Kinky women in Portland

It would be nice if you're the type of guy who knows how to rock my world, all the way to the core. I want to be the center of your attention and affection, the one person who makes you always want to jump my bones in the sack.

I’m a professional Dominant who believes true power has very little to do with theatrics and everything to do with presence. I’m interested in the psychology of dominance the subtle shifts in control, the discipline of restraint, and the trust that develops when two people understand exactly what they are offering one another. I’m drawn to intelligent, self-aware people who can hold a conversation, communicate honestly, and approach a dynamic with maturity. I don’t need you to impress me. I’m far more interested in who you are when there is nothing to prove. For me, a meaningful D/s connection is intentional. Boundaries are discussed, consent is respected, expectations are clear, and trust is built through consistency. Submission isn’t weakness, and dominance isn’t entitlement. Both require awareness, responsibility, and the ability to respect the person behind the role. I enjoy exploring what lies beneath someone’s desires their motivations, their limits, their need for structure, and the parts of themselves they may only reveal when they feel genuinely understood. The most compelling dynamics aren’t rushed. They develop through communication, mutual respect, discipline, and chemistry. I have little interest in those looking for instant access, casual attention, or empty fantasy. My attention is deliberate, and my standards are high. If you value intelligence over bravado, composure over desperation, and genuine connection over performance, you may have my attention.

I consider myself a woman with a big heart and a lot of love to give. I am a fun, affectionate person, like to enjoy the pleasures of life, share time with my family. Do you enjoy spending time with yours? I am a person faithful to my principles and one of them always honest and loyal to my partner, in a relationship I am very understanding, like to include a lot of dialogue because I consider that it is the basis of the relationship.

Ive been kinky for ages, ever since i was very young. Ive been masterbating and into bdsm for well over ten years now. But i was mostly on my own at the time, reading erotica watching porn but was never able to really talk to anyone about it or connect with others who felt the same that i did about kink and ***ing and bondage. But i knew that there had to be something so a few years ago i caved and decided to look. Found a little app named Kinkd and someone there asked if i had an account here and thats how i found this website. Ive been 10 times as horny since then, ive been so relieved that i could find people here and build my own community. Im heavily into ***ing, bondage, edging, chastity, blindfolds, inflatable gags, medical play, dungeon play, cages, and especially fucking machines. Im willing to try all of those things for sure, and so far ive had someone tie me to a bed but that was a few years ago and its been pretty mellow since then, even though im so ready for it to be more. Im looking for someone like minded to plan with currently, figure each other out a bit, and then if we connect well enough id love to meet and just go crazy haha.

I am a 72 year-old female that finds herself for the first time not in a relationship for the past five years. I know what I want and I’m done playing. I’ve had enough play. I’m looking for a committed long-term relationship in which I can be safe be myself and explore all my kink fantasies.

I'm a submissive bottom that loves impact play, so send me a spank instead of a like. Mature lovingly sadistic Dommes to the front of the line please. ? Since men don't understand that I'm a lesbian, I've decided to become a Domme to men. I'm still 100% submissive to women. I'm only accepting non-sexual service subs, pay pigs, or both, it's your decision Send me a message, or spank, or both I'm 99% a lesbian. I'm poly, pan, post op trans, submissive BunnyJones on Fetlife

hey baby I’m dolly an erotic dancer$ & massage therapist looking for some fun while I’m in town hit me up if you want an sensual escape this is an unforgettable experience you wont forget baby

Relaxation is kind of my love language I specialize in making people feel at ease so if you want msssge Im your best match here

Control is not raised by a voice it is revealed through presence, discernment, and unwavering standards. I value intelligence, composure, and those who understand that submission begins with self-mastery before it is ever offered to another. As a professional Dominant, I seek authentic connection built on respect, consent, and accountability. I have no interest in fantasy without substance or attention without intention. Curiosity is welcome; entitlement is not. If you appreciate quiet confidence, psychological depth, and a dynamic where trust is earned rather than assumed, introduce yourself with purpose. First impressions matter.

