Kinky women in Vancouver

Hi hi! I have no experience in this lifestyle whatsoever but it’s definitely something I’m interested in. Let me know if you think you could teach me a little about the dom/sub lifestyle!

tgirls and non binary cuties to the front pls i lovelovelove nerds and geeky people. come to meeeee 😱💕💕 audhd very shy. just wanting to explore kinks and my sexuality. not looking for anything serious. would also just enjoy making friends (:

Selectively open to the right woman ✨🦄 ⛓️ Drawn to soft, submissive energy, tall, curvy, feminine, and self-aware. I share a dynamic with a Dom partner who leads with intention, control, and care. The experience is grounded in trust, chemistry, and exceptional aftercare. Discretion and alignment are essential. Not for everyone. ⭐️ Solo Play: Adventurous, playful, and always up for a good time. I love deep connection, but also enjoy a bit of spontaneity. I’m drawn to people of color and love connecting with melanin-rich, vibrant energy. Let’s see where the fun takes us! STI free with frequent checks, I enjoy being pursued and spoiled, princess treatment 👸🏻 Turn off -> lack of follow through/communication, wasting my time.

To start I recently separated (over a year ago) and I'm looking for fun, friends, and who knows what else. I'm a single white female and open-minded. Let's chat and see what happens. I like light choking. I don't exchange naughty or spicy pics right away. I like conversation for a bit first I would like someone in the Vancouver or Portland area.

Just an insatiable slut with a praise kink that loves being serviced so I can squirt in your mouth. Just as equally as I love being baby girl in the right hands. takes a very special kind of man to give that power up.

well to be honest I'm a married woman waiting for her husband to come home we got about 2 years left trying to live until then and in the meantime if anybody's got a girl they want to let me borrow I appreciate it 😂😂😂

I’m 5’11” tall & prefer 5’11” tall or taller. I laugh easily and am semi-domesticated with a feral streak. I am AuDHD—autism spectrum & ADHD, which means I take things literally, miss social cues, need time to process—which means I don’t chat on here, a few times with a total stranger, then hook up to fuck. I absolutely need to get to know someone a bit, before feeling the trust I need, to feel safe in being sexual with someone. That is non-negotiable. My AuDHD keeps me curious about everything, I am time blind, and have object/person impermanence. I struggle with transitioning from one activity to another, & can be impulsive. I am new to the sex positive community and am on the learning curve. So, if you’re looking for someone experienced here, with tons of confidence in what they want, and already knows what they’re doing, I’m not that. Not yet. I am a sapiosexual and attracted to non-judgmental guys with a good sense of humor. Patience, kindness, being emotionally fluent and capable of REAL Communication is a must! I share my STD screening results and expect to see yours. Been alcohol & drug free for 45 years. Vegetarian. INFP-A. I am in a DDLG relationship and have an Anchor Partner.

100% Brat. Generally very shy by nature & also bit overwhelmed with all the attention on here 😅 Looking for an experienced & caring dom who may also be interested in pursuing a relationship if the vibes are right. Open to being strictly playmates as well but preference is to build a form a relationship if possible. I can be a challenging brat at times, but I’m definitely not a switch! Not looking to be anyone’s mommy, but maybe I can call you Daddy?

CIS WOMEN ONLY👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩 I’m ENM (solo) looking to explore the other side of my sexuality with a cis woman. I love anything nature related. Hiking, pottery (it’s clay after all), or even just going to the farmers market and having a picnic. 🌳🏕️ I tend to overshare, so shut me up with a kiss 😉 Bratty and goofy all in one 🙈

