meet someone I can build a future with, being theirs and fulfilling eachothers needs. I want to be able to hand the reigns over and give control to my Dom where all I need to do is be theirs and be good for them - albeit I love pushing boundaries and need to be put in my place more often than not because I go too far on everything if left unchecked. My poor roommate has been my 'guidance' (stops me from burning home down. Bought arc welder while left to my own devices) after I had split with my partner and thats whats pushing me to get out there, I want someone to tell me no, tell me why im probably going to be wrong or not, someone to tell me good job and for me to make proud. Uhh anyways yeah thats about it see ya.
Female (24) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Not interested in flings or one night stands. >A little fragile, a little feisty.< I love tattoos and piercings! Demi Bisexual - She/Her Please don't message me being a horny weirdo right off the bat. I'm a person, please don't treat me like a sex object.
Female (30) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I love to be made a dog, collared, leashed and walking on all fours eatting out of pet bowls on the flooor,mitted with puppy paws and hooded with a puppy hood, I also like being cuffed, tied up. I love doggy sex, anal sex ruff hard and aggressive
Female (46) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I am a married woman looking to add a 3rd to our dynamic. We have a fantasy dream of having one man in my pussy while I am being face fucked by another. I can not bring myself to do this without at least a friendship established though so be aware of that. Thanks for looking 🥰
Female (34) Tulsa, Oklahoma
In a poly house, Collared & NOT looking WILL NOT PLAY OUTSIDE OF POLY HOUSE!! Hello everyone! 👋🏻 Looking for friends! she is a sub, little, slave, and pig (would love more little + pet friends!). she has been in the lifestyle for about 12 years now and am always looking to learn more. Couple Profile: MstrLPndpiggysvn
Female (31) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Hello guys how are you please reach out if you are interested I am into DDLG BDSM Kinks Handcuffs Being tied up Orgasm Denial Overstimulation Temperature Play Being ***d Sensory Deprivation Pet Play *** Wax Play Aftercare
Female (25) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I just wanna be someone' s pretty little baby 😍wanna be used, want my limits pushed, and want to be bred and tied up and ***d to cum, letting you freeuse all the time, my love language is definitely touching so I love being all over my Daddy, you're on the game or whatever, no complaints I'll just be here, keeping your c***warm, you need to go somewhere I'm coming with so I can play with your on the way🤤🥺 WHERES MY DADDYYY🥹😈💖
Female (24) Tulsa, Oklahoma
First things first ! I love to talk back to see how far it will get me 😈 Masks excite me 🤤 Patient men are hot 🔥 You can't punish what you can't catch 😏 ✨️ Tatted & Pierced Domiants with bikes to the front of the line !! ✨️ 👸 Why is it so hard for a naughty bratty princess to find her king daddy ? 🤴 I'm not looking for ANYTHING discrete , I'm a Princess that should be shown off so why hide me ? Hmm what else ? oh ! just got out of a 4yr relationship with a fake ass, narcissistic, man child of a " Dom " so I will call you out on your B.S. quickly 😘
Female (33) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I’m rebellious and a train wreck. I admit I’m a lot. If I’m too much for you, go find less. Sarcasm is my 1st language…a sense of humor is must or you might be offended. ——————————————————- ~blunt ~direct ~honest to a fault I’m all 3 of these, & if you can’t handle that, then don’t bother. Clear communication is key to avoid assumptions. And text goes both ways. ***Match my effort*** ————————————————— Oh, and you say, being honest is the best policy…haha. NO. - you want the truth? You can’t handle the truth?— truer words were never spoken. —————————————————- But once I’m care, I’m the most loyal person you will ever meet. My curse is I feel too much and too deep. —————————————————- My Zoomie brain will bunny hop topic to topic. Slightly confusing. Sometimes alarming. Mostly amusing. Never boring. — in text But you’ll never know it because I’m quiet in person, especially in groups. ——————————————————— What am I looking for? A man that can handle this train wreck. A man who can shut my brain off. It runs 25/8-overtime. ——————————————————- I’m looking for LTFWB —that option is not on the list —hand pics, not dic pics…that’s not a joke -separated
Female (52) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Hey, I'm a thick ebony woman that likes to get her freak on. I'm very much dominant in the bedroom if you down to know more just hit me with a message. 😜😈💋
Female (38) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I’m a submissive who thrives in consistency, intention, and earned authority. I offer devotion, presence, and depth—not performance. I’m drawn to Dominants who lead with calm confidence, emotional intelligence, and follow-through. I want a dynamic built on trust, communication, and mutual care—where guidance feels safe, structure feels grounding, and connection exists both inside and outside the bedroom. If you value responsibility as much as control, we’ll speak the same language.