I am a confident, feminine, and emotionally intelligent woman who enjoys taking the lead with a man who genuinely appreciates a strong, assertive lady. For me, attraction begins with conversation, trust, chemistry, and mutual respect. I value honesty, discretion, and someone who can communicate openly about their desires and boundaries. I am looking for a submissive man who finds fulfillment in pleasing a dominant woman and is curious about exploring sensual adventures built on trust, connection, and respect. Whether you're experienced or simply intrigued by the dynamic, what matters most is your sincerity, emotional maturity, and willingness to learn and grow together.

💎I’m Lux💎stripper, artist, and certified lover I’m a switch brat who is definitely more dominant leaning lately. I have a lot of experience kittening and also pup owning ! it honestly depends on our dynamic. 💎 love: pegging, cuddling, light *** play, choking, orgasm control/edging, foot/heel worship (I have some great shoes to step on you with) 💎 Disclaimer : I’m used to a luxury lifestyle and treatment from dancing for 4 years, so please come correct. 💎

Domme leaning switch Looking for friends who are into similar things; Cars Late night drives Occasional going out on the town Random spontaneous adventures

I am new to Fet, but know how to meet and explore others, mostly women. That does not mean I haven’t had fun with many diverse people. 😈 I like a good buzz, a vibration that permeates into my body and soul. Music is a huge part of who I am. I am definitely more of a bottom/submissive type as long as the mood is right. I’m looking for fun, laughs, and having a good time. I’ve been told I can be intense…whatever. 😁

Demisexual (attracted to your 💜,💭, and✊), into romance, not into hierarchy. Passionate about ideas/facts/honesty. Radical arts teacher turned carpenter. I love building things, gardening, being a rad parent, zines, music, water, board games, long walks, big adventures. Examining the intersectional, genuinely thankful for my life, not satisfied with society, polyam 25+yrs, logical yet also emotional, cptsdarling/neurodivergent, vegan, queer femme. Covid/illness cautious, vaxd, hsv1+, immunocompromised toddler, mask indoors. Illness caution and solidarity with masking is non negotiable for a deep connection with me. Love to ask a lot ?s establishing intimacy, mutually check-in. Was a Pro Domme 8 years. CRISP✨ If you only want to hookup, message me if you're sd material. 🍬 Maybe I'll come outta retirement for you. Looking for 💜, open to sugar. 😜 I'm a hard working mom and could use spoiling. 🤷🏼‍♀️ From Portland, often Seattle because my baby has a ❤️condition, just got done living at the hospital for over a year and now I'm my toddler's full-time caregiver. Currently working on a grassroots campaign to promote pediatric organ donation. Offer me solidarity and distract me with a boardgame or picnic? I have a big, intergenerational, queer house. I like to host boardgames or arts nights, I'm really into mutual aid and community. Prioritizing dating other nurturing parents into gentle parenting, unschooling. 2 gender unassigned kids, a 10yo most of the time and 24/7 parent to a 2yo. Want to love/be loved, I was dating to find a nesting partner, but I give up. 😅 Now maybe I just want a free deep friends to love on me through the week because I think I just won't find a nesting life partner at this point. Perhaps a few lovers for a few days of the week? Be my Friday night Sweetie who makes brunch Saturday? Be my Sunday boyfriend who comes to work on my yard? how about an art project Tuesday Grrrlfriend? I'm not making more babies, but I would make a great birthing partner if you want to make one or make a great bonus parent. My life is difficult, but there are perks, I love raising ***, community living, and doing projects together. Let's make out and tie each other up? Play a board game and cuddle? Wanting to feel wanted in a tender season. Adopt me into your in polycule? Indulge your lactation fetish and tell me I'm a good little mama? Fantasizing about making a postpartum-breakup, revenge album. Message just to tell me your opinion on software to use to make an album in the woods (hospital) or cheer me on.

Full time student looking to blow off steam with some online fun. looking for interesting conversations… neurodivergents to the front I have one partner fyi so looking for online only right now FUCK TERFs, Free Palestine, ACAB, Black Lives Matter, Fuck Trump. I’m a social work student and I feel like I’m compelled to seek the best for EVERYONE. We need more equity in this world. There’s literally enough for everyone why are so many people struggling. If you don’t agree, don’t bother me. Also I have a great ass.

