BDSM Crooked River

Looking for clubs / events in the Bend OR area

I'm looking for fun in and out of bed. Was doing the: meet, greet and taking to bed, but it was boring to me.
I am over being the boss. I want to be spoiled out of bed and take turns dooling in bed. My vanilla changes moment to moment. I like variety during sex. Do not expect one position (unless you forcibly put me there). Please understand that my vanilla includes nails and teeth.

My (not so) alterego needs to feel less in control, I want held down, tied up, sleeping real or imagined, ***d oral, etc

I have realized that getting waxed turns me on. Let's find a way to explore that...