Female half of extremely sexual couple. we love to play together or separate. we like playing with singles or couples. interested in threesomes, group sex, or one on one fun. Very interested in exploring more one on one with women. I am open to almost anything, come teach me something 😉 Bonus points if you like to camp, planning out a sexy camping weekend. Please don’t request access to my private gallery until we have messaged and then ask me directly instead of just request. ☺️

looking for a *** who likes ownership without the daily chaos — someone who enjoys spoiling, guiding, and keeping his girl grounded even when we’re not together. I’m submissive by nature, responsive to praise, and happiest when I feel wanted and taken care of in every way…yes, including financially. If you like a woman who melts for your rules and repays your care with attention, loyalty, and a very obedient attitude, you’ve found her. (*** is @taylortot13 if you think I deserve it 😘)

I’ve self funded so far, gotten filler, Botox, lashes, bbl, BA, lipo and rib remolding. Well ideally I’d like an intense tpe relationship where my partner is privately my owner and supports me while telling me how to look, dress, what surgeries to get etc. I’m in school atm so I don’t want to sit around and do nothing but I help with the bills and they cover what it takes to be molded into their dream. I’m open to eventual relocation but for the next couple of years school comes first and is nonnegotiable atm. Like I think it’s really hot for my owner to come up to me be like “ok so you’re getting your hair done at 9:40, then you’ll go the salon, the usual, afterwards you have a laser appointment, make sure you wear the red dress I like and we’re going out for dinner, hope you like the house salad”. Please don’t message me if you wanna give only advice, RP or not take it seriously. Also, I’m looking for someone that we can both fuel our passion, and we can support each other. Not someone to just tell me what to do while I do all the work, pay for everything etc. I want to respect both our times so please don’t play any games. If you’re interested DM me and I hope we can make something work.

I’m looking for a kinky boyfriend! Interested in the position? Feel free to enquire about seasonal work as a FWB. Sorry for the novel. To save us all time, I’ve had to keep adding things as I meet people here to be clear on what I’m seeking. I’m looking for someone who’s located within a 25ish mile radius of Vancouver WA. I can’t really host except a couple hours a week. I have my kid full time. She attends online school and aside from school holidays or when she’s at a couple of *** nights on Tuesday and Wednesday evenings, she’s home with me. That said, if you’re good I’ll eventually let you come over😉. My life is pretty busy but my feral 40s have kicked in and my needs often sneak up on me and demand to be met so accessibility is a huge priority. If I have to go to you (because my kid is underfoot) I can’t be driving for ages. I appreciate offers to travel to me but if I’m going to entertain that, know that you’re paying for the hotel room and you have to video chat with me at least a couple times first. I’m looking for in person fun only. I’m not interested in the virtual kinky conversations with anyone who’s not local. Please note I am a sapiosexual. If you want to get in my pants you’re gonna have to actually hold a conversation with me. I’m a curvy girl whose primary love language is physical touch and acts of service (ie I’m looking for someone nurturing). If you’re not very affectionate or snuggly do us both a favor and hit up someone else because neither of us would be happy together. I’m empathetic, intelligent, ambiverted & creative. I am currently obsessed with making pottery, and I enjoy reading smutty Romantacy. Im AuDHD, a homebody who wants snuggles in bed, and Saturday trips to farmers markets with a coffee in one hand and you in the other. Let’s go find food 🍱 🥩, get a ☕️ 🍸🥃, walk by/play in water🌊, enjoy music 🎼 , 💃 dancing, comedy 🎭 , a museum 🖼️, or the ballet 🩰 . —- Things that could be DEALBREAKERS for YOU: I’m a single mom with full time custody of a 14yr old who is 🏳️‍⚧️ 🏳️‍⚧️ 🏳️‍⚧️. I’m almost 5’ 9” and prefer you’re my height or taller. For those of you with bad allergies, I have 2 🐈‍ cats. Not open to cyber sex, *** 3 ways, or group activities of any kind.

**Hello!** I go by Puppet or D, she/her usually but don't mind a they/them. I'm a sometimes artist, sometimes designer, full time crafter looking to ease myself into the scene again after loosing my long term mate and play partner in 2023. Would love to find some friends to ease me in, be the lube to my awkward nature. Lol. Never sure what to put in these things, as I'm not used to talking about myself, but I guess as a fun fact, I can drive a stick (pun very intended). I'm an amateur writer, I really enjoy writing spicy short stories. I'm an avid reader, and looove a good romance novel that does kink justice. If you an old friend or a coworker and you see this - no you didn't. K thx, bye!

