I'm a SwM (Single White Male) / Born on 10 Sept., 1972 / Reside alone in a clean, & roomy 1-bedroom apt. on the 400-block of E. King Street Lancaster, PA 17602, with no pets, or kids, & I've never been married. I've never been diagnosed with any deadly STDs, & I'm not into having multiple partners; you can feel safe, knowing that, about me. I am monogamous. Make sure you are, as well.

I'm both very easy to talk to, & to deal
with, & are D&D-free, & neither smoke, do illicit ***, nor drink. I am
a Christian, & do not believe in, nor shall I accept a 1-night stand,
or some basic, so-called 'platonic' relationship. I seek a long term
relationship with a SwF pref. from PA, 25-50, who drives or who understands how to use pub. transp., as I do.

Musts

You must be an independent lady, and who can also stomach an independent, monogamous
& a creative man, who is in touch with his feelings.
You must be emotionally stable, meaning... no unprovoked explosive nastiness, or I will hastily abandon what's left of our relationship. Period.
You will either drive, own a bike of some kind, or know how to utilize public transport, & you will be both willing & able to depart your residence to actively travel to my location--or to anyplace which you and I determine to meet at, to participate in a long-term relationship.
You must have a kind attitude, & have a good sense of humor.
No begging me for $. I'm retired, & I'm no walking bank, so...
...don't ask.
You MUST be a permanent res., of the US. I am not now, nor have I ever been the least bit suited to any long-dist. relat. You will be a permanent, legal citizen of the USA, or I shall not oblige to participate in any romantic relationship, with you.

I have much to offer, in terms of being emotionally stable, very polite, & have very
good cooking skills, plus I happen to be very good with my hands.
I'm a creator, & love to create. It's both a blessing to me, & a gift.
I also greatly enjoy a whimsical sense of humor, & love to make others laugh
through impersonations, & a quick wit.

I cannot stand rude, grossly obnoxious, socially-retarded women, nor shall I settle for some woman who tries to bully me into some type of a so-called 'platonic' relationship. I'm neither suited to, nor shall I ever be comfortable accepting ANY type of a so-called platonic, 'just buddies'
arrangement. End of story. I'm a man with the feelings of one, and that will be respected, just as you expect you & your feelings to be respected, in that same way.

Kinky Date25 to 45 years ● 5km around USA, Lancaster one year ago

NOT LOOKING FOR HOOK UPS.
Also, I won't communicate with guys unless we're talking about a possible LTR. Thank you.

Okay, moving on...😉

I'm hoping to date a fantastic man who wants a LTR that includes over the top sex. I am definitely not desperate nor in a rush. But I'd like to find a loving, compatible, LTR of some sort. Only looking on Fet because I like kink so much. I don't know how to meet that kind of man in the vanilla world.

About Me:
-A happy person, conscientious and responsible, but fun and relaxation are also priorities.
-Very high sex drive. I love romantic sex, rough sex, all kinds. Sex is very important to me. I have some flexibility about how sex in a LTR might go, as long as it's not just vanilla.
--I have been in long-term monogamous relationships for most of my adult life. I can be faithful and honest. I honor my agreements. I have integrity.
-5ft. 5-1/2 and 125#. Slender. Flat stomach.
-Uninhibited, but discreet in daily life.
-I work and have a professional job. I'm not a freeloader. Very well educated and well read.
--I love the mountains and the beach. I love travel, but I'm also a homebody.
-I like meeting new people and group scenes, but I also enjoy my alone time.
-Atheist. Formerly practiced Zen.
-I'm totally committed to a healthy lifestyle. I eat very healthy (plant-based). Almost totally vegan. Would you cook with me?
--I stay active. I love dancing, running, walking, yoga, sometimes indoor rock climbing.
--I'm not a big drinker, but I like a little wine sometimes. Like one glass and I'm done.
-D/d free. Not against pot, but it doesn't interest me. It just makes me feel weird.
-Told I'm pretty. Natural 36D.
-Love to laugh, watch comedy, memes, jokes. I have a good sense of humor.
-Over 50, but going strong. I have no health problems.
--I don't squirt.
-Recently found out I love riding on the back of a Harley and indoor rock climbing.
--I love babies, children and ***s. But I don't want to raise any more kids. My kids are now grown at last. I don't want to put anyone on the school bus, go to IEP meetings, no more Boy Scouts or driving to karate lessons. This is Me Time at last and it includes a lot of crazy sex stuff.

Looking for a man who is:
--Close enough to me that we can date in person. Under 2 hours away for sure.
--Someone who expects to DATE me for a while and build a foundation for a real relationship. I'm not going to start having sex right away, because a friendship of some kind must precede the sex. You and I both know after we start having sex it will be hard to do anything else. So let's start things off right. If you are serious about me you'll do it this way. You can have sex with anyone else you want during that time. I'm not taking your dick hostage.
-Kind and usually happy. Optimistic and agreeable. Slow to anger. And a giving nature, because I'm very giving.
-On the extroverted side, confident, friendly, hopefully has at least a couple good friends.
-Honest. Has a strong sense of integrity.
-Good communication skills.

-Hyper-sexual or has an above average sex drive! This is a must. Long lasting and sometimes enjoys sex marathons, or generally you have a very good sex drive.

