Male (67) Single
Firm, gentle, and assertive
You love to serve, you love all the sensations when you have no control, but you don't really like . Stimulation and arousal are good, but and brutality are just not for you.
Consider spending time with one who has ideas, loves to please and be pleased, is willing and able to obtain your compliance without ***, but quite happy to stimulate you as needed.
Ideal date would begin vanilla, probably in public. Eye candy is its own reward. Being stylish and enjoying each other's company helps establish a more trusting bond for ... well, bonds.
Write if interested. We can get acquainted and set up some rules that work, and are safe, sane, and consensual.