New sub looking for an experienced dom willing to train. I’m eager, intense, and want to know what makes you tick. Hopefully you’re the same. I require a deep emotional and intellectual connection for the trust required in this dynamic. The right person will be willing to earn my trust and submission, challenge my limits, and make me work for praise. Hard leftist. Conservative, moderate, and apolitical need not apply. This is a dealbreaker.

Single, looking for a longterm monogamous relationship with a kinky, fun, D/s aspect. I’ve been active in the local kink community for over 20 years. I enjoy going to munches and clubs with other kinky people. I’m seriously just looking for a D/s romantic forever relationship. I want to find someone who fully embraces the idea of a traditional relationship where you’re in charge but not in a micromanaging way. Interested in guys about 47 to 60 years old. Overly educated empty nester with a full and happy life and a successful career. I have a bunch of diy projects and hobbies going all the time. I like thrift shopping, gardening, cooking, all kinds of girly things. I’m NOT looking for someone to support me and I won’t quit my job. I love what I do and it makes a real difference in the world. Very much NOT interested in poly, ENM, or anything other than LTR. You can find me on Fetlife under the same user name.

I'm here to meet new people and hopefully make some friends. it's been hard to meet people so here I am . who knows if this will actually work but I figure it's worth a try. I wanna meet more people in the lifestyle , more people with similar interests and see where things take us . come say hi , who knows what might happen

I'm submissive with a touch of bratty, just looking for some fun/relationship at the moment. I'm looking for a ***/Soft Dom to guide me. I'm open to long distance or across the street. I have a voice kink, so I love talking on the phone and really getting to know someone. My kinks are spanking, light choking, ***s praising me, deep voice kinks.

** kinda lost interest in dating/vetting for now, so I’m really just here for the forums, and the random occasional mood to chat ** I’m naturally attracted to men who allow me to explore my submissive side, preferably with someone comfortable or familiar with the D/s dynamic , and wanting a committed monogamous relationship.

looking to learn and experience more…I’m a caregiver to the core but I really want to be taken care of, pampered, spoiled, dom/sub dynamic… teach me, I’m fairly new to this!

If you want to know what more I have to offer? ask for my sn ap **Desires and Fantasies** being caught in the act of playing with myself, being punished and used for your pleasure and left shaking from my own pleasure. being in a cnc situation where I am sleeping, get tied up and blindfolded, used, and not knowing who or how many people are in the room touching and using me. find me on Reddit for more of my fantasies: https://www.reddit.com/u/kiramosa/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

5'2" Thick, sweet, kind, naughty. Looking for a couple or a single female to become regular fwbs. I come with my man. We don't do seperate dates. Fun loving, kind, kinky duo.

I’m newly separating from my only relationship in my adult life of 10 years and intentionally stepping into the next version of my life. I’m a devoted mom, a natural caretaker, and also a certified baddie. I do home renovations, own a little business, and hold my own very well. I’m sweet and capable. I love thrifting, frugal living, cooking, baking, and my daily coffee ritual. I create comfort wherever I go, and when I choose someone, I spoil them through care, warmth, and consistency. I’m neurodivergent (OCD/ADHD), financially responsible, and deeply intentional with my energy. Did I mention I’m energetic asf? Sexually, I crave aggressive, affectionate, emotionally present energy , the kind of dominance that feels passionate, grounding, and deeply connected. I want intensity in bed- assertive, consuming, and sweet all at once. I love being led, reassured, and desired. I’m shy sexually and definitely need the leader part to shine through in my sexual partners. I’m not looking for a full-time or traditional committed relationship. I am looking for a meaningful, respectful, chemistry heavy connection with someone who understands dominance doesn’t require coldness and softness doesn’t mean weakness. I won’t have an exclusive relationship at this time as it’s my first time as an adult being single. I want to learn my way around life. If you want a woman who can bake you bread, run a household, melt into you when she trusts you, and meet your energy with loyalty and heat while calling her the sweetest babygirl around, we’ll probably get along just fine.