Female (43) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Disclaimer: I do currently have 1 sub so you would need to be cool with that. ~Im a soft mommy dom and a sfw cg(separately) in Oklahoma ~Looking for irl subs/ sfw littles(near me/willing to travel) ~Huge pegging kink ~Have as little experience as possible ~Be UNDER 24 ~Be feminine or willing to be No couples. No disrespectful brats. and do not text me no wyd and hru. Ask for socials, and no, I won't text you first.
Female (19) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I'm a Domme looking for cool people to connect with whether that's subs, other Dom(mes), or polyam people!
Female (24) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Just a bratty needy little bitch who’s deeply afraid of people and intimacy despite craving them… I mean I’m like super cool and hot and definitely not mentally ill… at least I’m medicated? and cute?
Female (25) Tulsa, Oklahoma
hii I'm kaila ♡ I'm 420 friendly😚💨 looking to join a fun couple, find myself a gf or a girl and seeing where it goes 🤞 and maybe a male fuck buddy..tbd ☺️
Female (36) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I am new to actively looking for someone within the DD/LG BDSM community. Looking for a DD/Dom that is wanting a long term relationship (hoping this isn’t too much to ask for) that is patient and willing to teach and help me explore & experiences different things to find my liked and dislikes. I have some minimal experience as a Sub but just started the with the DD/LG aspect but I am very excited
Female (44) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I’m a bratty, submissive, poly, bisexual looking for a woman to have fun with. I’m open to a relationship, dating, fwb and friendships but not hook ups. I’m demisexual and need a connection of at least friendship with my play partner. I’m in a very happy relationship with a man who will not be involved in any way. I’m not interested in men or being a third in a m/f relationship. A domme would be fantastic. My hard limits are no bodily fluids play of any type and no ***. My favorites are impact play, bondage, prey, praise and I’m open to experimenting within my boundaries.
Female (47) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I am very submissive! just looking to see what's out there really lol
Female (30) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I’m not really out here looking for something serious… but the funny thing about me is, when I click with someone, I fall into them fast. And I behave. Mostly. I have a weakness for older men — men who don’t ask what they’re allowed to do, they just do it. Confidence looks good on a man… control looks even better. Take me out for a drink and make me squirm, pull me in close like you already decided what happens next. I’ll pretend to resist, just to see how long it takes you to stop playing nice. I’m a brat in the sweetest way — I push, I tease, I test boundaries… but it’s only because I like being put back in my place. If you can make my toes curl, I get very loyal, very quickly. Maybe too quickly. CNC is my favorite lane — the danger, the tension, the surrender. The part where I don’t get to choose, but I’m still choosing you. Ask me about my fantasies. I’ll act shy at first… but you’ll know exactly what I want.
Female (26) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I'm pretty shy. I don't have much of a life outside of work and my kids. my husband and I have been married for going on 9 yrs. he kinda wants to explore but baby steps.
Female (34) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I’ve spent years stuck in books and fantasies, craving things I’ve never had the chance to actually live out. CNC, primal chase, bondage, breath play, rough manhandling — if it leaves me powerless and fighting against it, I want it. Praise ruins me, primal energy twists the knife, and the right mix of the two will wreck me in the best way. I don’t do half-assed. If you’re just here for quick dirty talk, keep scrolling. Safewords, aftercare, and trust aren’t negotiable — they’re the foundation what make it safe to hand over every ounce of control. I want someone who knows how to take control, push limits, and enjoy the struggle. If you’re confident enough to own that side of yourself, I’ll give you plenty to break down.
Female (24) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I enjoy sex but I also enjoy taking control. I love to receive oral. You may receive it back if I like you. I’m materialistic and I like nice things. I also know how to be nasty when your girl can’t.
