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I found out over the past summer that I like this strange activity. I went over to my old house where my ex girlfriend still resides to repair some electrical. She was swimming in the pool with a bunch of family from out of town. I was in the garage working and she came out in her bikini. She is 25yo very attractive and being half mexican, she's built nice. We broke up 3 years ago but remained close friends. Anyway, she had been drinking and told me she learned how to pee standing up and dod I want to see. I said why the hell would i want to watch that? Yeah why not. So we went outside of the garge and in to the grass. Her family couldn't see where we were. She pissed on the side of the garage and I was hard as a rock and confused about why. I told her that it somehow made me hard so she grabbed it in disbelief. She said there's something wrong with me for liking that. So I needed to finish and we went in to the garage where she let me touch her while she gave me a handjob. This happened 2 more times. I was so in to it that I had to see if there videos of this and there were tons. I was showing her what I found and we watched a couple of them. Then we saw one where the woman was pissing on his hard cock... we both said how gross that was but then i said it aroused me. She gave me that look like you are disgusting go way. About a week later I went to the house and when I was about to leave she said she has to piss and did i want to watch. I said hell yes and shevasked if i wanted her to pee on me. I hesitated because i was in shock then said kinda yes. That day changed my life. We've done this a few times but she let me know it's going to have to stop soon. We stopped having intercourse shortly after we broke up but continued playing at times when neither of us were seeing anyone. Sorry this is so long and sounds like a fantasy but it happened just like this and I was a lucky guy. Now Im looking for anyone else that is in to this weird kink.