Eat my ass like a cupcake! I’m a pretty, plus size , thick goddess who needs her ass worshipped. big beautiful woman lovers only… must be local for a reply.

Hi hi! I have no experience in this lifestyle whatsoever but it’s definitely something I’m interested in. Let me know if you think you could teach me a little about the dom/sub lifestyle!

Selectively open to the right woman ✨🦄 ⛓️ Drawn to soft, submissive energy, tall, curvy, feminine, and self-aware. I share a dynamic with a Dom partner who leads with intention, control, and care. The experience is grounded in trust, chemistry, and exceptional aftercare. Discretion and alignment are essential. Not for everyone. ⭐️ Solo Play: Adventurous, playful, and always up for a good time. I love deep connection, but also enjoy a bit of spontaneity. I’m drawn to people of color and love connecting with melanin-rich, vibrant energy. Let’s see where the fun takes us! STI free with frequent checks, I enjoy being pursued and spoiled, princess treatment 👸🏻 Turn off -> lack of follow through/communication, wasting my time.

**Hello!** I go by Puppet or D, she/her usually but don't mind a they/them. I'm a sometimes artist, sometimes designer, full time crafter looking to ease myself into the scene again after loosing my long term mate and play partner in 2023. Would love to find some friends to ease me in, be the lube to my awkward nature. Lol. Never sure what to put in these things, as I'm not used to talking about myself, but I guess as a fun fact, I can drive a stick (pun very intended). I'm an amateur writer, I really enjoy writing spicy short stories. I'm an avid reader, and looove a good romance novel that does kink justice. If you an old friend or a coworker and you see this - no you didn't. K thx, bye!

I’m 5’11” tall & prefer 5’11” tall or taller. I laugh easily and am semi-domesticated with a feral streak. I am AuDHD—autism spectrum & ADHD, which means I take things literally, miss social cues, need time to process—which means I don’t chat on here, a few times with a total stranger, then hook up to fuck. I absolutely need to get to know someone a bit, before feeling the trust I need, to feel safe in being sexual with someone. That is non-negotiable. My AuDHD keeps me curious about everything, I am time blind, and have object/person impermanence. I struggle with transitioning from one activity to another, & can be impulsive. I am new to the sex positive community and am on the learning curve. So, if you’re looking for someone experienced here, with tons of confidence in what they want, and already knows what they’re doing, I’m not that. Not yet. I am a sapiosexual and attracted to non-judgmental guys with a good sense of humor. Patience, kindness, being emotionally fluent and capable of REAL Communication is a must! I share my STD screening results and expect to see yours. Been alcohol & drug free for 45 years. Vegetarian. INFP-A. I am in a DDLG relationship and have an Anchor Partner.

I’m going to be so honest, I thought this was Fetish Finder.🤦🏼‍♀️🤣 My main goal is to build a portfolio as a Mistress but I’m currently creating content involving food, balloons, and really whatever tickles my fancy (and other parts). I want to make tasteful art that happens to be sexy.😈😇 I’m not looking to date; I’m looking for specific, meaningful exchanges with people who know what they want. Send me ideas/inspiration/fantasies and we can discuss pricing. Hell, if I really like the idea, or you, I’ll do it for free! 💋*The weirder, the better!*💋

I'm here to meet new people and hopefully make some friends. it's been hard to meet people so here I am . who knows if this will actually work but I figure it's worth a try. I wanna meet more people in the lifestyle , more people with similar interests and see where things take us . come say hi , who knows what might happen