Female (39) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I am looking for to meet New people and be friends with I love to spend time with my daughter and play video games and color and read I love to listen to music and sing and dance and watch anime jessica _k202587
Female (37) Tulsa, Oklahoma

New members in Tulsa

I'm new to this but am definitely a submissive seeking structure, order, and a steady hand in a dynamic. Still at a stage where I don't know if I'm a hopeless romantic or just wanting to default to following orders and being good for a dom that tolerates me. Ideally, I'd like to meet someone I can build a future with, being theirs and fulfilling eachothers needs. I want to be able to hand the reigns over and give control to my Dom where all I need to do is be theirs and be good for them - albeit I love pushing boundaries and need to be put in my place more often than not because I go too far on everything if left unchecked. My poor roommate has been my 'guidance' (stops me from burning home down. Bought arc welder while left to my own devices) after I had split with my partner and thats whats pushing me to get out there, I want someone to tell me no, tell me why im probably going to be wrong or not, someone to tell me good job and for me to make proud. Uhh anyways yeah thats about it see ya.
Female (24) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I love to be made a dog, collared, leashed and walking on all fours eatting out of pet bowls on the flooor,mitted with puppy paws and hooded with a puppy hood, I also like being cuffed, tied up. I love doggy sex, anal sex ruff hard and aggressive
Female (46) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I am a married woman looking to add a 3rd to our dynamic. We have a fantasy dream of having one man in my pussy while I am being face fucked by another. I can not bring myself to do this without at least a friendship established though so be aware of that. Thanks for looking 🥰
Female (34) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Not interested in flings or one night stands. >A little fragile, a little feisty.< I love tattoos and piercings! Demi Bisexual - She/Her Please don't message me being a horny weirdo right off the bat. I'm a person, please don't treat me like a sex object.
Female (30) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Check out our couples profile Just looking to have a little fun and explore new sexual experiences
Female (41) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Hello guys how are you please reach out if you are interested I am into DDLG BDSM Kinks Handcuffs Being tied up Orgasm Denial Overstimulation Temperature Play Being ***d Sensory Deprivation Pet Play *** Wax Play Aftercare
Female (25) Tulsa, Oklahoma
In a poly house, Collared & NOT looking WILL NOT PLAY OUTSIDE OF POLY HOUSE!! Hello everyone! 👋🏻 Looking for friends! she is a sub, little, slave, and pig (would love more little + pet friends!). she has been in the lifestyle for about 12 years now and am always looking to learn more. Couple Profile: MstrLPndpiggysvn
Female (31) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I enjoy sex but I also enjoy taking control. I love to receive oral. You may receive it back if I like you. I’m materialistic and I like nice things. I also know how to be nasty when your girl can’t.
Female (39) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I'm pretty shy. I don't have much of a life outside of work and my kids. my husband and I have been married for going on 9 yrs. he kinda wants to explore but baby steps.
Female (34) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I just wanna be someone' s pretty little baby 😍wanna be used, want my limits pushed, and want to be bred and tied up and ***d to cum, letting you freeuse all the time, my love language is definitely touching so I love being all over my Daddy, you're on the game or whatever, no complaints I'll just be here, keeping your c***warm, you need to go somewhere I'm coming with so I can play with your on the way🤤🥺 WHERES MY DADDYYY🥹😈💖
Female (24) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I’m rebellious and a train wreck. I admit I’m a lot. If I’m too much for you, go find less. Sarcasm is my 1st language…a sense of humor is must or you might be offended. ——————————————————- ~blunt ~direct ~honest to a fault I’m all 3 of these, & if you can’t handle that, then don’t bother. Clear communication is key to avoid assumptions. And text goes both ways. ***Match my effort*** ————————————————— Oh, and you say, being honest is the best policy…haha. NO. - you want the truth? You can’t handle the truth?— truer words were never spoken. —————————————————- But once I’m care, I’m the most loyal person you will ever meet. My curse is I feel too much and too deep. —————————————————- My Zoomie brain will bunny hop topic to topic. Slightly confusing. Sometimes alarming. Mostly amusing. Never boring. — in text But you’ll never know it because I’m quiet in person, especially in groups. ——————————————————— What am I looking for? A man that can handle this train wreck. A man who can shut my brain off. It runs 25/8-overtime. ——————————————————- I’m looking for LTFWB —that option is not on the list —hand pics, not dic pics…that’s not a joke -separated
Female (52) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Soft but not fragile 🌸 Black girl magic ✨🤎🤎 Bisexual 🌈 women + men welcome I value intention, affection, and being spoiled ✨ Here for genuine connection and my chosen people 🤍
Female (25) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I am looking for to meet New people and be friends with I love to spend time with my daughter and play video games and color and read I love to listen to music and sing and dance and watch anime jessica _k202587
Female (37) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I’m exploring my kinky interests. I’m a switch and would like to test my dominant side. I’m also a big brat so also open to see who can take the challenge. I’m demisexual so personalities and connections are important to me. Not looking for anything serious and just looking to have fun. Sorry if I’m awkward I am AuDHD so please be patient with me.
