BDSM Dating in Portland

My wife and I are both poly (20+ years) and pansexual. We date together looking for LGBTQ friends and if more awesome. I’m 40 years old redhead cis woman. Plus size. Tattooed and pieced. My wife is 57 year old trans woman pre-op. Average built. We both love 420 and nature. Very body positive and sex positive. BDSM is our love language for over 20 years. My wife is my dom and I’m her sub. We do have a 17 years age gap. We are not stricked on age~you can be a little under or over our age preference.