CIS WOMEN ONLY👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩 I’m ENM (solo) looking to explore the other side of my sexuality with a cis woman. I love anything nature related. Hiking, pottery (it’s clay after all), or even just going to the farmers market and having a picnic. 🌳🏕️ I tend to overshare, so shut me up with a kiss 😉 Bratty and goofy all in one 🙈

Single, looking for a longterm monogamous relationship with a kinky, fun, D/s aspect. I’ve been active in the local kink community for over 20 years. I enjoy going to munches and clubs with other kinky people. I’m seriously just looking for a D/s romantic forever relationship. I want to find someone who fully embraces the idea of a traditional relationship where you’re in charge but not in a micromanaging way. Interested in guys about 47 to 60 years old. Overly educated empty nester with a full and happy life and a successful career. I have a bunch of diy projects and hobbies going all the time. I like thrift shopping, gardening, cooking, all kinds of girly things. I’m NOT looking for someone to support me and I won’t quit my job. I love what I do and it makes a real difference in the world. Very much NOT interested in poly, ENM, or anything other than LTR. You can find me on Fetlife under the same user name.

I am poly with a partner (we date separately). I am looking for another partner where I can have a deep connected relationship that does not just focus on sex but what makes a relationship work. I have 4 kids, and the last was an urgent c-section about 5 months ago and am dealing with complications after it. I am not looking for a hook up or friends with benefits.

tgirls and non binary cuties to the front pls i lovelovelove nerds and geeky people. come to meeeee 😱💕💕 audhd very shy. just wanting to explore kinks and my sexuality. not looking for anything serious. would also just enjoy making friends (:

Female half of extremely sexual couple. we love to play together or separate. we like playing with singles or couples. interested in threesomes, group sex, or one on one fun. Very interested in exploring more one on one with women. I am open to almost anything, come teach me something 😉 Bonus points if you like to camp, planning out a sexy camping weekend. Please don’t request access to my private gallery until we have messaged and then ask me directly instead of just request. ☺️

Hi there.. Curious, sensual and sarcastic here

I’ve self funded so far, gotten filler, Botox, lashes, bbl, BA, lipo and rib remolding. Well ideally I’d like an intense tpe relationship where my partner is privately my owner and supports me while telling me how to look, dress, what surgeries to get etc. I’m in school atm so I don’t want to sit around and do nothing but I help with the bills and they cover what it takes to be molded into their dream. I’m open to eventual relocation but for the next couple of years school comes first and is nonnegotiable atm. Like I think it’s really hot for my owner to come up to me be like “ok so you’re getting your hair done at 9:40, then you’ll go the salon, the usual, afterwards you have a laser appointment, make sure you wear the red dress I like and we’re going out for dinner, hope you like the house salad”. Please don’t message me if you wanna give only advice, RP or not take it seriously. Also, I’m looking for someone that we can both fuel our passion, and we can support each other. Not someone to just tell me what to do while I do all the work, pay for everything etc. I want to respect both our times so please don’t play any games. If you’re interested DM me and I hope we can make something work.

Hi there!! I am looking for a man to top me. I'm not looking for a vanilla partner. I need someone caring but dominant. I want to be taken away from my reality and put in my subbie place. A play partner. I want a man's hands all over me... and in me! I was in a Master/slave relationship for 10 years and we broke up quite a while ago. I'm ready to have fun again. I'm not interested in 24/7. I don't "top from the bottom", or play games with people's hearts. I am honest to a fault and that honesty sometimes hurts, but I will be the first to tell you when I messed up. I have my own issues and I am working on them, I am not perfect, but I am NOT looking for someone to help fix me. Two notes: I'm sorry, but I'm only interested in men BWC who live in Vancouver Washington. And... I'm disabled. So physically I am unable to do certain things anymore.