Female (26) Tulsa, Oklahoma
If you love attention we’ve got plenty to give. ✨ you me + him is 3 ✨ we love good food, good drink and good times. Maybe you do too 😊 Vasectomy ✔️ 8.5 size queens you're in luck Skiatook lake 🛥️ on our days off
Female (29) Tulsa, Oklahoma
just here to look around, learn, and post when i feel cute. into soft kink, good banter, and people who respect boundaries. premium content available !
Female (20) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I’m complex and sensitive, sweet and spicy. Looking for something meaningful, deep, and sexy. Very submissive and giving but I also love to be pampered and taken care of. You may use me as you wish but I have expectations and high standards. I love massages, I am diagnosed with hEDS so I’m often feeling tense and achy but it makes me flexible and soft, you’ll enjoy rubbing all over me and will be heavily rewarded. (; I have an insatiable energy about me so beware that you may have met your match in the bedroom! I like to have fun, play, experiment, and connect in an almost spiritual way during sex. Please be on the same level. I enjoy a variety of things but especially love being praised and degraded simultaneously. I’m a very good bad girl. I love being the center of attention and like to be shared, MMF & GBs please. (: If something serious were to develop I would be open to it but as of now I have a lot of life to deal with and some healing to do from my last serious relationship. I have trust issues, will need proof you get tested. I have strong morals, NO SNEAKING. NO CHEATERS. NO LIES. Be authentic. Show me the real you and I will embrace you. Show me a false version and I will reject. I can be fiery if you land on my bad side. I am very understanding and forgiving but please do not test me.
Female (30) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I’m a single mom with tattoos, thick thighs and pretty eyes. Finding a partner that matches me and has a high sex drive is what excites me. I honestly don’t know what I want out of this yet
Female (25) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Disclaimer: I do currently have 1 sub so you would need to be cool with that. ~Im a soft mommy dom and a sfw cg(separately) in Oklahoma ~Looking for irl subs/ sfw littles(near me/willing to travel) ~Huge pegging kink ~Have as little experience as possible ~Be UNDER 24 ~Be feminine or willing to be No couples. No disrespectful brats. and do not text me no wyd and hru. Ask for socials, and no, I won't text you first.
Female (19) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I am very submissive! just looking to see what's out there really lol
Female (30) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Hi! I am 18 years deep into the lifestyle. I enjoy being a rope bunny and *** slut. I have a praise kink but I also love being told how well I take *** so remember that tip tehe tip lol. Also into *** but that has to come from someone I respect. I take care of myself and if mistreated I will drop you without explanation, we are all too old for that shit. I set my filters to show only ones with profile pictures, if none contain your face then walk on home boy! I am a metalhead before anything else and I love roasting back and forth just taking shit. If the attitude isn't apparent by now 🤣 this ain't my first rodeo and no I do not want to train anyone nor do I want a submissive. 🖤🖤🖤
Female (35) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I’m not really out here looking for something serious… but the funny thing about me is, when I click with someone, I fall into them fast. And I behave. Mostly. I have a weakness for older men — men who don’t ask what they’re allowed to do, they just do it. Confidence looks good on a man… control looks even better. Take me out for a drink and make me squirm, pull me in close like you already decided what happens next. I’ll pretend to resist, just to see how long it takes you to stop playing nice. I’m a brat in the sweetest way — I push, I tease, I test boundaries… but it’s only because I like being put back in my place. If you can make my toes curl, I get very loyal, very quickly. Maybe too quickly. CNC is my favorite lane — the danger, the tension, the surrender. The part where I don’t get to choose, but I’m still choosing you. Ask me about my fantasies. I’ll act shy at first… but you’ll know exactly what I want.
Female (26) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I'm a Domme looking for cool people to connect with whether that's subs, other Dom(mes), or polyam people!
Female (24) Tulsa, Oklahoma

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