New to this app. I consider myself to be a sub with some bratty tendencies. Definitely interested in a 24/7 D/s dynamic.

my name is Demi. I just moved to Salem Oregon from San Diego California I am looking for an amazing man who can have fun no strings attached maybe something regularly. I’m a libra I’m only 5 foot two very petite I’m French and Italian.

I’m looking for someone to play with, maybe more, I’m open to whatever the universe has to offer. likes: sensory and impact play, lingerie. communication and consent are key. seeking intentional connections ✨ come with me to a night at sanctuary or velvet rope?

I’m curious by nature. I am interested in exploring sexual pleasures. I’ve never been tied up, restrained, bound, etc.. I am very adaptable and well directed. I am very independent outside of walls , but very submissive behind closed doors. I want to challenge myself, explore my interests in BDSM and see how far my limits go. I have no issues getting WET, nor have I had any complaints on my end of things. I don’t want to mislead anyone when I say I am down to explore and down for new experiences and ideas, but because I haven’t had much experience outside of casual sex in relationships I am not as experienced as i imagine some would prefer. To be clear I am shy taking control. I am most comfortable being directed. I am not dominant. I want to meet someone who knows what they want and how to handle me accordingly. Now with that said.. Is there anyone here that is up for a challenge and down to get to know my sexy curious self.

I'm really fun with the right person that I click with. I love working with my hands and working on my own car remodeling homes refurbishing furniture and stuff. but I'm adventurous and like trying things. I love my bbc. I prefer to be with a black man. I like it if he has a very large dick. I know what I like. I would love it if he was adventurous too and would like to do some swinger clubs or party's together would be awesome someone that like to take me out and experience new things together or show me if you've already been in this. I hope to hear from my local bbc with 9"+ pipes

I’m Sweet, confident, and a little adventurous. I enjoy good conversations, genuine connections, laughter, and making beautiful memories. I’m independent, caring, and loyal, but I also know how to have fun. Looking for someone honest, respectful, and intentional someone who wants something real and meaningful.

hello! seeking people to meet in person for sex and play. not sexting. i am aromantic so absolutely not seeking long term relationships, but hopefully friends with benefits or the like! I’m also not at the moment looking for a full on dynamic or TPE but partners for play. some of my top kinks are dollification, watersports, and rough body play. I’m a switch and am totally open to trying most things (see my list of limits for what that doesn’t apply to lol!) and I like to experiment and have fun! also very very into nonmonogamy, if you’re looking for a third or an orgy member you may be in the right place! feel free to ask if you have any other questions- I won’t bite unless you tell me it’s okay! ☺️.

my bf doesn’t want to have sex so I’m trying to get fucked good i love cnc i love being degraded i love being praised and i love being a stupid brainless slut :)

I'm Stella ^-^ a proud 3rd gen Ukrainian 🇺🇦 professional photographer, and the stereotypical Oregon hiker chick. My passions are in leather, bdsm, nature, and photography 📸 I'm a subby, stubborn, whichy, little deer girl. little in spirit perhaps because Im quite tall, strong, and like to fight on my way down.. sometimes I land on top and thats ok with me ^-^ being bound in leather is one of the most exciting things for me. Tie me up and do what you want; stick me on a wall as a trophie, use me, have others do so, I'll be very pleased so long as leather is touching my skin 💕 I do infact offer boudoir photography. If that's something that may interest you, i can give you my rates, portfolio, and studio contact info 💖

It would be nice if you're the type of guy who knows how to rock my world, all the way to the core. I want to be the center of your attention and affection, the one person who makes you always want to jump my bones in the sack.

I’m a professional Dominant who believes true power has very little to do with theatrics and everything to do with presence. I’m interested in the psychology of dominance the subtle shifts in control, the discipline of restraint, and the trust that develops when two people understand exactly what they are offering one another. I’m drawn to intelligent, self-aware people who can hold a conversation, communicate honestly, and approach a dynamic with maturity. I don’t need you to impress me. I’m far more interested in who you are when there is nothing to prove. For me, a meaningful D/s connection is intentional. Boundaries are discussed, consent is respected, expectations are clear, and trust is built through consistency. Submission isn’t weakness, and dominance isn’t entitlement. Both require awareness, responsibility, and the ability to respect the person behind the role. I enjoy exploring what lies beneath someone’s desires their motivations, their limits, their need for structure, and the parts of themselves they may only reveal when they feel genuinely understood. The most compelling dynamics aren’t rushed. They develop through communication, mutual respect, discipline, and chemistry. I have little interest in those looking for instant access, casual attention, or empty fantasy. My attention is deliberate, and my standards are high. If you value intelligence over bravado, composure over desperation, and genuine connection over performance, you may have my attention.