New sub looking for an experienced dom willing to train. I’m eager, intense, and want to know what makes you tick. Hopefully you’re the same. I require a deep emotional and intellectual connection for the trust required in this dynamic. The right person will be willing to earn my trust and submission, challenge my limits, and make me work for praise. Hard leftist. Conservative, moderate, and apolitical need not apply. This is a dealbreaker.

Just an insatiable slut with a praise kink that loves being serviced so I can squirt in your mouth. Just as equally as I love being baby girl in the right hands. takes a very special kind of man to give that power up.

Poly/ENM. Drawn to women, tempted by anyone who can connect emotionally and physically tho. If you crave spark, presence, and tension you can taste… come here. Date separate or together no drama let’s talk and figure out dynamic out. Always communicate

well to be honest I'm a married woman waiting for her husband to come home we got about 2 years left trying to live until then and in the meantime if anybody's got a girl they want to let me borrow I appreciate it 😂😂😂

** kinda lost interest in dating/vetting for now, so I’m really just here for the forums, and the random occasional mood to chat ** I’m naturally attracted to men who allow me to explore my submissive side, preferably with someone comfortable or familiar with the D/s dynamic , and wanting a committed monogamous relationship.

I’m newly separating from my only relationship in my adult life of 10 years and intentionally stepping into the next version of my life. I’m a devoted mom, a natural caretaker, and also a certified baddie. I do home renovations, own a little business, and hold my own very well. I’m sweet and capable. I love thrifting, frugal living, cooking, baking, and my daily coffee ritual. I create comfort wherever I go, and when I choose someone, I spoil them through care, warmth, and consistency. I’m neurodivergent (OCD/ADHD), financially responsible, and deeply intentional with my energy. Did I mention I’m energetic asf? Sexually, I crave aggressive, affectionate, emotionally present energy , the kind of dominance that feels passionate, grounding, and deeply connected. I want intensity in bed- assertive, consuming, and sweet all at once. I love being led, reassured, and desired. I’m shy sexually and definitely need the leader part to shine through in my sexual partners. I’m not looking for a full-time or traditional committed relationship. I am looking for a meaningful, respectful, chemistry heavy connection with someone who understands dominance doesn’t require coldness and softness doesn’t mean weakness. I won’t have an exclusive relationship at this time as it’s my first time as an adult being single. I want to learn my way around life. If you want a woman who can bake you bread, run a household, melt into you when she trusts you, and meet your energy with loyalty and heat while calling her the sweetest babygirl around, we’ll probably get along just fine.

How do I describe lil ol me? hmmm.... An infinite omega and yet not... something soft and gentle. I love to be caressed but also love a firm bass hand slap on the ass. I'm a 50/50 girl. Love love yet also love it rough. Love the feeling of the rope being united and you get a slow hot burn. Yet a hand that knows how to be gentle and teeth that can bite with just the right pressure. Open to most things and get excited to try new things. Romance is beautiful but being a vixen can be damn sexy. I'm usually pretty dominant and just go after what I want. Unless you make me shy. Then it takes some work. Love to be dominant with my ladies, especially those that enjoy it. Tendency to be submissive with men at least that's what I enjoy to be but some bring out the lioness. Write me. See where it leads....

I'm just jumping back into life.... 10 years needed to heal, and I did. shy until you get to know me. if I want your attention... you will know it, ì can be a little brattylol. I am very playful when I trust you. I am very honest and loyal.

To start I recently separated (over a year ago) and I'm looking for fun, friends, and who knows what else. I'm a single white female and open-minded. Let's chat and see what happens. I like light choking. I don't exchange naughty or spicy pics right away. I like conversation for a bit first I would like someone in the Vancouver or Portland area.

100% Brat. Generally very shy by nature & also bit overwhelmed with all the attention on here 😅 Looking for an experienced & caring dom who may also be interested in pursuing a relationship if the vibes are right. Open to being strictly playmates as well but preference is to build a form a relationship if possible. I can be a challenging brat at times, but I’m definitely not a switch! Not looking to be anyone’s mommy, but maybe I can call you Daddy?