-Be in your late 40's, 50's, and looking good. Over 60, you must be unusually active and fit for your age.
-FIT and healthy at any age is a must. Chubby won't cut it.
-Intelligent. Formal education is less important than being smart, well read and successful.
-Successful career = you like your work and can pay your bills.
-Adventurous! Open to new experiences.
-Affectionate, kisses, snuggles, can fall in love.
-SINGLE. Divorced. Not currently living with a spouse or girl-friend for any reason. I repeat, if you are living with a woman for any reason, then I won't date you!
-Sense of humor
-Above average penis size. At least 7.
-Interested in a LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP. Obviously we don't know if it will work out, but do you want that if you meet the right person? Might not be marriage, but you want us to live together in a LTR for the rest of our lives.
-Probably okay with including, but limiting, sexual contact with others outside of our relationship once it's serious. I'd do monogamy again with the right person. But it doesn't have to be that. I don't want to be permanently stuck in that again.
-I'm very okay with bisexual men.
-Prefer someone more Dom than sub, but not a deal breaker. I like switches, since I'm a switch. Would do LTR with a masculine sub male.
--Not into having a Daddy at all! Zero interest in age play.

If your greatest joy is fucking lots of different people, then we aren't going to get along. I don't want a LTR with someone who always needs sex with a lot of other men/women in order to be happy.

I'm still legally married, but we aren't having sex. Separated in the same house. It's a complicated due to finances. We aren't fighting. No drama. He knows I'm seeing others. So is he. I KNOW I'm ready to go if the right person is here and we have a strong relationship.

I would relocate for the right person. Hopefully someone within a couple hours of me, because I have strong ties to my kids. Dating long distance is also very hard. If you have ideas about how to do it...

I am free and clear to date, travel and do things when I want as I am not cheating. If a man has to lie or hide me from people, then I'm not interested in dating. I'm not going to date someone and hope he'll leave his wife or wait for his children to accept me. Do you own your life or not?

I'm in SE PA. Nearby places include Coatesville, Philly, Allentown, Lancaster, Reading, York, Hershey, Harrisburg, etc.

I don't think I'm perfect. I'm not looking for perfect. I realize I'm looking for the proverbial needle in the hay stack. Is that you?

I have plenty more photos of myself that I'll gladly share if you and I are thinking we'd like to meet. Please have plenty of recent photos of you, too. (Lots of guys get mad when I want to see more than two pix.) And have a wonderful day!

Kinky Date46 to 60 years ● 5km around USA, Lancaster one year ago

PLEASE ONLY MESSAGE ME IF

  • YOU HAVE READ AND COMPREHENDED MY ENTIRE PROFILE
  • YOU LIVE LESS THAN AN HOUR FROM THE LANCASTERMANHEIM AREA
  • YOU ARE BETWEEN THE AGES OF 32 AND 52
  • YOU ARE NOT ATTACHED IN ANY OTHER WAY
  • NO CHILDREN OR CHILDREN HAVE FLOWN THE COUP
  • YOU HAVE A DRIVERS LICENSE, CAR, MEANS OF INCOME, PLACE TO RESIDE
    (I am merely looking for someone with, at the very least, the same amount of adult responsibility that I have. I cannot believe that I have to request this, but the amount of people, my age and older that have none of those is astounding.)

    My tag line is pretty much how I wish to live my life, and is also a quote from one of my favorite movies.

    I have been involved within this lifestyle for all of my adult life about 20 years of experiences and as always, the journey has led me down many paths, and it is always ever changing.

    Im smart enough to know what I want and need, and open minded enough to know that I still have much to learn.

    I have become jaded with the lifestyle over my years of involvement, and perhaps I do have a bit of a chip on my shoulder.

    While I may identify as submissive on the lifestyle spectrum, it does not mean that I am this way with random internet strangers. Take the time to talk to me, show interest in wanting to know me, and the rest will follow.

    I am only seeking long term situations. I would, for the right match, make of them the axis that my world spins upon.

    I have been on the submissive end of the spectrum for the majority of my involvement in the lifestyle. Some of my happiest times were when I was involved in a 247live insubmissivegirlfriendwife.

    I have also experimented, and found a fondness, for the top end of the spectrum for situational play. This is usually just for play or fun. For me, it can almost be described as being a service top.

    For me, the lifestyle is so much more than the physical. For me the mental and connection is more important than the physical.

    I am NOT motivated or focused on sex and physical play. If you are only here to get your rocks off, please, just pass me by.

    On the physicalkink side of things, the activities I enjoy, in time with someone, range from flogging, cell popping, sensation play, orgasm , deep thuddy play, and especially on the top side - tease and denial.

    For non-kink interests...
    I am a taphophile at heart and am genuinely intrigued by, obsessed with, addicted to, have a strong appreciation and respect for etc. all things regarding taphophilia, death, dead things, mourning, grieving, cemeteries, etc. These interests CAN and DO filter over into my kink life in varying degrees. Always happy to talk more in private about them.

    I do have hobbies (addictions), inlcuding WoW (TaphNoir1200), horror movies, industrial and metal music, bellydancing (to industrial and metal music), reading, coloring, enjoying nature, crocheting, playing various boardcard games and am a VERY casual Magic The Gathering player.

    I have a strange sense of humor, use sarcasm as my second language and am a shining example of an introvert.

    Im also a hobbyist artist, mainly
    ting various whimsical things on stone, with a focus on dragon eyes.

    I am lightly tattooed, and have small gauges in both of my ears as well as a daith piercing.

    Yes, I am pale, chubby, freckled, crazy fuzzy chemo-hair regrowth, I have scars, I have health ailments, I have physical limitations for bondage, and am nowhere near the most gorgeous thing youll see. In saying these things I wish to get the physically focused, all about the look people out of the way.

    I also have a few health ailments including Diabetes, Intracranial Hypertension, and am currently in remission from Ovarian Cancer as of 3419.

    I am looking for a legit connection with someone for something long term and lasting.

    I have NO interest in hookups, merely play partners, etc.

    I look forward to any sincere messages.

Kinky Date32 to 52 years ● 50km around USA, Manheim 4 years ago

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