I consider myself a woman with a big heart and a lot of love to give. I am a fun, affectionate person, like to enjoy the pleasures of life, share time with my family. Do you enjoy spending time with yours? I am a person faithful to my principles and one of them always honest and loyal to my partner, in a relationship I am very understanding, like to include a lot of dialogue because I consider that it is the basis of the relationship.

I am a confident, feminine, and emotionally intelligent woman who enjoys taking the lead with a man who genuinely appreciates a strong, assertive lady. For me, attraction begins with conversation, trust, chemistry, and mutual respect. I value honesty, discretion, and someone who can communicate openly about their desires and boundaries. I am looking for a submissive man who finds fulfillment in pleasing a dominant woman and is curious about exploring sensual adventures built on trust, connection, and respect. Whether you're experienced or simply intrigued by the dynamic, what matters most is your sincerity, emotional maturity, and willingness to learn and grow together.

Relaxation is kind of my love language I specialize in making people feel at ease so if you want msssge Im your best match here

Control is not raised by a voice it is revealed through presence, discernment, and unwavering standards. I value intelligence, composure, and those who understand that submission begins with self-mastery before it is ever offered to another. As a professional Dominant, I seek authentic connection built on respect, consent, and accountability. I have no interest in fantasy without substance or attention without intention. Curiosity is welcome; entitlement is not. If you appreciate quiet confidence, psychological depth, and a dynamic where trust is earned rather than assumed, introduce yourself with purpose. First impressions matter.

I am a 72 year-old female that finds herself for the first time not in a relationship for the past five years. I know what I want and I’m done playing. I’ve had enough play. I’m looking for a committed long-term relationship in which I can be safe be myself and explore all my kink fantasies.

Ive been kinky for ages, ever since i was very young. Ive been masterbating and into bdsm for well over ten years now. But i was mostly on my own at the time, reading erotica watching porn but was never able to really talk to anyone about it or connect with others who felt the same that i did about kink and ***ing and bondage. But i knew that there had to be something so a few years ago i caved and decided to look. Found a little app named Kinkd and someone there asked if i had an account here and thats how i found this website. Ive been 10 times as horny since then, ive been so relieved that i could find people here and build my own community. Im heavily into ***ing, bondage, edging, chastity, blindfolds, inflatable gags, medical play, dungeon play, cages, and especially fucking machines. Im willing to try all of those things for sure, and so far ive had someone tie me to a bed but that was a few years ago and its been pretty mellow since then, even though im so ready for it to be more. Im looking for someone like minded to plan with currently, figure each other out a bit, and then if we connect well enough id love to meet and just go crazy haha.

hey baby I’m dolly an erotic dancer$ & massage therapist looking for some fun while I’m in town hit me up if you want an sensual escape this is an unforgettable experience you wont forget baby

I'm a submissive bottom that loves impact play, so send me a spank instead of a like. Mature lovingly sadistic Dommes to the front of the line please. ? Since men don't understand that I'm a lesbian, I've decided to become a Domme to men. I'm still 100% submissive to women. I'm only accepting non-sexual service subs, pay pigs, or both, it's your decision Send me a message, or spank, or both I'm 99% a lesbian. I'm poly, pan, post op trans, submissive BunnyJones on Fetlife

Domme leaning switch Looking for friends who are into similar things; Cars Late night drives Occasional going out on the town Random spontaneous adventures

I'm Stella ^-^ a proud 3rd gen Ukrainian 🇺🇦 professional photographer, and the stereotypical Oregon hiker chick. My passions are in leather, bdsm, nature, and photography 📸 I'm a subby, stubborn, whichy, little deer girl. little in spirit perhaps because Im quite tall, strong, and like to fight on my way down.. sometimes I land on top and thats ok with me ^-^ being bound in leather is one of the most exciting things for me. Tie me up and do what you want; stick me on a wall as a trophie, use me, have others do so, I'll be very pleased so long as leather is touching my skin 💕 I do infact offer boudoir photography. If that's something that may interest you, i can give you my rates, portfolio, and studio contact info 💖

Mistress of Mind & Body I don't chase. I select. If you crave structure, discipline, and the thrill of surrender, we'll get along. Looking for one devoted sub to train, not to collect. Prove you're worth my time.

I’m just a brat who wants to be treated like a princess and hunted and chased until she is tamed and submitted. Good luck! I enjoy yoga, gardening, hiking, hanging with my dog, raving, partying, and deep philosophical discussions. Neurospicy af.

I’m Sweet, confident, and a little adventurous. I enjoy good conversations, genuine connections, laughter, and making beautiful memories. I’m independent, caring, and loyal, but I also know how to have fun. Looking for someone honest, respectful, and intentional someone who wants something real and meaningful.

everybody’s baby~ 🥰💋 i’d love to chat, so don’t be afraid to reach out! i solemnly swear i am up to no good 😈🕸️ twt: vo1dv1xen

Definitely a switch, but can get very deep into either headspace. Well-versed as a sub in casual contexts, in the early process of learning as a dom. Strictly sapphic romantically, VERY into the scene in general :) • homoflexible - only down for men in the bedroom under very specific and well-negotiated circumstances • In a very nice house rn with a hot tub, just looking for someone to spoil :) • vaxxed & tested often ✌️don’t message if u voted for the *** bro • back in my gym era omw to being an athlete again:)) • adhd aquarius w ab 20 countries and 800 years worth of lived experience packed into 23 years of life, which theoretically should make me wise, but

New to this app. I consider myself to be a sub with some bratty tendencies. Definitely interested in a 24/7 D/s dynamic.

I’m a fem dom looking for a few pets slaves bitches etc so don’t bother if that isn’t you

where the masked men at!!!?! I am shy and introverted but very outgoing and have a very bubbly personality once we become acquainted. i love spending my time at home with my cat listening to music doing my make up or spending time watching movies or spending time in little space (: I love arts and crafts and spend a lot of my free time making deco pacis for fellow littles like myself or just pacis for myself personally.

A sub figuring out what I do and don’t like. Looking ideally for a long term serious relationship that’s local to me or willing to become local to me

I’m looking for my daddy dom to put me in my place. I’m a sweet and petite submissive but can be a brat. I’m spicy and neurospicy lol. Requirements for my Daddy: -Patience -Clear communication -Strong commitment to safety, consent, and reliable aftercare -A man that balances absolute authority with compassionate nurturing -Must be between 40-55 years old -Tall over 6ft -Strong mentally and physically -Experienced in being a daddy dom and also in life

I'm a kind-hearted, genuine woman with a good sense of humor and a playful side. I'm a little quiet at first, but once I'm comfortable, you'll definitely see my goofy side. 😄 I value honesty, loyalty, respect, and good communication. I appreciate people who are genuine and treat others the way they want to be treated. I enjoy good conversations, laughing until my stomach hurts, quiet nights, and making memories. I'm independent, strong-minded, and definitely not afraid to speak my mind—but I also have a soft heart and care deeply about the people in my life. Basically, I'm just me—no games, no pretending, and no need to be anything I'm not. ❤️

I’m open to casual or serious connections just be honest about what you’re looking for and we’ll go from there. Interested in finding something serious/monogamous ( a d/s relationship with me being the s. but also open to other switches that lean dominant ) kinda looking for a soft dom that can put up with my (sometimes) bratty attitude In the meantime until that comes along I’m open to casual experiences and looking to have fun and explore bdsm/kink in general. I prefer to meet up for drinks (or just an ice breaker in general) instead of just getting right into it. We gotta test out the vibe a bit ya know? Also protection is a must, if that’s a deal breaker I’m not for you. Also psa for certain men (because I only have this problem with men and literally no other gender) being a dom doesn’t mean being a disrespectful asshole. Some of you really need to to learn the fucking difference. Uhhh closing statement I guess is if there’s anything more you’d like to know just ask me I guess?? oh and if it wasn’t obvious FUCK TRUMP, FUCK MAGA, FREE PALASTINE, ABOLISH ICE.